ground for divorce?
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Anonymous
(Querist) 31 August 2010
This query is : Resolved
husband comatosed since last 6 months with a non traumatic brain injury without any hope of life.married for two years only.can support him financially but cannot leave career and stay with him near his bed side as a glorified home nurse.what to do?if agreeing to pay him money monthly any chance of getting divorce?i am 26 yrs and i am mentally depressed and on drugs
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 01 September 2010
Sorry for your situation. No need any expert opinion for you. Its very practical issue. Is your decision genuine? If you have money in your hand mean, can you buy everything? Your husband's problem is act of god. As per your statements two years back you got married.. Past 6 months he is in this situation. Whats about the balance 1 and 1/2 years. You have to take decision on those days. If he was genuine mean, how can you thinking to leave him alone.. Life is like a river. Its wil be going on the way of its own. Some where its may stay for some times. Now your husband's situation is this only. You also may get this same situation at any time.. At the time who wil be next to you as a HOUSE NURSE? So be as a human. This is time for show your true love and affection on your husband.. Your love may make him cure. Geeta, bible, quran all are revealing one thing clearly.. You wil get back, which one you gave to others..
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 01 September 2010
Be some practically, suppose after your separation, you husband got cure mean, at the time without you he wil get vexed only. Do you want to give him that pain? If my words hurt you mean sorry friend. Don't be addict to drugs. You can manage your life apart from that drugs. As a friend am with you. I can be a good friend to you. Take care. I wil pray for you.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 01 September 2010
thanks for your reply..but the problem is that he will never recover as medical science says..meanwhile if i did not have such a good married life in those 1 and half years, what do you expect me to do?i am being truthful to myself and i dont have to show any emotion which i dont feel cheating myself.
s.subramanian
(Expert) 01 September 2010
You can better arrange for somebody on salary to take care of him. Do not go in for divorce at present since the sympathy of the court will be with your husband even though your greivance is genuine.And at his stage of health you cannot file the divorce proceedings against him directly since he is in coma. you have to file it with guardian petition. It is all cumbersome procedure. Wait for some more time and proceed.
Parthasarathi Loganathan
(Expert) 01 September 2010
I salute our expert Mr.S.Subramanian's valid advice on this issue as it contain a lot of human values and dharmic tenets.
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 01 September 2010
I think now you got the answer.. Without solution i given some advise to you. All of as a friend.. And both of the above said experts words are cent percent correct. Directly now you can't file any petition against your husband. Take care friend..
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Anonymous
(Querist) 01 September 2010
Sir, thank you for your reply..see my husband is never going to come back to life as before.for me he is dead to be truthful.as you said, this can happen to me too..then i would not ever want him to lose his life and job for me and my parents without forcing him would have taken care of me..there are two separate laws here for males and females..that is the basic issue..i can be helpful as we help a fellow human..by giving monetory support to live with dignity till last breath..
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Anonymous
(Querist) 01 September 2010
Is there any particular time period i should wait before i think of applying for divorce?
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 02 September 2010
I mean which state you belongs to? Which religion? If you have any problem to say your details here mean you may sent private message to me.. A good friend wil be waiting for you.
Parthasarathi Loganathan
(Expert) 02 September 2010
Since legal solutions would hardly address to the basic issue of the author it would be better a proper counselling is obtained from a respected elder from family circle.
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 08 September 2010
see friend.. if you have belive on god mean.. just pray heartly.. prayers will not be failed.. you will get back your husband as a normal person.. nothing is more than praying before god.. for your kind information my wife is memory loss person. she dont know anything except me.. for food also, if i be wuth her mean she will have.. unless she wont care about anything.. we aere loved and married with both family's consent.. with an accident my wife like this.. now am only her world.. for this can i leave my wife? for my wife after my office work immediately i will back to my home. if she normal mind mean she may be just as a wife.. but now.. she my baby also.. i love her.. my love will cure her..till my breath if she died also i will get back my wife.. thats love also the devine relationship (husband and wife)sorry for my lecture.
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 08 September 2010
for my situation no need any sympathy on me.. i am happy with my wife.. its a great chance to me that totake care on my wife.. also to prove my love.. more over if she normal mean alwys she will be fighting only with me.. now not that problem.. (just for fun )
