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What should i do

(Querist) 05 June 2015 This query is : Resolved 
Sir/ma'm

I am in a relationship with a guy from the last 3 years. We guys are pretty serious for each other and wants to get married. But due to some unforeseen emotional circumstances.. i am pushed in to marry some other guy like 10 days ago.
Sir I am literally not able to withstand all these emotional and physical relations with the guy i married. Although the person i married to has no fault but I desperately wants to get out of this marriage and be living with the person I love as soon as possible.

What could be the best i can do in this regards.

Please i requests you don't suggest me to give it some time it'll all settle over the period of time. Cuz its getting tougher and tougher with the each day passes.
Jayashree Hariharan (Expert) 05 June 2015
Hello,

First keep yourself calm, and think. Just for arguments sake, think whether your boyfriend will be ready to accept you now, since you have had relationships, etc. i dont mean to hurt your emotions, but just think radically and as in real life. Then take a decision.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 05 June 2015
NOT A LEGAL QUERY.
sarika (Querist) 06 June 2015
@Mrs Jayshree...ma'm i've spoken to him and we both want this to happen...he is as ready as i am.
Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 06 June 2015
Divorce even with mutual consent may take approximate 1.5 to 2 years. You can not do any thing without divorce.

Try to adjust with your new family, it would be better and would be beneficial to all.


Everybody does not get his wishes fulfilled in the life.
malipeddi jaggarao (Expert) 07 June 2015
What right you have got to ruin the life another gentleman who is not at fault? If both you (your boy friend) are majors you people should have stopped the marriage. Instead, you agreed for the marriage obeying the dictates of your parents and wants to spoil the life of a gentleman who is innocent. As regards remedy, as expert Mr.Rajendra Goyal advised, you do not have any remedy in the near future even if you file MCD. Immediately you cannot live with the boy whom you wish, until you are legally divorced from your husband. Even if you file RCD and wait, you are leaving a blot on the forehead of your innocent husband as a "divorcee". As regards you, what is the guarantee that the so called "guy" will treat you with same love. Will he marry you? Will his parents agree? These are the questions need to be answered right now before exposing yourself. Once the lust is fulfilled, the love disappears. He will not marry and he will continue his enjoyment. That can be your destiny. Think twice before you leap. Mind it, during the pendency of divorce petition, if you attempt to live with the "guy" your husband will take revenge by filing a criminal case against both you as such act bigamy and illegal. Life is not cinema. Life is life. Live your life.


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