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22 August 2011 at 03:46
Dear Experts, Pls help me.
Married for the past 8 months. Marriage has not been consummated due to no interest shown by the wife. I have phone recording where she has told that she was sorry for not satisfying me physically. She stayed with me for just 20 days and has been staying at her parents house. She used to come here once in 3 weeks mostly during her periods and used to stay for 2 days and go back due to her job. After we had a fight in May she stopped coming.
Anonymous
22 August 2011 at 00:22
Dear All,
I am writing in a hope to get your opinion/advice on what should I do.
In the year 2006 I got married and withing 10-15 days of wedding realized that my wife’s behavior is somewhat not normal , kind of mental disturbance/disorder. Examples are –If you are talking to her she will gaze at some other place and would not pay any attention , she will say I will go to market to buy milk even when plenty of milk at home and she does not know where the mkt is , on every second thing she used to say “Hamey laga humne kiya tha ,kar diya tha”,she used to put her used glass with clean ones when ask used to say Humye laga humey saaf kar diya tha, she misbehaved also with me and my family members ...etc etc....
Then came as a shock that she is having TB and is on medicines .It was not disclosed to us before wedding. Even her brother lied about her education and also did not disclose that she wear lenses . I ignored that .When I enquired about TB she did not give any satisfactory answers or could not even tell me which TB it is.
Even then I thought TB would be okay with medicines but I could not digest her abnormal behavior . Within a month I called her brothers and enquired about her TB and abnormal behavior and asked them to take her back to Lucknow and send all old records of TB and to do all tests fresh .
They did not send the reports or details of TB rather after one month declared that she is pregnant .I asked them to terminate this pregnancy as with TB treatment I never wanted to take a even 1% risk with kid.Her brother refused for that, his brother replied she is too old and may be this abortion would create problem in future pregnancy . I told them that would be my problem and asked them to leave the girl at Delhi ,he didn’t .
They said bad rest hai for 2 months and kept mum and kept her there .After 4 months they wanted to leave the girl.I asked about her mental problem but they are not ready to accept that she has any. Time passed she gave birth to a baby child in Dec 2006 at her mayaka .
Now its almost 5 years .She lives in Lucknow only . In between 3-4 times we called her brothers to talk and sort out the matter but they are not ready to accept that the girl has any mental problem .Rather inspite of fact that they lied so many things at the time of wedding they show us attitude .
In these 5 years 2wice they came alongwith the girl and quielty leaving her here without any discussions on the matters which we objected and asked them
to give us in writing and guarantee that girl has no mental problem and there wont be any abnormal behavior /misbehaviour from her .They did not agree to do so ..and we refused to keep her in absence of any written agreement .
Now its almost 5 and half years that we are living seperately and I wanted to settle it mutually as I cannot live with her I called her brothers for this …they became adamant and told me divorce le saktey ho to le ker dhikhaoo….
Pls tell me what should I do …I want to get rid of this relationship …….what should I do…I live with her only for 1 month and now for past 5 years living in a trauma , making my life hell……
How to file a divorce case ,I do not have any reports/proofs to prove her abnormal behavior or test to proof that she has mental disorder…They will not give me divorce .....
Pls need your valuable advice. Thanks for your time…
Regards
Anonymous
21 August 2011 at 20:08
wife living separate from 2009. file appln u/s 12 of domestic violence act but the same was dismissed by JMFC in July 2011. Can she file appln u/s 125 crpc for maintenance?? what is the effect of dismissal of domestic violence case on 125 crpc.?? from the year 2009 she never received a single rupee as a maintenance from husband....
Anonymous
21 August 2011 at 16:51
If Wife file the CASE for Divorce or Maintenance, If the Summons can't be served because she can't able to find right right address of husband, Husband family staying at the Address of Husband,
Husband is working in some other city... Can't find the correct address.
So How this case can move forward..???
Anonymous
21 August 2011 at 15:19
My wife file the 498a false case against me & after that I don't want she lived with me. I have proof (recoding in the mob.) to she has file false case. Can I file the CR P.C 227 & how much its fever me.
Self service
21 August 2011 at 12:18
Dear Experts,
Husband filed divorce under 13(1) cruelity basis. Respondent wife asked in written reply ready for divorce in liu of payment of xyz amount. Reconciliation failed and on next date for statement submission wife repeated same in court, that she is ready to accept divorce on payment of huge amount.
Judge ignored all demand and gave another date.
I want to know expert advice, is such demand is correct? Can some one "buy" diovrce? Also judge has taken note of it what will impact on whole case?
Please advice.
Knowledge Gainer
20 August 2011 at 10:42
If the petitioner wife confesses before the Court and accepts that the certain allegations such as demanding dowry, mental & physical harassment, non-provision of food and showing blade were wrong and just to have divorce from the respondent and now we are taking divorce under mutual consent, than will court take any action against petitioner such as contempt of court, Perjury or any other action or the Court will just accept the confession and pass the decree?
Anonymous
20 August 2011 at 08:05
Its Annulment petition filed by wife on ground of my impotency. Now, I filed application for my potency test by medical board. My advocate drafted the application which requests the court to direct the superintendent of medical college to constitute a medical panel of Gynaecologist, Urologist, Physician and Clinical Psychologist to examine my s*xual potency. I'm doubtful about the role of Gynaecologist in male potency test...Is it must to include Gynaecologist also? If anybody has already undergone such a medical test, please share your experience.... Which are the tests that I have to clear to get the report in my favour? Is semen analysis a part of impotency test?
Anonymous
19 August 2011 at 20:24
I bought one property in 1990 in my name and money for the property was paid by my father.
In the year 2000 my father made one will in which he included the same property which was in my name stating that he has the right to will the same as he has paid money for the property and i also signed that will as a confirming party. My brother and mother also signed that will.
Later in the year 2007 we sold that property and i bought a new property in mine and my wife's name , some of the money for the new property was paid from selling the old property.
Later my father made another will for his left over assets and in this there was no mention of to any properties in my name.
Now my relationship with my father has worsened up bcoz of my brother due has a drinking problem.
So now my father is threatening me that he would claim the right on the new property in accordance with HUF.
I just wanted to know can my father do so??
If yes, what can i do to protect myself?
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Marital issue
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