Dear experts.
I am moving as per your kind advice since 10 December 2013.
let me summarise...me(wife of marine engineer,mother of 2.5 yr old baby girl,from rajasthan,yet not filed any case anywhere,leaving with my parents since 1 yr.survival of domestic voilence n dowery hrashment,female baby birth abusing)
In january 2014, as per ur advice..u suggestd me
1.wait till husband come bk from ship ..then go for mutual divorce.
2.take lump sum money..aaproximstely 50 lakhs for ur self n baby.if given by inlaws in single payment.
3.that time father in law came from manglore n without talking he ran bk(he is real vilian in my case..behinding making my husband behave in this way)
Now, husband was bk from ship on 15 march(i called company office.mgmt didnt disclose first to me.but latter they just told that he has signedoff)
My father in law came on leave on 22 march 2014.
I myself called ..my husband but his no coming switched off.but is visible on g-talk n facebook.
I called(on 13.3.2013) father in law..once he picked up my call...n spoke like most melodious person in yhis world.i said...that i would like to celebraye holi with u (17.3.2014).
Again i called..father in law didnt pick up my call.husband phone...off
28 .3.2014 mediator told us that they have come to rajasthan.
We said...ok..lets meet .before 30.3.2014.
next day...mediator said...better u talk.we called...no switched off
On2.4.2014...their mediator called...said ...lets me meet.
We said....3,4,5 april ..am not available.had interview.aftr that any day.we can do.
Mediator...no they will go bk on 6 april.
We said ..ok(although no good person was available ..who can negotiate)
When we asked venue....they called us in some hills like....chambaal ki ghaati.
We said...come to my place...or else we will come to ur place.
They said....no...pahadddon main
We said...ok...time ???
They..4 pm
We called our good speaker relativw.
Reached venue...on time...
They didnt come till 6.30 pm
We abt to go..they came..
(Husband n father in law+ their 20 men)
They asked money ...we said 1.25 crore
(Let me mention u..my husband's salary is 3.5 lakhs per month..already we discussed this)
They said...10 lakhs
(I moved away from venue with my good speaker uncle at 7.30pm)
Others too sat in jeep.
i reached home.when i called others.they said negotiation has reached on 25 lakhs(15 lakhs for daughter as fixed deposit...dat she eill not ask when she is 18 old for her marraige n 20 lakhs for me).n streedhan they will not give.
My blood boiled.lost control.i went bk to venue at 10.30pm....it was very unsafe place.i dont know how got courage.i went n said....u have penalised.tortured me for 4 .5 yrs.not only me but my daughtr.my family.i dont accept this.
My relayive(all budhee baba logg) scolded me before them.said...tu jyada pafhi liiikhi h iis liiye bool rahi h.chup ho ja.tallak de de.aahe badh...jane de salllon ko.
I cried...n shouted ...telling that ...nowvi will not hear anyone.no society can stop me.i will not give divorce.n will file case against u for all u did to me.
On that night ..my society boycotted me.i felt like moving away with my daughter.main bhut roiii puri raat.
All pressurized to accept 25 lakhs .but i didnt agree.
Someone said....we will tslk to them to adjust to 40 lakhs .almost 15 days passsed.
No response from in laws.now society n parents r saying...better sue the case
Dear experts....my pateince has ripen now.please light my path.!!
All time i weep.what shall i do now.( my parents shows they r in support but actually they r simple person..who dont know anything abt police action n laws)
Need ur advice now.
Thanx
avinash
17 April 2014 at 22:30
Dear Sir,
One of my relative has the problem as demonstrated below:-
The boy is recently married (almost 2 years ago) and has got diagnosed, 6 months back, as chronic kidney disease. The girl side is alleging that the boy has disease before the marriage and threatening to file a case by changing the matter to torture or dowry matter, but there is no such case. In such worst scenario the girl is also demanding for huge compensation which is not possible as per present monitory condition of boy. Also, there is a baby which the boy wants to take the custody of baby. Somebody also informed that in case of lawsuit filed, the 50% girls demand has to be fulfilled to get the bail,that also not feasible by groom party
Please advice what steps to take to avoid such situation and to take the custody of child. The disease was first diagnosed by premier institutions doctor 6 month back, even the local nephrologist was not able to diagnose this.
Please advise what ample evidence is needed to counter the allegation of torture or dowry case. Also, please give some light on the 50% demand money deposition for bail is true or false? Is there any provision of anticipatory bail.
Abhimanyu
17 April 2014 at 15:56
Hello Friends,
Wife Filed Divorce under HMA Section 12 after 4.5 years of Marriage with the ground
that she has been harrassed for Dowry (treated with Cruilty) & she has been deserted for last 4 years with 498 & CrPC 125. Husband Objected the Divorce under Sect 12 after 5 years & requested to close the case as Sect 12 is not valid ground after 4.5 years of marriage.
Husband is already having the RCR decree.(Ex-Partee as wife never appeared for RCR in court)
Now wife has requested to Court with modified affadavit that it was a typing mistake
& the case need to be modified under CPC Section 6 Rule 17 from Section 12 to Section 13 1(a) & 13 1(b)
Husband objected strongly.Judge threatened to Husband for Contempt of Court.
Judge asked husband to provide say on their modification request.
Husband's lawyer is always saying from the begining that it is a typing mistake.
Husband already submitted in his say that since he has RCR & he want his wife back, Please close this case. What are the possible options open for Husband for his reply to this case?
Nagendra Rao
17 April 2014 at 07:47
Dear Sir,
My mother is having 3 elder brothers and my grandfather expired at my mother childhood itself and later grand mother also expired after my mother marriage having 3 children. Now in 2013 my mother brother's executed a partition deed without any intimation to my mother and share.
Even in register office she didn't sign any document but the partition deed completed.
I would like to know whether my mother will have any right to demand her brother for share.
I request all experts to help in this regard. Property is in ongole Andhra paradesh
Vikas
17 April 2014 at 05:36
I have filed for a divorce in Jan 2011 basis cruelty & dowry.The case took a contested route.Since last 3 yrs I have been loosing on time & money.Does the Indian law not decree a one sided judgment if the intention of the exparty is only to waste time?
Vikas
17 April 2014 at 05:33
I have filed for a divorce in Jan 2011 basis cruelty & dowry.The case took a contested route.Since last 3 yrs I have been loosing on time & money.Does the Indian law not decree a one sided judgment if the intention of the exparty is only to waste time?
ketan maniar
16 April 2014 at 22:24
My mother was adopted by her father's sister family way back in 1940 when she was 2 month old.Her adopted parents brought her up, educated her got her married and after their death willed their entire property to my mother children I.e us.
After 22 years of my grandfathers death who died later than my grandmother, my grandfather's brother family have staked claim on our grandparents property.
My grandfather died in our house, we cremated him all last rites were conducted by us etc.
Now my grandfather brother's family have sent out notice to us saying , they took care of my grandfather etc and they are right full owner of all his properties. . we have not adoption papers , adoption took place in 1940 before the act came into force.how do we counter such a claim after 22 years of my grandfather passing away.
Sachin
16 April 2014 at 19:11
Dear Experts
Kindly share your view on following :-During divorce or after Divorce.
1)Can wife get share in Father in law's inherited property
2)Can wife get share in Father in laws'S self earned property?
3)Can wife get share in husband bank balance/shares/FD
4)Can wife get share in Husband's property.
Thanks for guidance.
kashyap
16 April 2014 at 18:50
Dear Senior
My wife is an impotent but i have no report
i had filled HMA u/s 12(1)a annulment of marriage today Magistrate asked three times to my wife to get her medical examine from any govt hospital she denied. whereas my petition ground is totally depend on medical report if she will not get her medical examine than how will i prove that she is an impotent.
Now is there any judgement that prove if she denies to get her medical examine on basis i can force to Magistrate to pass the divorce decree.
please send judgement related it
If is there any option please advise me what should i do in this situation.
Many Thank's
Innocent Victim
Meaning of this case status........
CASE STATUS
First Hearing Date 29-04-2013
Decision Date 15-02-2014
Case Status CASE DISPOSED
Nature Of Disposal Uncontested--TRANSFER
Court No & Judge 30 - Civil Judge (Junior Division)