sandykrish
24 February 2014 at 19:00
Hi I have a typical question for experts on this LCI forum.
1. Wife Deserted Dec 2012, several elder meeting failed. Did not come back
2. Filed RCR August 2013, in the mediation demanded 20 lakhs, Arrived at one amount but my and my counsel condition was DD will be handed over during the second motion and precisely on the day of Divorce Judgement
3. Wife agreed filed first motion, we both filed the divorce on Jan 02 2014 and the next date of hearing is on July 04 2014. I believe the first motion is over is it right?
4. Now I had withdrawn my RCR petition based on the MCD petition filed.
5. Now if she doesn't turn up for second motion will this amounts to mental cruelty? as only because of her I withdraw RCR petition.
6.I believe the only option left out to me is the contested divorce. How good will my position be if I apply for the contested divorce based on the above grounds?
Amit Nair
24 February 2014 at 18:36
(Sub: Custody of Child from affair with a married woman)
Dear Sir/Madam,
i just want to get some advice from experts on my case...
3 year back(in 2011) my friend told me to go with his wife to a doctor for some kind of consultation and from that day i am getting in touch with his wife. and in couple of months she started to talk with me on phone and then she told me that her married life is not okay with her husband and she often discuss their family dispute with me. She told me that is alone even after marriage and is not happy with her wedlock. I have never misguided her in this regard. But i don’t know why she proposed me one day and ask me that she is in love with me. She said “i love you and cannot think to live without you in any case kindly accept my love; if you do not accept me I’ll commit suicide.” And by this act she offers her self to me.
On this incident i can not able to understand what is this and what to do and i refused to accept her offer, after that i started to reject her phone calls. And get away from her life.
When i say NO to her, On my refusal to her offer she tries to commit suicide as she already threatens me earlier for this.
After few days unfortunately again she meets me and feels sorry for her earlier dialogues with me & her act of committing suicide. And ask me to kindly ignore last conversation and request me to be her friend. In that case i accepted her friendship and clearly told to her never cross the limits of friendship.
Then we start to meets regularly on weekend or holidays or some others for chat or tea etc.
Gradually the phone calls between us were increase. And she became my best friend in the short period, as a friend i share all thing with her almost.
One day around 9:30 pm (night) she call me and told me that she is alone in home with her daughter and her daughter is not well so that is why she didn’t prepare any thing for lunch in noon and for dinner also. Then she requested to me to kindly bring some food from hotel/dhaba for her. On her request i purchase some food from market and go to her home. As i reached to her home she told me to kindly be seated and offer me to take some tea with her. On that day i also take some wine in the evening on the time of leaving from my office. But as i take my tea suddenly i feel wrong and i start to vomit, and feel sleepy.
After some time i notice that she is with me in her bed and she is sleeping with me. (i shocked to see this all )
I remember that time when i start to feel heaviness in my eyes and sleepiness; at that time she laughed on me and takes me with her on the bed. all things are going on in front of my eyes but i am not able to understand what happened.
in the early morning around 3:00 am that night i feel better and come to my home. After that day i was in great depression and mantle disturbance. After that i totally break all relation with her and even i shifted to another city to get out of this all.
After a couple of months she approaches to me again ask me to marry with her. She told me that she is pregnant and have my child in her womb so now she can not live with her husband any more.
Now this is very hard to accept all things for me in a minute i totally disappointing with her act. But on another hand i also start to feel some attachment with her due to her pregnancy.
When i ask her that how she blame me cause of her pregnancy during that period she also slept with her husband on this she told me that they (she & her hubby) do not have intercourse from last one and half month.
I never ready to be with her as she wish and never accept her offer to have any physical relationship with her. Just because of this she makes such plan and traps me. By spending some time with me she understands my nature and come to know that i am weak on emotional side. She comes to know that emotions are my weakness and only by this mean she can get me.
Now she told me that she is not opting to abort this child as this was her wish to have a child from me so she is going to give birth to this child and that is why she does not use any contra septic pills.
Now she starts to make me fool by treating me as her hubby and father of this child. Day after day her demands increasing, she start to demand money from me for medical and other facility she need during her pregnancy and threaten me that is i do not fulfil her all demand she will tell to everyone about this child, and told me that if i fulfil all her demand she will never open this secrets to anyone.
She also demand me to fulfil her physical thrust and compel me to do sex with her even i do not want to do so any more.
But during this all somewhere in my heart some kind of love /affection created for that child and i start to love that child.
Then she delivers a Girl Child in 2012.
Now she demands me for more money and i give it to her time to time. She demands money or a sex night with her whenever i ask her to give me some time to play with my child as a consideration. Now i come to understand all things and realise that this is just a game of blackmailing. Now everything is open to me this just a type of blackmailing.
Then one day i ask her to get divorce from her husband and marry to me. For just get a confirmation on my thinking of being blackmailed by her. She starts new disputes with me and again threatens to open this secret to everyone.
Know she told me that she was just want to see my head in her foot. She do this all for her sexual satisfaction. She told me that she do so because when i refuses to make any physical relation with her on that day she decided to get me on her bed in any cost and for this she give birth to my child because by this way she get total control over me and i have to do anything as per her order.
Know i am love my child so much and i cannot live without my child. I decided not marry because i do not have trust in any women anymore.
I just want to get the custody of my child. In any way at any cost.
I know my case is clearly a case of come and kill me And I can not prove my self innocent in any way
Due to non availability of proper evidence.
But kindly suggest me what to do. Otherwise i have only way that i forcefully get my child and go to some other place where no body know me.
By this every thing will go against me & may be my life with my lovely child comes to an end before starting.
(Note: i have only few phone calls recording with that as evidence and a photo)
Also advise me how ascertain paternity of that child, how to conduct dna test for it.
Kindly help me..............
Sandip Mishra
24 February 2014 at 18:33
Dear Sir,
I being the owner of the immovable property executed an agreement to sell the property in favor of Buyer. Now i donot want to sell that property. I am not received the full consideration. The agreement to sell the property is of july and on that date the party has to pay the balance amount. I have accepted the advance. Please suggest whether i can cancell the agreement, giving reason that my family members not agree for this. However i am the absolute owner of the property.
and also Please suggest how can i cancell the agreement to sell the property.
Regards,
sandeep mishra
Rajesh Sivadas
24 February 2014 at 18:33
Hi,
My Name is Rajesh Sivadas. I am writing to you as i am a victim of harassment by a debt collection agency in Mumbai.
I was unable to pay my debt due to financial problems and family obligations. I am homeless and have taken shelter with my sister with my nine month old son and wife. I have been getting phone calls from this agency in Mumbai. They want me to settle the PL account and have offered me a pay off for rupees 34100. With zero income i asked them to give me some time to arrange for the funds or to allow me to pay that in twelve installments. they are not willing to work with me and are calling my in-laws and harassing them.
This is now giving me family problems and i am going through depression. I have lost my job and am not able to find one as i am not well educated.
Please suggest what i need to do.
Regards,
Rajesh Sivadas
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Amit Nair
24 February 2014 at 18:18
i was in relationship with a married woman from her i have child ,, is there any way to get custody of that child in any way...
kindly read the details file attached herewith ....
kindly help me...
DHIRAJ CHANDRAKANT KUMBHAR
24 February 2014 at 18:10
Sir, m in possession n occupation of one flat, and the same is been purchased 8years back n d same fall within d jurisdiction of municipal corporation, and even there are 155 buildings in our vicinity which have also obtained proper bldg permission and even completion certificate, however are n all this 155 bldg are nearby central railway line. Now sir d greivance is central railway served us a final 3rd time notice to all thiss 155 bldgs and its occupier stating that evict all our premise and handover d peace full possession of land on which this 155 bldg are constructed to them as all this land is been reserved 15years back for central railways, however, till today no acquisition and awards procedure is been carried. So sir I wanted 2 know how cm they can do so, as + 90 bldg out of the 155 bldgs are constructed even prior to reservation and what are the consequentials benefits for which we are entitled and even what will they provides inturn of d same.
Jimit Sukhadia
24 February 2014 at 17:47
Dear Sir,
Is there any case study which proves eligibility to sale DEPB Licence sale against Form C in Gujarat. The Accessing authority is in viwe that DEPB Licence cant be sold against form C..
Thanks,
Jimit Sukhadia
Neeraj Kaushal
24 February 2014 at 17:40
I have sent notice , but notice returned back with remarks , person is not residing there, what can i do now, if i will file complaint , then accused can take defence of service of notice. kindly suggest .
Magee
24 February 2014 at 17:22
Dear All,
My husband write in his petition ,( allegation ) to me . In last year i am doing Abortion,without my information .He also told the counseling officer she get the false sing in Father in low ( his father ).
Short Summary of Matter..
I have already one son age between 5 years & i don't want other child b'coz , my husband always out of country for work & he & his family not treat me well so when he come in last year so we both are going to our family doctor ( in native place ) & i am told him - I don't want any child b'coz my husband & my relation is not good as well as my health is not well , & my husband always out of country for work, so now i don't want any child now. I am Mentally not prepare for this child . I am very clearly that time told to doctor.Than my husband told me ok & when i going then get the abortion with go my father.So then after he went i am going to hospital with my father in low & doing the abortion.This is time between March 2013.
But now my husband allegation to me am doing Abortion,without my information.
So my question is regarding this court can take any Legally action to me.In my family doctor is now in my husband native place. He is private hospital in small town.
Now i am file my case in DV act in Mumbai City.. How can i prove i am right .
Please suggest..and give me expert Advise..
Thanks,
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Builder not handover register ntc
I have home which construct in 1995. At that Builder Register One NTC under Bombay Non trading Act 1959. Builder Constructed some illegal construction which still unsold at current. He also not pay some legal dues also.
My first query is that after abolish this law what the status of this NTC
Second can we start to operate this NTC if builder not handover to us.
The Property situated & Register NTC is in Ahmedabad Gujarat.
Please reply me