amit
24 February 2012 at 15:16
I have just completed 1.5 yrs to my marriage. My wife was left my home 8 months back. During this no contact from both side and no FIR/cases.
During family members meeting I asked my wife to come to my home on my condition. But she denied if front of all parents. She wants divorce. But her father is not agreed for divorce /MCD. He just wish to troubled me.
My in laws are also living in Mumbai…. but different area. He is intended to file all false cases against me. I wish to know. Where he can file police complain ?. His local Police Station or at my area PS.?
If he file cases at his area PS then that PS’s Police try to take action on me or they informed my area PS to do so? Where will they finally locked up me ? I asked this because no one is there in my home to try for Bail. I need to try A Bail my self and need time for the same
I don’t wish her back in my life at all. I have not asked for divorce directly due to apprehension of Police cases.
If he has not filed any case/complain against me. How long should I wait under pressure? Should I file a RCR or Divorce case against her ?
Nelofar
24 February 2012 at 15:14
Married 5 year back as per Muslim rituals (both being Muslim Sunni,arranged marriage Mehar Paid at the time of Nika),
Have baby boy of 1.6 years,
Husband abruptly stopped communication from lost 6 months; neither came to c me as I was at my parental home.
Now he is saying I have divorced you, as he say he has send Talaq through Registered post to my parental address to me & my father, as we were out of station so could not receive the same.
Also he is saying I have published in daily newspaper, but we did not have any information about it.
The allegation which my husband’s is putting is that I am not mental fit that too he is saying after 5 years of marriage & 2 years of engagement.
After my marriage my in laws ill-treated me, & I also even went to a Phsystriate after marriage because of ill treatment by my in-laws, he said u don’t have anything.
Now my husband is giving some baseless allegation which has never happened.
I want to save my family, kindly advise me what to do as I am a housewife with 1.6 year old baby.
My husband has not paid even a penny to me & our baby from lost one year even though he is earning more than 70 K a month.
I also posted the same query before respected experts,& i was given some good suggestion.
Right now the matter is being discussed with the elders of my family with some members from their side.what should i conculed as some elders from that area are saying wait everything will be alright.
But to my surprise they again posted same Divorce deed to my Brother's friend.
I was advised by the Respected experts to go for Crpc 125 but we dont have it in our state,But Crpc 488.
What is the credibility of this Divorcé, what should I do to save my family & myself from divorce, please advise me kindly.
Dowry
24 February 2012 at 15:02
Shalini here ---- from chennai-Thambaram
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I have given a complaint in All women polics st, chennai in my area police station yesterday on dowry. We askd to create FIR, The inspector madam told they need to get approval from AC an DC to create FIR. So they told we ll call you after 2 days.
They told to bring witness after 2 days. I went with lawyer and she got tensed cause of that and didnt answer me properly.
1. what witness i need to bring?
2. Will they create FIR? I have given fr dowry. I heard that for dowry Inspector can create FIR but she told she need to get approval from AC/DC.
3. For dowry I have proof of bank transaction. But i have internet printout copy only. But i didnt show that to inspector madam. SHld i take that when i meet them next time?
Harsha Harsha
24 February 2012 at 14:50
My husband has applid fr divorc and i did RCR but didnt appaer in any of the hearing.My lawyr said she will put "maintance AimonY". But i felt i cant put that since i am working.
what is maintanc alimony?
can the workin lady put that?
i am earnin more than my husband.
nimita singh
24 February 2012 at 13:24
hi experts,
i am staying at my parents home since jan 2011, however in the same month i.e jan 2011 i have sent a notice through a lawyer to my husband saying to take me back to the matrimonial home bt no body turned up in fact they have even rejected the notice i had sent them.now its more than 1 year and there is no sign from my husband of taking me back ,however during this period we were meeting outside & even talking on phone.my question to u is what steps should it take now should i send a notice again or somthing else ?
thanks
R Arora
24 February 2012 at 13:02
There was case filed by my sister for maintenance u/s 125. The court made interim order after two years for Rs. 5000 per month BUT EFFECTIVE FROM THE DATE OF ORDER. Is it a good case to file revision petition that the order shuold be effective from the date of application. If yes please suggest pleadings in our favour.
Member (Account Deleted)
24 February 2012 at 09:12
In my case my wife demanded a divorce by charging false allegation on me on aug 2010 ,by now on 3 jan 2012 the final argument was done between lawyers ,as per prsent situation the girl was not able to proof any allegation me ,but the judge is not giving the final judgement from the last date ,he always used to give dates .Judge is asking both of us to file a mutual petition but the girl is not ready for this at any cost.
Please suggest what to do i am fed up of all this.What can we do so that the judge will give the judgement.
Experts,
My wife filled a DVA & I have filled RCR , Visitation Rights for my 3 old kid. Now She Decided for Mutual Divorce to withdraw DVA as it is a false case. When I askd My lawyer about visitation rights. He told We can file a affidavit on that time. I am also ready to give financial Support to my kid.
My ques is:
1. Can I insert Visitation Rights in Mutual Divorce Draft?
2. If I didn't mention about the Visitation rights in that. Can I file a case again on visitation rights?
3. Can I have sample draft on mutual divorce petition with visitation rights?
Member (Account Deleted)
23 February 2012 at 21:36
Dear experts ,
next week is my marriage's nullification case's first hearing.Three hearings were adjourned.Shall I take my love letters and call list to court and show the judge to prove that the petition is false petition?The petition is false petition so please help me experts.
Rcr withdrawl and hma 24
Hello experts,
Husband filed RCR 6 months before and in response wife filed written statement and HMA 24.No order / interim order on RCR/HMA 24 yet.
We pressed on withdrawing RCR, however opponent lawyer didnt allow withdrawl.I could not understand the reason behind it .
Could you please let me know what is preventing us from withdrawing RCR legally ?
Thanks a lot.
Regards
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