Need help ......trapped in 420
Atul
(Querist) 14 March 2014
This query is : Resolved
My name is Atul I am working in a private company in Noida.In 2012 July a girl joined our office. She was not good at work so our boss used to scold her every day. She learned a lot about office work from me as she was new to the office. She became a good friend of mine. Later she was terminated by our company for submitting false bills and Medical in De 2012 and her salary was stopped as she was terminated. She was very depressed and said that she has no money and she will suicide i promised her to help her and said that she can repay me after getting a job . As she became my best friend I helped her financially because she was not getting any support from her family. I used to give her 10000 monthly. Slowly, slowly we came closer and she said to marry me. I discussed with my parents and they called the girl’s father, but the girl's father refused to marry their daughter to me. But still we were in touch and she was continuously taking amount on a regular basis from me. She was continuously trying for a job, but not able to crack any of the interviews. I told her if our family members are not agreeing then we should get married by ourselves as we both are above age 25.But she somehow manages to manipulate me by saying will see in future and will wait for our families to be convinced . By now it is nearly 1 year and she was not able to find a job. And my money was spend twice for room rent so we both decided to share a flat, so in November 2013 we both shifted in a common flat. It was a 2 BHK flat. She lived in one room and me in the other. Then i brought many utensils for that home as that flat was non furnished. Nearly of 70 thousand and also invested nearly 57 thousand on flat rent and security. Mean while i continuously asked the girl to get married with me but she was continuously just passing the time by giving false commitment.
Then one day I asked her that are you cheating on me by just passing the time and not marrying so in anger she said just get of from this flat and she gave me 10 PDC by signing them and saying that you can withdraw them if will not marry by putting a single check on a monthly basis’ was forcefully thrown out of that flat and she also not allowed to take my utensils which i brought. I was shocked at that time and shifted to other flat. But she contacted me on my cell and we were still in touch because i really love her. This was Jan 2014 incident. Again she grabbed me in her conversations and asked for money,i again gave her. Then in Feb she stopped talking to me so I asked her what is the problem so she said that she don’t want to talk to me anymore and also said that I can deposit single single check on a monthly basis and I’ll get the money. I felt very bad that the girl I helped at most when she was in a need was reacting in such way but it was a fate. When I deposited the first check it, get got bounced ill called her up and said so she denies to repay and said that she has not taken any money from me and if i will deposit any cheque then she will do my police complaint by saying that i have raped her etc etc. I was surprised to see her behaviour she was abusing me and was giving threat not to call me again. I called her family members but they said they have not taken the money and said to contact the girl and ask her only. I never cheated her and i wanted to get married, i helped her when she was in need but she is so selfish that she dumped all my utensils my flat. After seeing all this i am dam sure that she is a big cheater.
She is not returning my money, my two checks are bounced still having 8 please suggest is there any way I can get back my money from that fraud girl. She is a big time cheater she is a 420 she used my emotions money and now she is behaving like innocent. Please suggest what I can do .
Advocate. Arunagiri
(Expert) 14 March 2014
I am not passing any comments of the relationship and possibilities of case based on this relationship.
She had given you the cheque, it got bounced, initiate a cheque bounce case. Contact a lawyer and take his help.
Atul
(Querist) 14 March 2014
is their any possibility i can get my money back
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sir what do you mean by possibility of case please brief
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 14 March 2014
You can file cases of cheque bouncing by sending her notice first.
Meet an advocate fast.
No case of cheating lies.
PARTHA P BORBORA
(Expert) 14 March 2014
don't be panic. just bunch another cheque send her a notice under n I act
and in the same day file 107 Cr p c stating the threat of filing a false rape case against her. keep every thing secret until she received the notice. it is not a case of 420 but of simple cheating.
Atul
(Querist) 14 March 2014
is there any possibility i can get my money back from fillinf a check bounce case on her
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 14 March 2014
Money given in such relation should be treated part of charity. If it comes back charity would become friendship transaction.
Send notice of cheque bounce and take steps as advised by the expert.
Forget and move would be better course of action in the present case. It would give you mental peace and concentration in your work.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 14 March 2014
agree with experts
Atul
(Querist) 14 March 2014
no way to get my money back
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 14 March 2014
you are already advised..no point in repeating the same query.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 16 March 2014
I hope the experts above have sufficiently and properly advised there is nothing more to add.
Atul
(Querist) 18 March 2014
i have given a legal notice to that girl but she called me up and said that their is no such evidence which emphasize that y i have given money to her.And further she said she has not taken any money and their will be no use for going into court .......please suggest what to do
Atul
(Querist) 24 March 2014
i have got the reply of the the notice from that girls lawyers.It is written that we were in a love affair .i cheated her by committing a flase commitment of getting married to her.The amount which i am demanding is the money which i have spend on her in between the love affair.
Please suggest what to do
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 16 March 2014
