iniya
28 April 2011 at 22:53
Hi, about 4 months back i was thrown out of house by my inlaws and husband in the mid of night without a penny and took my mobile too. The same day they took my jewels too during day. Background, i am married for 1.5 years now. My inlaws family are little money minded but I did manage as my family is well off in the society. My marriage consummated after 11 months as hubby had anxiety issues cos of which he failed previously.Around a month later a alliance came for my brother from my hubby's side and it was in initial stages. MIL didnt like the proposed girl's mother so she was against this allaince though she dint state this explicitly. We decided to drop the alliance. But my MIL kept suspecting we are proceeding with alliance and poised my hubby's thoughts which made him avoid me. He said no conjugal life for 6 months till he is sure we marry another girl for my brother. This affected me a lot after almost a year of waiting this is what I get. He even stopped normal relationship and conversation with me and I became so much depressed as if a blind getting sight for a day and lossing again. It was that time my mom came to our house to give gifts for a occassion and left the house. on her way she made a courtesy visit to the proposed girls house and unfortunately my MIL saw that. She induced my hubby and made him shout at me and she also shouted and throwed me out of house. My hubby even threated to divorce when I was thrown out. I dint know what to do. Next day gave police complaint for which I got CSR copy for 498a. All I requested was to reunite me to my husband and dint wana punish them by filing FIR and all. The came for compromise next day asked us to withdraw. btw they applied for AB. When counselling happened my hubby asked for 6 months time to take me back as he is upset for going to police. We waited, between I wanted my office documents and some dress, my jewels which they took on the incident day (worth 50 lakhs).but they insisted I take all my things back saying they are not for money. SO I took and waited. its been 4 months now,they are spreading rumors that we had decided for divorce and thats why I took the things back.
Pls advice me how do I proceed now. Just after giving the complaint only did the I saw some forums that 498a leads to divorce so till date I dint insist on any action and I dont want to file FIR and punish them. All I need is to reunite me with my hubby. But from the day they throwed me out they are only trying to escape.
What steps to take now.
1. How long is my complaint valid. IS there a way police forward to some court mediation without FIR or some action that could help reunion.
2. Can my husband file divorce at this stage
Pls advice my next stepss.
rosy
28 April 2011 at 16:47
sir,
I am rosy from kerala. I got married to a boy in another district in kerala. The marriage is solemnized in kozhikode dist , where the boy resides. but i am from another district thrissur. Our marriage is not consummated. I think the boy is impotent. He abandoned me after 3 weeks. He is a software professional in madras.That is the place where we last resided. Can i file a divorce on my district family court in thrissur?
Because it is quite away from my place.
Tushar Jadhav
28 April 2011 at 15:04
Hi,
I got married on 27th Dec 2010 and it is an intercast marriage done at marriage registrar office, Pune.
Here, I would like to know the procedure that how and where i can apply for an intercast marriage award declared by Maharashtra government. (i.e. Rs 50,000)?
Thanks in advance.
Regards,
Tushar Jadhav
9552510399
Anonymous
28 April 2011 at 14:08
my working wife has filed petition of maintenance on the basis of our three children in which she has asked to pay Rs. 40000 per month. the court has given an interim ourder of Rs. 20000 but now we have mutually agreed for closing of this case and taken mutual divorce also. i am surrerning one of my flat costing abt Rs. 27 lacs in the name of her on behalf of the child maintenance. my laywer made an agreement in which it clearly shows that she will not file any maintenance on behalf of her and children. i just want to know that even after given my flat to her and signing of the agreement can she even file any petition on behalf of her or children till they gain the age of 18.
please advise
thanx
Anonymous
27 April 2011 at 23:48
my parents married in 1955. i was born in 1957. my mother died in 1990. father had kept a woman and had a son in 1972. he professed to marry her under muslim conversion. i know that an illegal son has property rights butmost of our property is ancestral. in this case what law wopuld apply the amended one or the one that was followed when i was born . did illegal child have right to ancestral property in april 1957.i am male and have a realsister born in 1964
alvin
27 April 2011 at 23:39
i am a sikh .my parents married in 1956.my mother died in1990.my father kept another woman and had a son in 1972. how do i ask them to show their martialstatus in court.
alvin
27 April 2011 at 23:33
my mother was the first wife (sikh)without divorce father kept second wife and had a son from her. we are abrother and sister. my father transferred land on my half brother without our consent what should we do
Anonymous
27 April 2011 at 22:13
DEAR EXPERT,
IT is not clear to me that, whether a JMFC is empowered to issue search warrant u/s 97 of Cr.P.C. IN CONNECTION with the pending D.V. CASE?
PLEASE REPLY URGENTLY.
REGARDS,
SIBASISH PATTANAYAK, Advocate.
09874854594.
Dear all,
I am in need of the resolution of the following query.
Father, mother and unmarried daughter were part of HUF. The daughter got married and later father expired leaving his wife and married daughter. My queries are as follows:
1. What is the status of HUF, dissolved or continuing?
2. If continuing, who will become karta ?
3. If dissoved who are cLaimants to HUF property?
Need help urgently.
Thanks
BKG
discrepancy in the statements
hello experts
I have one specific query.
Husband writes in the divorce petition that he has been depositing40,000 per month in wife's account since he left matrimonial home. But a couple of years back he started depositing much less than that. After filing divorce petition, he stops depositing money. When wife raises the issue in the court and request that what he is sending at present should continue and she tells what he currently sending ( the lesser amount), he agrees that that is the amount he has been sending and will keep sending. The honorable judge records it in the order sheet.
Husband has written one amount in the divorce petition and was sending lesser amount which he is depositing now, what implication it has?
1) Would this discrepancy be taken lightly by the court, or would it show that he has projected false facts?
Apart from this amount, husband claims that he has SOME policies in the child 's name whose custody is with the mother. However, wife does not know what amount or any details on the policies.
2) Please let me know if wife has right to know of details of the policies concerning her child?
Thank you all very much in advance.