Kalyan Ghosh
23 April 2013 at 06:38
After a mutually consented Divorce Case is filed after how many days a Certified copy of petition presented in court affixing court stamp will be provided to Petitioners in West Bengal
deepika
22 April 2013 at 18:19
Hi,
(In Brief) I belong to a middle class family, I have my mom and 2 younger bro. I married in may 2011, it was an arranged intercaste marriage. From the first day my in laws torture me, they demanded money, because they thought our only son is well educated Dr., So they thought that they would expect a handsome money being single daughter. They were expecting a luxirious car. So from very first day they started torturing me and everyday their demands were increased like money, Honda city car, property for clinic etc…. but my mom stopped hearing their demands. Because of this my mother in law started harassing me mentally, physically and emotionally. But my husband never supported me. They always fought with me and always be on their side. Every times families and relatives settled the things. Everyone advised me all will be settled down with time.
After some time they demand for property for opening up clinic for your daughter (for me). But settlement was reached that we took clinic place on rent. All expenditure is bourn by my mom. from the day clinic opened my father in law started visitng me daily in pretext support me and telling about his family because in his family or even my husband doesn’t like him. He said u r like my daughter and you respect me. He always said I know my wife and my son tortured you a lot but don’t worry I m with you, you are my daughter, I love you more than your father. Most horrifying, he starting kissing me or wanted to touch me……. Its very bad to me after refusing it and he went out and finally with in 15 days of these incident my clinic was closed and he started showing solidarity with mother in law and my husband, so I can really imagined that person was up to. After families, relatives and his lawyer sorted out the things it never happen again in future and after some time I(lawyer) arranged a separate house for children. But after some time my husband refused I m the only son of my parents how can I leave my parents. I agree on that. But now situation is worsen for me, now my FIL against me and gave me lots of very foul and abusive language etc. All( My in laws and sister in laws) tortured me lot. As a girl with no father, family, relatives’ pressure everyone said and taught me everything will be alright according to the time, my husband is sarif innocent man. Maa Baab hai kab tak rahege because my in-laws are senior citizens.
As soon as my husband got selected in IIM, they pressured for divorce and because my husband has left the job & I will go for further studies and she is not my responsibility she is educated and she earn her own & my in-laws said, that is our house & we don’t want she (I) live with them. They threw me out. We wait for their call and reply after days we file a complaint in women cell. After convincing or may in they are in fear or thinking about his future he agreed to keep me with him & in april12 they took me in hotel family accommodation and my in-laws said we have disown our son we don’t give any single penny from our property or assert to our son. I agreed I don’t want any money from them.
I was very happy with my husband but problems increased when my in-laws force my husband don’t talk to me and my in laws don’t want to talk to me & my husband also don’t want to talk to my parents. Every weekend they force me I will went to my mother’s home & they went to his house. In hostel suddenly he is completely changed, earlier he is so rude to me now he is clam, but now he don’t want any child so he doesn’t want to make relation with me & come late night, always away from the room, and pretend projects assignments are there. But other families and couples are also there.
In Aug12. they forced me to left him and went to my mother’s home. After asking he said to my uncle I’m impotent I have some problem. Earlier I checked to the doctor but doctor also said it is due to stress and it is not curable because it is not a disease. He never discussed all these with me. But he admits all these in front of my whole family and to his family also. But one thing I know is that he is erectile dysfunction but I never complaint.
Now chapter has closed my relatives (earlier who said everything will be alright) said now there is no hope and option now divorce is the solution. His family, his lawyer approached and forced us to give him divorce. My family agrees because they don’t want to go and fight the case against him they said we belong to cultured family. Then mutual consent divorce was finalized by all and settlement was done of one time maintainace. They agreed to give all expenditure and expense which was spend during the marriage ceremony. In Oct 12 Due to lots of pressure I signed the paper and on first motion they gave me half money.
That time my husband also didn’t want divorce but both family wants and family pressure is more.My husband is totally mamma’s boy. He never takes his decision even small decision like eating. He is totally dependent person upon his mom and sisters.Meanwhile we (I and my husband) talk a lot and he said it’s not in my hand.
I love my husband a lot. I don’t want money. We are not greedy person like my in laws. I am very upset. I’m confused what to do. Which I faced in my marriage and faced mental trauma I’m not ready for remarriage now I don’t trust people. If seriously I want the divorce then why I suffered and face that much tortured from my in laws and I don’t want divorce I want to live with my husband otherwise I want justice. Now my husband also wants divorce. It’s so easy to spoil anyone life because you have money or man, u want more money or new girl and to give divorce to first one and give maintainece. Because of this he spoil my life, my career and family happiness. If I withdraw my case what will happen and now how can I get justice. Plz help me.
But I add one thing my marriage is not registered in india govt. On papers we both are still unmarried they never add my name on any documents (passport, ration card etc), in job, in any form etc…….and mutual divorce was filed by force and pressure, sepration was only of 1month and shown to the 1 year. its was a false statement.
Member (Account Deleted)
22 April 2013 at 17:56
Dear Experts,
my wife family cheated with HIV including her. this cheating blowup after 2 years,
luckily me and my 16 months kid are not infected.
my child custody case also running in court last 9 months, they are not turning to court from last 8 hearings, their lawyer managing.
Not understanding why judge is taking such long time to give a result, my kid is in absolutely in risk. can you please let me know any quicker way.
my divorce case in court. my wife is not coming to court last 8 hearings, their lawyer is try to lag with stories.
how can i close this divorce case asap. because my parents wants to me remarry asap.
K.padma
22 April 2013 at 11:56
respected sir,
my father and myself only earn the whole property.i am not educated because of financial problems,my brother is educated.all properties are named with my father only.
my father died in 2002 with will.we are 2 brothers and 2 sisters.i am elder brother in will myself and my brother having rights to share the property equally but my mother is only guardian for property ,she don't have to right to sale or gift the property to others my sisters get married and have no rights on property .these all mention in my father's will.but my mother and brother did not agree to share the property till now.i want to send notices to my mother and my brother to partition of property. so ,pls give me some advice about this problem. in which formate the notice will send to my mother and my brother through advocate.
ragz hyder
22 April 2013 at 11:12
Thank you for reading my query. I got married a year ago. Things have been extremely erratic, abnormal, psychiatric mental disorderly kind of conduct from the girl. Net is that less than a month of marriage she left my parents house after abusing my family on the streets. We did not do anything wrong at all swear. I have a bunch of emails as well.
We have been sitting tight for a year now with me an NRI being visited by my parents.
We tried to convince as much as possible for MCD and even suggested we will give compensation (we did not take any dowry)
Now they are coming back askin 1 Crore, sent me emails threatening 498A.
Should I file case first? Some are saying this will backfire...but given its all a psychological game and that they are openly threatening in emails calls etc should I go ahead and file. Others say..its threats let them take first step.(from lawyer no FIR so far apparently) Guy can only defend. If you file now they might take even your filing as harassment(we already gave legal notice and I have categorically told them this marriage is impossible to work out).
Please advise.Should I file or sit tight?
siranjeet
22 April 2013 at 06:46
my friend had submitted memory card having conversation with his wife in court but his wife had denied her voice in her cross exam. but as held in apex court decision RAM SINGH VS COL RAM SINGH 1986 AIR SC 3 " The voice of speakers must be identified by maker of recording" if my friend recognise and identify his voice and his wife's voice in court during his chief exam.
now my question is
even then there is need of voice identification from forensic lab or voice identified by maker(my friend) of recording is sufficient
Experts please give your valuable opinion
thanks in advance
somesh
22 April 2013 at 00:17
I am new to this site and observed that approx 75% of the queries are related to the harassed husbands.
Is there any law initiated to curb those wife's intentionally ruling there husbands & in laws with the weapon of laws provided to protect themselves.
Why the innocent husbands are so helpless that they cant even stand or protect themselves from these absurd laws.
Like others even i am the victim of my wife (not gone legal yet) but they are planning to do so. what are the precaution should one take?
She is away at her parents since 8 months and stopped talking to me for last 1 month. we went twice to get her back but in vain, we are unable to understand what went wrong that she is denying to come back without giving any solid reason. many of ours even her relatives asked her to go back to your matrimony house.
(note: in her parental house her mother is the king, she had parted her husband from his relatives. now nobody from there relatives interfere in their household matters, due to this situation we are unable to take any help from their relatives)
she is asking me to leave my parents and stay with her at a place neighboring to her parental house, i asked her to give me a solid reason or atleast convince me that why should i leave my parents and stay with her though as per tradition and culture girl should stay with her husband where he is staying.
we have our own house and a family of just 4 members then to she is not comfortable. we have never asked her to work as we have servant working, we have given her all the freedoms and lavish life just relax and enjoy.
i have never asked about her past life, i even ignored some of her male friends texting her very frequently through which i can prove that she was having bad company earlier.
I love her and want her back and stay with my family
please advice what should i do with this crackpot?.
498 Exploited
21 April 2013 at 20:11
My wife made a false complaints of domestic violence and now it was taken back by her saying that it was made by some misunderstandings. now again sometimes she threats me to do it again if i do not go according to her. because of this i am forcefully compelled to go according to her at every stage. now i am not willing to make any sexual relation with her. my question is
Can she force me to make sexual relation legally?
Anonymous
21 April 2013 at 20:02
Sir,
Petition u/s 13 for divorce is filed by the husband against wife on cruelty grounds who is living separately with her child of 2 yrs for more than six months.the wife is earning and she also don't wants divorce but don't want to live with parents of the husband,who used to harrase her,but the husband is not ready to leave his parents .the court has tried for reconciliation but not succeeded .
The wife is earning should she file the petition u/s 30.
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