Venkatadri
25 April 2013 at 11:03
Good Morning Sir,
I got married in month of may 2010 and my my did not stayed with me not even 10 days continually with me and she left my house went to her house by quarreling with me and recently I,e in th month of September 2012 she kept false 498a case on me and on my family members total six members ( on my father ,mother,un married brother,un married sister and married sister )and I came on bail and my family members got anticipatatory bail and sir last week i sent divorce notice to my wife and now just 2 days back I had received court notice under section 125 crpc and directing me to attend the court .So, sir what is 125 crpc and sir I am un employed person and give me your valuable advice how to over come this problem from her. Thanking you.
ram
25 April 2013 at 01:00
My wife is suffering with sle which is diagnosed after 6 months of our marriage(2years back)her age is 21 and she is unable to perform routine works easily, and suffering from mood swings,dipression (i have that confirmation on prescription by psycartist 6 months back)now she attempted suicide by luck i stopped before attempt and handover suicide letter.
proofs i have
1. one and half year reports
2. suicide letter (stating no one responsible for her death)
3. psychiatry prescription stating she is suffering from depression. (6 months old)
how can i move forward to protect myself and my mother (father expired 6months back)
what else i need to move legally if i applied for divorce do i need to pay compensation to her
kindly throw some light on my issue
anil Kumar
24 April 2013 at 18:08
Hi
iam mohammed ameer khan .iam Muslim
i married a christian girl in 2011after she accepted islam .the marriage was according to islam called Nikhah.
But soon after the marriage i came to know about her .as she was very agressive and not obedient and used to be angry every time.she is not giving respect to my people and more over she is not behaving properly.many counssellings are over by several people.but no change in her .and surprisingly her parents are supporting her..
my question is can i go for second marriag?if i marry another girl will the first wife will have any chance to go legally?according to indian law .about me .as she is not accepting for divorce.and she is not ready to leave me .but one thing iam not able to live with her as her behaviour was not good and i was totally becoming mad by thinking about her.
so please consider my request and do me need full.
ameer khan
India
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24 April 2013 at 16:36
Q) i have attended six session of mediation in supreme court of india in matter of dispute with my wife. but no outcome is reached. whereas mediator is unneccessary harassing by lingering the mediation. so i told mediator that i am withdrawing myself from mediation. next date is on 11/5/13. but i dont want to attend mediation and want to quit. does mediator can take action against me?
Zohaib Ahemad
24 April 2013 at 13:04
Hi All,
This in regards to my elder brother who stays in China on work permit.
We both got marreid together, but my life is full of pleasure, but my brothers life has become hell. He started getting tortured from his wife and her family members on regular basis.
Finally he decided that this marriage is not worth and both of them cannot stay together becuase of the family members (his wife's family members) interference on each and every thing (from small to big family issues).
Finally My brother gave talaaque to her wife as per islamic shariyat with three witnessess, but now they started demanding unneccessary compensation apart from the one which is not liable and as per the Muslim law and Muslim shariyat.
The major reason for divorce was that she had done abortion twice. We have the reports available from the doctors as well.
They started threatining us that they will file case under 498, 125 and allow police to arrest all of us..
My Brother is getting mad now, bcoz girls family has started threatning us and saying that law always favour girls not boys...
Please advice what can we do now if our law is like this only...and also divorce is already done and we are ready to pay the amount as per SHariyat and Mulsim law...but now they are demanding for more...
My brothers wife is a doctor by profession and the crime by aborting her child she did can not be fogiven. She is not ddependent on any one....Please suggest us the way out..and advice ....
Awaiting feedback from all of you....if you want I can share more information on the same.
shital patel
23 April 2013 at 19:30
if someone married in 2007 and registered in 2007 as per the bombay marriage registration act.and they r married in baroda. then regisrtaion is valid as per bombay reigstration act ??
ramsha
23 April 2013 at 15:22
Whether aunts can be considered as guardians of minor child (no court order appointing her the same) under the Muslim Law?
Kalyan Ghosh
23 April 2013 at 06:38
After a mutually consented Divorce Case is filed after how many days a Certified copy of petition presented in court affixing court stamp will be provided to Petitioners in West Bengal
deepika
22 April 2013 at 18:19
Hi,
(In Brief) I belong to a middle class family, I have my mom and 2 younger bro. I married in may 2011, it was an arranged intercaste marriage. From the first day my in laws torture me, they demanded money, because they thought our only son is well educated Dr., So they thought that they would expect a handsome money being single daughter. They were expecting a luxirious car. So from very first day they started torturing me and everyday their demands were increased like money, Honda city car, property for clinic etc…. but my mom stopped hearing their demands. Because of this my mother in law started harassing me mentally, physically and emotionally. But my husband never supported me. They always fought with me and always be on their side. Every times families and relatives settled the things. Everyone advised me all will be settled down with time.
After some time they demand for property for opening up clinic for your daughter (for me). But settlement was reached that we took clinic place on rent. All expenditure is bourn by my mom. from the day clinic opened my father in law started visitng me daily in pretext support me and telling about his family because in his family or even my husband doesn’t like him. He said u r like my daughter and you respect me. He always said I know my wife and my son tortured you a lot but don’t worry I m with you, you are my daughter, I love you more than your father. Most horrifying, he starting kissing me or wanted to touch me……. Its very bad to me after refusing it and he went out and finally with in 15 days of these incident my clinic was closed and he started showing solidarity with mother in law and my husband, so I can really imagined that person was up to. After families, relatives and his lawyer sorted out the things it never happen again in future and after some time I(lawyer) arranged a separate house for children. But after some time my husband refused I m the only son of my parents how can I leave my parents. I agree on that. But now situation is worsen for me, now my FIL against me and gave me lots of very foul and abusive language etc. All( My in laws and sister in laws) tortured me lot. As a girl with no father, family, relatives’ pressure everyone said and taught me everything will be alright according to the time, my husband is sarif innocent man. Maa Baab hai kab tak rahege because my in-laws are senior citizens.
As soon as my husband got selected in IIM, they pressured for divorce and because my husband has left the job & I will go for further studies and she is not my responsibility she is educated and she earn her own & my in-laws said, that is our house & we don’t want she (I) live with them. They threw me out. We wait for their call and reply after days we file a complaint in women cell. After convincing or may in they are in fear or thinking about his future he agreed to keep me with him & in april12 they took me in hotel family accommodation and my in-laws said we have disown our son we don’t give any single penny from our property or assert to our son. I agreed I don’t want any money from them.
I was very happy with my husband but problems increased when my in-laws force my husband don’t talk to me and my in laws don’t want to talk to me & my husband also don’t want to talk to my parents. Every weekend they force me I will went to my mother’s home & they went to his house. In hostel suddenly he is completely changed, earlier he is so rude to me now he is clam, but now he don’t want any child so he doesn’t want to make relation with me & come late night, always away from the room, and pretend projects assignments are there. But other families and couples are also there.
In Aug12. they forced me to left him and went to my mother’s home. After asking he said to my uncle I’m impotent I have some problem. Earlier I checked to the doctor but doctor also said it is due to stress and it is not curable because it is not a disease. He never discussed all these with me. But he admits all these in front of my whole family and to his family also. But one thing I know is that he is erectile dysfunction but I never complaint.
Now chapter has closed my relatives (earlier who said everything will be alright) said now there is no hope and option now divorce is the solution. His family, his lawyer approached and forced us to give him divorce. My family agrees because they don’t want to go and fight the case against him they said we belong to cultured family. Then mutual consent divorce was finalized by all and settlement was done of one time maintainace. They agreed to give all expenditure and expense which was spend during the marriage ceremony. In Oct 12 Due to lots of pressure I signed the paper and on first motion they gave me half money.
That time my husband also didn’t want divorce but both family wants and family pressure is more.My husband is totally mamma’s boy. He never takes his decision even small decision like eating. He is totally dependent person upon his mom and sisters.Meanwhile we (I and my husband) talk a lot and he said it’s not in my hand.
I love my husband a lot. I don’t want money. We are not greedy person like my in laws. I am very upset. I’m confused what to do. Which I faced in my marriage and faced mental trauma I’m not ready for remarriage now I don’t trust people. If seriously I want the divorce then why I suffered and face that much tortured from my in laws and I don’t want divorce I want to live with my husband otherwise I want justice. Now my husband also wants divorce. It’s so easy to spoil anyone life because you have money or man, u want more money or new girl and to give divorce to first one and give maintainece. Because of this he spoil my life, my career and family happiness. If I withdraw my case what will happen and now how can I get justice. Plz help me.
But I add one thing my marriage is not registered in india govt. On papers we both are still unmarried they never add my name on any documents (passport, ration card etc), in job, in any form etc…….and mutual divorce was filed by force and pressure, sepration was only of 1month and shown to the 1 year. its was a false statement.
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Harrassment of men by wife
One of the friend of Mine is facing a very critical situation.He is asking for divorce but in reply she is neither giving divorce nor living well.The Men once even tried for suicide but luckily he is alive.
She is mentally as well as physically torturing him.All the relatives of his wife are also threatning him.
Although due to children they are living together but they are not having any relationship of husband and wife since the last 4 years.
Pls tell what steps he should follow to get a divorce.