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498 Exploited   25 April 2013 at 20:20

Father in law harrssing

I am working in nationalized bank and I have applied for transfer to my home town. My father in low wrote a letter to my regional office for the suspension of my transfer as my wife & father in law is not willing me to be transferred at my home town. He mentioned in letter that we had forcibly taken an undertaking from my wife not to be held responsible us in case of her death while actually it is not true. He also wrote that I have started altering records to disapprove her as wife. But it is not true and many other bullshits he wrote in that letter. I got an explanation call for this from my manager regarding this.
Now my question is :-
Can we file a case against him of Defamation at official level because if he really had any problem then he could have gone to court of Law

Rajan   25 April 2013 at 16:06

Appeal period

Dear Sirs,

Kindly advice me about the appeal period applicability (as i am a party in person)

Ordered dismissal of petition: 6.4.2013
CA filed for copies: 8.4.2013 (7th being sunday)
stamps cost informed: 19.4.2013
Stamps cost paid: 19.4.2013
Xerox copies made: 25.4.2013
Copies delivered: 25.4.013
Copies received: 25.4.2013

Sir understand that the 1st appeal with High Court is within 30 days. Since the month of May 2013 is holiday to courts. Kindly advice if my calculation of 30 days to file the 1st appeal is correct, if not kindly advice me

Copies received / delivered by court: 25.4.2013 + 30 days = 24 may 2013

since month of May is court holiday, the appeal of 30 days is 24 June 2013,

Is this correct or kindly advice.

Thanks for your advice

sudhakar s   25 April 2013 at 15:33

Regarding divorce

SIR,
I GOT MARRIED 1 YEAR AGO.MY WIFE AND THEIR PARENTS ARE DEMANDING TO LEAVE MY PARENTS AND THEY ARE SCOLDING MY PARENTS.SHE IS TORTURING ME PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY.I AM A GOVERNMENT EMPLOYEE.I BELIEVE IN NON-VIOLENCE AND PEACE.SHE USUALLY PINCHES ME AND BEATS ME. I TOLERATED HER 1 YEAR.THEY ARE THREATENING THAT THEY WILL COMPLAINT AGAINST US.SHE SAYS THAT SHE MARRIED BECAUSE OF HER FATHER'S PRESSURE.SHE TREATS MY PARENTS AS SERVANTS AND TORTURES THEM.I HAVE RECORDED HER CONVERSATION WITH HER PARENTS.HER PARENTS ARE SCOLDING ME AND MY PARENTS.
IF I ASK DIVORCE WHAT ARE THE LOSSES.I HEARD THAT I HAVE TO GIVE CERTAIN PART OF MY SALARY.IS IT CORRECT?
DURING MARRIAGE TIME THEY HAVE GIVEN RS-1 LAKH FOR MARRIAGE EXPENDITURE.LATER HER PARENTS ASKED ME TO TAKE RS 4 LAKHS, BUT I DENIED.I TOLD THEM TO DEPOSIT IN HER ACCOUNT ONLY.RECENTLY I HAVE PURCHASED A CAR.I HAVE TAKEN RS 2 LAKHS FROM HER ACCOUNT WITH HER CONSENT. IF I AM READY TO PAY ALL THE AMOUNT, DO I GET DIVORCE.SUICIDE IS MY LAST OPTION.PLEASE SUGGEST ME SOON.

Aman Mishra   25 April 2013 at 12:53

Harrassment of men by wife

One of the friend of Mine is facing a very critical situation.He is asking for divorce but in reply she is neither giving divorce nor living well.The Men once even tried for suicide but luckily he is alive.
She is mentally as well as physically torturing him.All the relatives of his wife are also threatning him.
Although due to children they are living together but they are not having any relationship of husband and wife since the last 4 years.

Pls tell what steps he should follow to get a divorce.

Venkatadri   25 April 2013 at 11:03

Reg:125 crpc

Good Morning Sir,
I got married in month of may 2010 and my my did not stayed with me not even 10 days continually with me and she left my house went to her house by quarreling with me and recently I,e in th month of September 2012 she kept false 498a case on me and on my family members total six members ( on my father ,mother,un married brother,un married sister and married sister )and I came on bail and my family members got anticipatatory bail and sir last week i sent divorce notice to my wife and now just 2 days back I had received court notice under section 125 crpc and directing me to attend the court .So, sir what is 125 crpc and sir I am un employed person and give me your valuable advice how to over come this problem from her. Thanking you.

ram   25 April 2013 at 01:00

How can protect myself and move forward towards divorce

My wife is suffering with sle which is diagnosed after 6 months of our marriage(2years back)her age is 21 and she is unable to perform routine works easily, and suffering from mood swings,dipression (i have that confirmation on prescription by psycartist 6 months back)now she attempted suicide by luck i stopped before attempt and handover suicide letter.
proofs i have

1. one and half year reports
2. suicide letter (stating no one responsible for her death)
3. psychiatry prescription stating she is suffering from depression. (6 months old)

how can i move forward to protect myself and my mother (father expired 6months back)

what else i need to move legally if i applied for divorce do i need to pay compensation to her
kindly throw some light on my issue

anil Kumar   24 April 2013 at 18:08

Can i go for second marriage ???

Hi 
iam mohammed ameer khan .iam Muslim 
i married a christian girl in 2011after she accepted islam .the marriage was according to islam called Nikhah.
But soon after the marriage i came to know about her .as she was very agressive and not obedient and used to be angry every time.she is not giving respect to my people and more over she is not behaving properly.many counssellings are over by several people.but no change in her .and surprisingly her parents are supporting her..
my question is can i go for second marriag?if i marry another girl will the first wife will have any chance to go legally?according to indian law .about me .as she is not accepting for divorce.and she is not ready to leave me .but one thing iam not able to live with her as her behaviour was not good and i was totally becoming mad by thinking about her.
so please consider my request and do me need full.
ameer khan 
India
* Asked by Mohammed 

* 1 week agoBest Answer

Member (Account Deleted)   24 April 2013 at 16:36

Mediation

Q) i have attended six session of mediation in supreme court of india in matter of dispute with my wife. but no outcome is reached. whereas mediator is unneccessary harassing by lingering the mediation. so i told mediator that i am withdrawing myself from mediation. next date is on 11/5/13. but i dont want to attend mediation and want to quit. does mediator can take action against me?

Zohaib Ahemad   24 April 2013 at 13:04

Divorce as per muslim shariyat

Hi All,

This in regards to my elder brother who stays in China on work permit.

We both got marreid together, but my life is full of pleasure, but my brothers life has become hell. He started getting tortured from his wife and her family members on regular basis.

Finally he decided that this marriage is not worth and both of them cannot stay together becuase of the family members (his wife's family members) interference on each and every thing (from small to big family issues).

Finally My brother gave talaaque to her wife as per islamic shariyat with three witnessess, but now they started demanding unneccessary compensation apart from the one which is not liable and as per the Muslim law and Muslim shariyat.

The major reason for divorce was that she had done abortion twice. We have the reports available from the doctors as well.

They started threatining us that they will file case under 498, 125 and allow police to arrest all of us..

My Brother is getting mad now, bcoz girls family has started threatning us and saying that law always favour girls not boys...


Please advice what can we do now if our law is like this only...and also divorce is already done and we are ready to pay the amount as per SHariyat and Mulsim law...but now they are demanding for more...

My brothers wife is a doctor by profession and the crime by aborting her child she did can not be fogiven. She is not ddependent on any one....Please suggest us the way out..and advice ....

Awaiting feedback from all of you....if you want I can share more information on the same.

shital patel   23 April 2013 at 19:30

Marriage registration

if someone married in 2007 and registered in 2007 as per the bombay marriage registration act.and they r married in baroda. then regisrtaion is valid as per bombay reigstration act ??