Right of in-laws on property in my and hus's name
neena
(Querist) 29 November 2010
This query is : Resolved
We have a flat in bangalore which is in my and my husband\'s name.As of now it is loaned from LICH.My husband\'s mom(56 years old widow) nad younger brother (26 years-nt employed) are residing there with my husband\'s full support.As all of them were torturing me mentally I was forced to leave there in last Feb when I was 5 months pregnant.Now I have a baby girl who is 5 months old.I can mangae to live there if my husband is alone there,but if my in -laws are there,they will make my husband to be against me and he will not bother to even talk to me and if he talks tht will be for abuse.And morover they will seclude me and I will not have any freedom in tht house.I am also a software professional as my hus.Is there any ground where I can file a petition for getting my husband who takes care of me and my child and I can\'t be there if my in -laws are there.Is it possible.Do my in -laws hav any right on that apartment?.Can my husband say that he wants to stay with his family and not with me and kid.I want my hus back,but he wants to be with his family in our apartment.I want him without my in -laws.What should I do.Please advise me. Awaiting your reply. Thanks in advance
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 29 November 2010
It would be evry natural for every son to be with his nother and wife together and he should not be deprieved from getting the company of both the important persons in his life.
And if you really want your husband and you believe on your love to your husband then he can never support his mother if anything unreasonable/untowards things happen in the home.
adv. rajeev ( rajoo )
(Expert) 30 November 2010
Because of egoness of the elders it happens, she is mother in law off course after the marriage of son MIL feels that she lost love of his son, it is quite natural and it happens in every family.
Being a well educated lady convince your MIL and try to be with her, inspite of it there is no change then file a petition for maintenance or file a suit for partition thru., your baby on your husband and other family members. In both the cases compromise is possible. On the advise of the court your husband may live with you seperately.
s.subramanian
(Expert) 30 November 2010
Mr.rajoo is absolutely right.
neena
(Querist) 30 November 2010
Thanks for your valuable suggestions.I am a lady who spends almost 12 hrs for working and travelling.After reaching home I am treated like a slave.Morover my in -laws and husband will be in a room and they will laugh at me.My husband will not allow me to even go to our bedroom.He insists me to be in kitchen or halll till my in-laws go too bed.He does not allow me to latch the room for changing dress and insists me to sit with his brother alwys.Now what I fear is they may take my kid with them and ask me to be in kitchen.Then I dont want to live such a life.He frankly told me tht its the right of his mother to take care of his kid and not his wife.When we were alone,things were proper,but as and when we got new aptmt my in -laws came in and started living with us.Do they have any right to live there as the property is in my and husband's name,but the sad thing is my in -laws are torturing me wth my husband's full support.Wahtever it is I want my husband,but I am scared to b with all of them.They may do anything with me.My mother-in-law is a high school dropout.She does not understand things in right sense.She is telling it is her house and I do not hav any right on tht.I will b just a servant over ther and my hus agreed to tht.Please help me in resolving this
Surrender K Singal
(Expert) 30 November 2010
Please try the roiute of pre-litigation mediation through relevant court's Mediation Centre;
Uma parameswaran
(Expert) 30 November 2010
Please think that what ever rights you are asking ,that rights also have the mother upon her son and she is also have the right to ask the rights as a mother.Getting a join family itself is a great thing. So try to understand and convey your problems with other members in the family.Try to think about others happiness.live and allow others to live.
If you are not in a position to adjust with In Laws ,you have the option under Domestic Violence Act.But once goes for a litigation a drift will comes between the members and it cannot remove easily.
Advocate. Arunagiri
(Expert) 05 December 2010
Take your husband as vacation trip, you will have leisure time to express your problems, and request him to give solutions.
Your private discussions will help a lot.
