Shlok
03 August 2012 at 10:57
Hello all respected members and readers. WIth all due respect, iam writing this not biased to anyone but just referring to my case of threatenings by my inlaws.
I got married an year back and in just few days got to see the bad behaviour of my wife and negligence of my inlaws to my family in all respects.
As the time passed I started getting lot of threatening of police with false complaints and i started involving her parents and brothers thinking they would counsel and help.
Instead they asked me to send her back to her native place but me and my family denied but tomorrow on the pretext of Raksha Bandhan her brother took her to her native place and when I enquired about when she will return her father abused me and said that now she will not return also now they have communicated through some channel that they are powerful guys and are threatening me with dire consequences.
They also have claimed false allegations of me harrassing my wife, which is false. I have decided i need a divorce as im from a simple family and not used to such threatening.
NOTE: I HAVE NOT TAKEN SINGLE PENNY IN MARRIAGE
The aim of my inlaws is now to just mentally harass me and get even with me .. but i dont know for what. I never took anything from them and the day we got marrid
Following are my questions:
1. How do i safe guard myself, parents with false 498a case and other false cases.
Note: i have planned to ask my father to safe guard himself by giving a statement to the DCP of our nearest police station of all what is going on.
2. How do i proceed to plan for divorce. They are already planning to mentally harass me by talking of my property that i acquired before my marriage.
3, If iam the first to proceed to ask for divorce will i have to pay huge money and how much.
4, SInce my wife is with her father and he has not responded to any calls or emails, im not sure what to do next.
5. Also I wanted the custody of my daughter who is just 04 months old since my wife is not breast feeding her so there is no need of her to be with my wife.
Please help..
Shlok
03 August 2012 at 10:18
Hello all respected members and readers. WIth all due respect, iam writing this not biased to anyone but just referring to my case of threatenings by my inlaws.
I got married an year back and in just few days got to see the bad behaviour of my wife and negligence of my inlaws to my family in all respects.
As the time passed I started getting lot of threatening of police with false complaints and i started involving her parents and brothers thinking they would counsel and help.
Instead they asked me to send her back to her native place but me and my family denied but tomorrow on the pretext of Raksha Bandhan her brother took her to her native place and when I enquired about when she will return her father abused me and said that now she will not return also now they have communicated through some channel that they are powerful guys and are threatening me with dire consequences.
They also have claimed false allegations of me harrassing my wife, which is false. I have decided i need a divorce as im from a simple family and not used to such threatening.
NOTE: I HAVE NOT TAKEN SINGLE PENNY IN MARRIAGE
The aim of my inlaws is now to just mentally harass me and get even with me .. but i dont know for what. I never took anything from them and the day we got marrid
Following are my questions:
1. How do i safe guard myself, parents with false 498a case and other false cases.
Note: i have planned to ask my father to safe guard himself by giving a statement to the DCP of our nearest police station of all what is going on.
2. How do i proceed to plan for divorce. They are already planning to mentally harass me by talking of my property that i acquired before my marriage.
3, If iam the first to proceed to ask for divorce will i have to pay huge money and how much.
4, SInce my wife is with her father and he has not responded to any calls or emails, im not sure what to do next.
5. Also I wanted the custody of my daughter who is just 04 months old since my wife is not breast feeding her so there is no need of her to be with my wife.
Please help..
arya
03 August 2012 at 09:41
My wife file a dowry complaint in women cell in march'2012.but after 5 month in women cell dowry case she fails to prove
this.women cell told us for compromise
but she refuse for compromise.
I don't know but i think they(women Cell) are almost ready for register dowry case.
In her complaint she write name of my family mambers including me & my relatives
total 8 people.
what is the processore of Anticeptary bail.
and the cost of the bail of 8 people.
Shyam Arya
Delhi
Kunal Sarkar
02 August 2012 at 21:41
The brief fact of the case is that,
my client choose his wife through Bharat Matrimonial.com and at the first instance of introduction my client and his family members repeatedly requested the Bride and her family members to disclose her actual date of birth and Horoscope, as my client & his family members strongly believe in horoscope. At that time the Bride and her family members informed wrong date of birth as well as horoscope.And on the basis of said wrong information the horoscope of both the parties was nicely matched as a result of which the social marriage was solemnized.
But subsequently after few days of marriage my client knew that, the said information regarding date of birth and the Horoscope of the Bride was false & fabricated.
After knowing the said facts a marital clash crop-up between them within two months of their marriage. And since last one months both husband and wife are staying at their respective house separately.
It is relevant to mention here that, after disclosure of the real truth the wife started ill-treated with her husband and his other family members and willingly left her matrimonial home.
Under the said facts and circumstances my client also not willing to continuing their marital tie.
Now my question is that,
1. Whether my client take any legal action against his wife and her family members for the said false information of date of birth and Horoscope ?
2. Whether the said facts leads to any grounds for divorce ?
3. Whether my client take the said plea in his defence, if any legal action taken by his wife or her family members?
Kunal Sarkar
Advocate
Bongaigaon, Assam.
naushad
02 August 2012 at 15:03
Does police has power to decide custody of child, where it is written that police does not have power to decide custody of child, and cannot give custody of minor girl child aged 7 year from father to mother
Sudhir Lohar
02 August 2012 at 11:54
My wife had been telling to me that she is having a feeling to attempt for suicide.And suddenly due to some minor family disturbance she "said" attempted for suicide.But in fact we found many pills were found scattered.We admitted her to a nearest hospital and got her treated.According to her before our marriage she once attempted for suicide when she was in college.
When I intimated her parents immediately,who stays 100 km away on NH and have a car but they did not turn up for 15 days to see her.Instead on next day my wife's brother came along with his father-in-law.I was very much tired as I had stayed awake all through night besides her, I told them to go back as they had come very late, to this he assaulted me at the hospital.
For the next 15 days I was wondered and shocked that her parents (my Father in law was DCIT)never turned up.During her stay in hospital a psychiatrist suggested for counseling.
After 15 days they came and just took their daughter and went.As I was unemployed and had two major head surgeries for hydro-cyphallus within a gap of one year.I requested them to allow her to saty along with kids for one year so that I can cope with my career. But after one week without any counseling they sent her back.As they found it risky.
Further she again threatened me that she would suicide few more times.Now I was worried and then I inquired about her suicide attempt in her college days, for this both the parents denied that such event has never occurred.
But till today my wife maintains that she had attempted for suicide during her college days.
Now what is the remedy for this.
Kindly guide me.
santosh kamthe
01 August 2012 at 23:47
Hou to change name in ssc mark sheet
Kamakshi.G
01 August 2012 at 20:55
Whether No Objection Certificate is needed for a man who got 3 children, 2 daughters (Married) and a son (Yet to get marry)to get second marriage, 10 years after his first wife's death.(First Wife was a Govt. Employee and this man is also a Govt. Employee and in addition he is now receiving his wife's pension also). Thanks in advance.
shadow
01 August 2012 at 20:21
i am marrying a russian girl in india. after marriage she will be living in india. she has a child of 5 years from her previous relation. we want that child to live with us in india. how can we do that? do i have to adopt that child and where do i have to file the adoption papers ? in india or in russia.
hope i get some advice from you experts
tnx in advance
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