Dear Experts,
I have a son of 5 yrs out of 6 yrs marriage life.I live in kolkata for employment in a reputed concern. My parents live in my native place in a semi town area in W.B. Being only one son I always insisted on my wife's living in my native place with my parents and I visit them at every weekend. But my wife was against my will from the very begging and always created artificial problem.So, there was a tension in the relationship.In 2009 I took her kolkata again.Here in kolkata when I discovered an extramarital affairs and insisted on her going back to my native place. But She went to her parents house and remained there upto Dec'12.She convinced her parents that I tortured her mentally.They also kept my Son and 1 year of schooling .I send Rs.2000/- P.M. as per my lawyer's advice.In Jan'13 she again requested me that at least one chance she should be allowed to rectify herself.I agreed and rented a flat in anew area.My son is also admitted in one of the best school of kolkata. But That was my blunder after two months we went to our native place and stayed one night and collect the remaining 3 sets of her jwellery and went to her parents. and informed that she did not want to continue the conjugal life anymore.Againn another one year spoiled .
My questions are:
(1)If I should start sending money again to show that I did not want to neglect her.
(2)They are using my soft corner to my little angel.How this dirty tricks to ex tore money be stopped? If there is any way to continue my son's education immediately with legal help.
(3) How many days I should wait to rouse their 'Soobooddhi"?.Now school is asking the students status.
I want to do everything for my beloved son.Is there any way to get back the child custody.he is just 5 yrs and 5 months.
Thanks in advance for your kind advice.
ramesh
Mubeen I S
01 April 2013 at 13:41
After sending 3 talaaq notices , the talaaq is completed as per Islamic law.I have mentioned the same in the query
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/Divorce-through-islamic-law-381556.asp#.UVlAUxd_5Gg
What document artifact(legal document) can i get and from where, which would say that the divorce is valid ? Just like the registration of marriage is done, can there be a document saying dissolution of marriage, considering the talaaq occured is NOT by mutual consent ?
renuka
01 April 2013 at 10:52
Hi all
Under hanafi law, if only single daughter survived her mother along with a predeceased sons son, wthether predeceased sons son gets any share, will he comes under residuaried if not explain. As sons son cannot be excluded by daughter under sunni law as sunni law is male dominated.
Hi Sir,
who are all the quranic heirs, If Quranic heirs already dead then can there childrens be qualifies as Quranic heirs and preferred over predeceased sons son..
rgds
Renu
ASIT
31 March 2013 at 20:55
Could you please advice me what kind of counter 498a cases can be filed against ex wife after acquittal from 498a.
At least I can give them the taste of their own medicine.
VARUN BANSAL
31 March 2013 at 15:38
hi,
pls suggest me.
what is process of legal court marriage
step by step what to do for its
bassicly common man how to apply for court marriage
Dear Sir/Ma'am,
We are three siblings elder sister, then myself and my brother. Father expered last year leaving behind a house and ancestral farm land. I insisted to include the name of my sister in the list of beneficiaries after the death of my father. Brother after staying in fathers house for 25 years got renovation done in the house . My sister told him that we have no interest in the house and are ready to forego our claim. He states that he will compensate us by giving similar value in the farm land however, we should pay him Rs 9 Lakhs which he has spent on renovaqtion. We opposed this by saying that neither he asked us before renovation nor have we stayed in that house. The renovation is done by him, he has enjoyed it for past 25 years and in future also he is going to use it once we leave our claim. I told him I would not have claimed the money if I was in his place. I always appeal to him so that the problem can be resolved in the best interest of all and being educated we must behave in a matured way. My mother is bedridden and due to old age does not remember any thing. Yesterday she just happened to say that she has gifted this house to my brother's wife. I am afraid, in our absence, such move may take pace or might have already taken place. Please advise me what caqn be done to avoid such umpleasent mischief and every one gets his due. Being elder son I feel its my responsibility to ensure all threee of us get equal share and no body is at loss financial or otherwise.
With warm regards.
Shrikant
Raman
30 March 2013 at 22:19
My Sister In law has filed 498-A/406 case aginst my brother and rest of family members 1 year ago and proceedinsg are pending before the HC for quashing
Then she filed the case 125 CrPC for maintenance
and therafter she filed the DV case agsint rest of the family members
My brother and his family has been facing the torture for last 1 year for appering before the courts, Bail etc
Now whether ist right time that we should move an application for divorce under cruelty & desertion or shll we wait till charges has been exonerated??
Bangalore Man
30 March 2013 at 20:16
My marriage has not been consummated, my wife simply does not like sex, is not interested. Her siblings are also not concerned about her. I do understand that I have legal remedy under Hindu Marriage Act that allows me to get the marriage annulled. What is the proof that I must show?
In my cross examination, opp lawyer wants to extract answers in a way which suit him.
1) In some of his questions, answer is not simple “Yes” or “No”. Whenever I try to explain in detail he does not allow, wants Yes or No. Somewhere when I am successful answering my way, he mentions “volunteered” word in writing draft. What is its implication. Is legal weight of statement reduced when this word comes in between?
2) Sometimes he makes suggestions, then says its correct/ incorrect to suggest…..But I want to record answers in my way which is away from ‘suggestion’ lines he speaks. How 2 handle this?
Waiting period
Dear Sirs,
The divorce judgement was ordered on April 1, 2013 by the Hon'ble Sessions Judge
Can you kindly advice, if the divorced person after waiting for 60 days (till 31 May 2013) and if no appeal is preferred till the completion of the 60th day, can he proceed to marry on the 61st day i.e. June 1, 2013?
Judgement: April 1, 2013
60 days: May 31, 2013
61st day: June 1, 2013
Kindly advice. Thanks in advance