125 crpc maintenance case
Guest
(Querist) 25 November 2010
This query is : Resolved
i want to continue my marriage but iam not able to do so, as my husband is not supporting me at all. we lived in a joint family & my mother in law is very jealous of me, and she ill treated me, so i wanted to shift with my husband,but my husband didn't allow me and asked me to leave his house. I have tried reconciliation and counselling but it didn't work. so now i have filed a case of section 125 crpc, because my husband is not supporting me at all, i love him and want to stay with him but not with the joint accomodation where my mother in law lives. I have sent so many emails to mu husband but he doesn't respond me. i have no demand for property etc but now iam afraid that they will put false charges on me to get divorce. i don't want to go for the reconjugal rights as it has already failed. so guide me, i have filed section 125 crpc for maintenance, and iam expecting their will be some kind of counselling in court, i don't want to break this marriage, and iam trying my best to convince my husband through emails which he doesn't answer at all & i have already filed a case, so i want to know my whether my emails can create any problem or so in court??? that i want maintenance and at the same time iam trying to convince him to keep this marriage and not to break it. can it make a problem ?????
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 25 November 2010
The marital dispute dragged to court generally makes a problem in future effort for reconciliation.
Guest
(Querist) 25 November 2010
Yes i know & i understand that, thats the reason i tried a softer mode for reconciliation before, but my inlaws & husband didn't cooperate, i tried again and again so now i had to take harsh step, left with no choice, iam suffering here and my parents, but my inlaws and husband doesn't care for that.
Guest
(Querist) 25 November 2010
Please tell me that can my emails create a problem in this case ???
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 25 November 2010
If the e-mails are not abusive then it should not create any probelm. n any case I think you should talk to your husband directly and make your intentions clear. If your husband stll has got the same love and affection then you may reconcle otherwise you can not force hm to stay together.
Khaleel Ahmed Mohammed
(Expert) 25 November 2010
If you are ready to join the soceity of your husband and he also ready to accept your society , there may be no need to get maintenance. If your husband is not ready to take your society, definately court will award you maintenance.E mails etc will not effect your case.
virender
(Expert) 25 November 2010
i agree with Mr. Barman
Guest
(Querist) 25 November 2010
Thankyou everyone. No no i have not written anything abusive, i just wrote him that i want to stay with him but i cannot stay with his mother, as iam scared of her and her behaviour, i don't want to fall sick & iam scared of mental trauma, which i had to suffer at my matrimonial home. so i want to stay with my husband at other accomodation. And i won't stop my husband from meeting his parents and taking care of the,infact i will support him, but can't live in that same house. so in this condition if my husband doesn't agree am i entiled to get maintenance ????
R.Ramachandran
(Expert) 25 November 2010
Dear Rakhi,
I am afraid that you are openly soliciting. When every one is answering the queries in this Forum, why are you asking people to call you on your mobile. Please remember this Forum is not for you to openly solicit.
Please stop this practice with immediate effect.
Arun Kumar Bhagat
(Expert) 27 November 2010
Problem is everyone wants to live life on his/her own term thereby forcing the companion to succumb to his/her desire and when it fails, the altercation begins. Adjustment is the need of the hour. It is very difficult for any husband to oust his parents as per the wishes of his wife and if he does so, then he should be ready for proceeding under Maintenance and welfare of parents Act.
Guest
(Querist) 27 November 2010
@ Mr Arun sir. i didn't understand what you mean. please explain me sir. Sir i want to stay with my husband my mother in law creates lot of problems,and she influence my husband to ill treat me,and think negative about me,she controls my husband completely and thats the reason i have suffered alot,even my husband has illtreated me alot,but at a drunk state he cries for me saying that his mom wants all this. No thats the resaon i don;t want to stay with his mom in same house because iam scared of her behaviour & intensions, but if my husband moves with me to other accomodation,i won't stop him to take care of his parents. A man shold take care of his paresnts as well as his wife,but my husband has left me for his parents. i have been deserted.
