Faiyaz
14 October 2013 at 16:41
Hi,
In few days ago, my sister (muslim) married and she was happy in her life. But, suddenly the relationship was held with the problems of misunderstanding between husband and wife. after 2 months of marriage i and my parents came to know that brother in law and his mother not responding to my sister and started giving moral torture of separation from relationship and not good looking. And we came to know that brother in law is having extra marital affairs ( got register marriage with another girl) before marring my sister.. due to this we brought back my sister home.. from past one month no call and contact from their end..
Kindly tell me how to handle this situation my sister is feared that if she go again they will torture her by physically and i dont want to take risk here..
As per Muslim and Indain Family law, tell me what i have to do here.
Pinky
14 October 2013 at 14:34
Dear All,
We have 6 years of marriage. I decided to move out of the when I came to know about my Husband’s affair. We are having 5 years old daughter also, she is staying with my MIL separately.
My husband use to torture me physically & mentally but I donot have any proof as of now. He also indirectly demanded money from my parents also.
We discussed several times across the table but was of no success. Now my husband, BIL & MIL are demanding the gold back from me which they gifted me after marriage.
I am staying separately from my husband since last 4 months.
I want to know whether I should complain in Women Cell, as once in a week they make a call to me with one or the other allegations, due to which I am in depressions.
Please guide as my husband is agreeing for divorce. Should I send the Notice to Husband?
Member (Account Deleted)
14 October 2013 at 13:19
Dear advocates, our wedding happened on May 2010 at my native place, it’s an arranged marriage, as I am working in hyd we stayed at HYD. We blessed with boy on Sep 2011, in May 2012 at the time of second pregnancy checkup doctors confirmed my wife has infected with HIV, after several tests we started treatment, Me and Kid are not infected, doctors terminated second pregnecy due to high HIV virus and started ART. In that process I came to know my wife father also died with HIV/AIDS and her mother suffering with HIV/AIDS from several years. I have expressed my angry on their relatives but they reacted badly and warned if I share with my family they will create bad impact on me and my family at village.
After this my wife has warned if I shared this she will commit suicide, keeping child life in view I haven’t told to anyone. After few months treatment she recovered. As requested her I have tried to arrange fund to open provisional store at our area. In that time I came to know she was talking with someone and hiding from me. In August in the middle of the night we had argument and she destroyed her mobile ans sim, very next day we had argument and abusing, I made call and explained to my family, then she become rude and started beating, I have requested her relative to take her their home still my parents came. when i Went to get curries, while I return they left the home with KID along with gold and silver ornaments and cash. Next day we went to their relatives house but she left to her native place. She didn’t return after several requests, I have filled case, after several request police has taken case, my wife family came to station and started abusing I have illegal connection with girl ( when I am in college I love one girl, due to cast issue t hasn’t worked, same I have intimated my wife before engagement). and I have injected virus to her, I have showed reports to police but they just money eaters and started advising me to get the child and divorce.
their advocate and my wife asking money to give child. after all I have filed the case for custody and divorce, after several arguments from December to May 2013, as per their affidavit Judge sent me to AIDS control to get confidential report about my HIV status, report came but Judges shuffle happened. Incharge judge has taken two months and reserved the orders, after that main family court judge came and he took two months and reserved the orders.
On final orders day opposite advocate came and said objection and took one month time. (since Jan respondent not appeared in court, since May their advocate also not attended case).
They filed maintenance case but we have no intimation just giving one date judge made us experty.
recently as suggested by Judge i my family went to see the kid, we have requested to visit pediatrician as KID is not healthy, but she and her brother requested money as they are not care takers for my son, simply pay money and take the kid deal they were taking, in that there is small quarrel happens and they filed the case against my family under 324, off course we got the bail. after explaining the truth.
I am most worried about KID health, as he is living with aids patients. Please help me how can I close this. I am loosing hope day by day as it's really painful leaving alone from my kid
FYI, i have proofs that they have taken cash and Gold and silver ornaments from home, proof as they forced me to file the case, all the medical proofs, they confirmed in their report Her father and Mother have HIV before wedding.
jwalamukhi
14 October 2013 at 12:26
wife who has gone away to her mothers place, now says through her lawyers letter that she is homeless and that she is staying with a female friend and that i should pay her maintanance. how to tell the court that she is still at her mothers place?
Amit Oza
14 October 2013 at 08:52
My Cosuin .had a insurance policy before marriage ,and since 5 yrs she had a divorce case and now the case is dispose off, the reason of dispose was her husband was not comming and the laywer also dint guide her properly.
now when she wants to terminate her policy they are demading proof,she has pan card which she made after marriage..
what should be done so in future she may not face any trouble
Sonia
13 October 2013 at 21:57
We have married as per The indian Christian marriage Act,1872.My name is Sonia Antony.Its been 6 years completed after our marriage.After a discussion with my spouse we came into decision for mutual divorce.We don't have kids,no liabilities,no contradictions in any matter.Kindly guide me the procedure for mutual divorce and the duration for permitting the divorce.Looking forward your guidances.thanks in advance.
SESHAGIRI
13 October 2013 at 21:10
in first marriage I have one son and divorced and got married to a divorcee and having one child, living separately with both the children due to misunderstanding, now my husband sent the legal notice for r of c right and asking me to join only with his son and refused to accommodate my first son, due to differences between my first son and husband, my son is not ready to join with the company of my husband. advice properly.
jwalamukhi
13 October 2013 at 19:06
wife earns substantial amount of money through tutions. there is no receipt or any proof. but through her lawyers letter she has admitted of giving tutions. can students parent be summoned in court to testify? Will this amount be considered while calculating maintanance which husband has to pay?
Member (Account Deleted)
13 October 2013 at 18:54
Respected Adv,
I have submitted evidences 1-6 on 1 page of fehrist. then submitted 1 - 29 numbered proofs on 5 fehrist pages. Now I have to submit more proofs approximately 40 . How should I number those ? from 30 onwards as submitted already 1-29 or start from 1 .
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Need experienced suggestion
Hi All,
I filed divorce case after getting a threat from my wife for dowry etc. but then she is saying she don’t mean it just said that in anger only and not filed any false case against me yet (its approx. 10 months now when I filed the case). She is very influenced by their parents who are the main culprit behind all this and she is bit short temper as well.
If I want give one chance please suggest me what precaution I need to take care legally as my case is in court they not came on first date so I served the notice again for 2nd date.