Rcr, sepration, section:9
LAXMI DAS
(Querist) 01 May 2014
This query is : Resolved
Dear Sir/Madam,
I got marriage two month ago. before marriage, there were nearly zero conversation between me & my wife, however she was ready for marriage at that time.
On the time of JAIMALA, she told, that she is not ready for marriage & she threw away the Jaimala. keeping in mind the images of all family members I got ready for marriage at that time & Marriage get completed.
After marriage, she stayed with me for one day only. Later she disclose that under pressure she got ready for marriage & she is totally against of this marriage because of my JOB problem & my family status.
First day after, she started to insulted me . Presently, she don't want to stay with me but Her parents want. her parents may send her forcefully to me & I am worried, that my wife may insult me again as she don't like me. personally, I think that, "I'll not live happily with my wife, however, I am waiting a call from her side to stay together, so-that we can live together happily, but as I know, my wife never call me, as she is very very short tempered.
My question is: however, she don't want to come to me but her parents are planning to send her forcefully to me & I didn't obey her parents, I am worried, they may file a case of dowry against me or some other allegation may file. So, what should I do so-that i can protect my self from fake allegations?
Regards,
Lakpat Singh
P. Venu
(Expert) 02 May 2014
Scope for amicably resolving the issue is still alive. Pl. pursue them.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 02 May 2014
It appears that amicable settlement may not be possible but atleast amicable departure can be planned.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 02 May 2014
This relationship seems to be over.
Better convince her to go for mutual divorce.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 02 May 2014
Try to stay togather as much as you can digest, time is a great factor in settlement in married life or otherwise
ajay sethi
(Expert) 02 May 2014
you cant file for divorce till period of one year has elapsed . better visit a family counsellor .
Sankaranarayanan
(Expert) 02 May 2014
Without your partner,s willing then the life is always unhappy, so better to go for mutual divorce .
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 02 May 2014
Even for Mutual consent divorce you have to wait.
Tell her parents all and keep them in confidence.
Ask them to counsel her about the seriousness of marriage.
If you keep them in confidence your Mutual consent divorce is possible other wise long chain of litigation has to be faced.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 02 May 2014
Even for Mutual consent divorce you have to wait.
Tell her parents all and keep them in confidence.
Ask them to counsel her about the seriousness of marriage.
If you keep them in confidence your Mutual consent divorce is possible other wise long chain of litigation has to be faced.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 05 May 2014
As opined by experts, the period of separation should be atleast for one year or more then only you can think about going for divorce on mutual consent. The best way to be dear departed is by mutual consent divorce only. Attempting any other method to divorce her will land you up in serious trouble from which it will take a very long time to retrieve. Allow the things to continue in the present way for another ten months or more, the passage of time will have an answer for the relief or remedy, remain calm and silent until then for the present.
