Rcr and 498a
Abha
(Querist) 16 March 2013
This query is : Resolved
Sir/Ma'am,
I am Abha Srivastava from Jhansi married to Ankur Saxena. They married me under a fraud, lied that I will not be made to stay in Chennai. Tortured me for dowry, cash demands and forced me to agree for sex determination of my unborn child. When I denied, they refused all medical help to me and sent me away to my parents place on 17th Nov'11, only 6 months after marriage. I have been with my parents since then till date. After my daughter was born on 1st June'12, they put up unjustified demands and asked me to break all to do with my parents and brother. Unfortunately, my daughter passed away on 13 Aug'12. They put up unacceptable terms before me if I wanted to join them back. I tried to talk to them but they have stopped responding to my mails and phone calls. My husband filed RCR, but no copy of petition has come to me till now even after I sent a letter to the Sub_court Tambaram, Chennai, where he currently resides and has filed RCR in December '12. Kindly Guide me what to do? The climate and water of Chennai is not suiting me and I am being harresed and tortured publicly and privately there. My husband is good to me when his parents are not around, and when they come, I become invisible for him. We are not allowed to sit together, talk or even sleep in one room. They show as if they married me only to bear them a son and then leave. I do not want to file 498A. Do I have any other option?
Advocate M.Bhadra
(Expert) 16 March 2013
Try to reconciliation and restore your relation by amicably both of you and stay with your husband far away from your in-laws house.This is the realistic world,judicial process is lengthy.
Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 16 March 2013
Dear Abha
you should file an application for settle the issues before Women Cell or before counseller.
Feel Free to call
Rajeev Kumar
(Expert) 16 March 2013
Life is the name of compormise. So settle the matter amicably and restore your relationship
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 16 March 2013
It shall be better to personally talk clearly with your husband and settle elsewhere in the larger interest of whole married life of both keeping in view the circumstances you told and if he becomes ready then it is best otherwise you should not hesitate to go ahead to file 498A and DV Act case along-with maintenance case.
