How proceed next
manimaran
(Querist) 15 July 2015
This query is : Resolved
dear sir am manimaran from pondicherry. i married on 23/01/14. after 3 month she(shiela) created the problem form to my mother. she say to me i am going to my own twon for some days(on time she was conceive) ok. i am agreed and sent her to his house for to take rest. after one week i got call from shiela sister, she said to me shiela was admitted to hospital for heavy stomach pain that day was sunday. i went there shiela home town, i called to her sister she said we to return hospital to home.
in hospital they scanned the stomach, dotcor said she have a stone in kidney. with grace god without any disturbance to baby, doctor operate the stone(25/05/14). she stayed on her father itself. weakly weakly Sunday i will see her. one day i receive mail from her. she said in that mail she describe whole seven month in single mail.
she said in mail, you used me and come for sex only. i am hurted lot and stoped visit and phone calls. she continually sending the mail vigorous to me. i am smpliey cam on the time she pargnet on the time(1/08/14).still the delivery i wont go there. 25/10/14 i got call from shiela father he said babie boy bron for you, i replied ok sir we came in three hours. we reached hospital at night, at moment they family members speak normally. i thought all problem over. afert one month her mother ask me when you pickup my daughter to our home(January). i replied am ready to pickup now itself. she said we have some formality for five month. ok anuty i will pickup on fifths month.
I went with my family member on march 15/03/2015, to her house at time her father said she got job she wont come to yor house. I asked what about my life . he told u resign your job in from your home town . I said am only son for my partents I won’t come. during the conservation shilea told to my parents don’t speak loudly we neighbors . my father replied this my tone of speech. Then she replied if you speak loudly then get out from house. then I replied give my child I went to room she close the door, in door my left hand was stacked finger bone was fracture and nail was pealed out. we leave house without any problem from their. We went to hospital, at the time we receive call from local police station my dad pickup the call he said we are in hospital for my son minor operation going on in finger . we get MLC from hospital. After we reached police station in police station they compromised me and send me to my home twon still there no response from their(5/07/15).
Jayashree Hariharan
(Expert) 15 July 2015
You decide what you want and speak to your wife as to what she wants. then decide upon the next course of action... whether to live together or divorce. please speak amicably, as you have been all these months.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 16 July 2015
Your wife has joined a job and may not be joining you easily by leaving the job. Support of her family is with her. You can join some job nearby and may come to your parents at weekends if your situation permits.
You can take help of friend, relatives, society effective people for any amicable settlement. If not possible try for mutual consent divorce.
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 16 July 2015
After going through UR entire query,I come to a conclusion that it is not fit for divorce at this stage as I feel it is too early.What U need is proper counselling and mediation for an amicable solution.Even then if U fail finally opt for MCD,which will be easy.Good luck.
manimaran
(Querist) 16 July 2015
thanks experts for valuable reply.
