Threating to go away from home
sandhya
(Querist) 02 September 2019
This query is : Resolved
Sir, I am a 36yrs old working women married 10yrs back.Now having two my husband is using abused language nd threating to go away from home nd stay with parents or Orphanage.I really got frustrated for his relatives to nd fro to our home.For that he is behaving like this.At present my mother is also hospitalised with major surgery.Plz suggest me how to solve this issue.
sandhya
(Querist) 02 September 2019
Plz tell me a solution, unable to stay together.
sandhya
(Querist) 02 September 2019
Sorry it's two kids
kavksatyanarayana
(Expert) 02 September 2019
Ji, first take the help of women protection cell of your area. it is better to you both to visit a counselling centre. If no result, then consult local able advocate for further guidance.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 03 September 2019
generally those to threaten going away or suicide do not do so.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 03 September 2019
What is the cause of using abusing language by your husband ?
Did you attempt to find out reasons for his such behaviour, question and ways to reconcile?
Nothing can be presumed for such delicate matrimonial issues, you will agree.
My sincere advise to avoid legal recourse.
It would be better to consult a local prudent lawyer for appreciation of facts, guidance and proceeding.
P. Venu
(Expert) 03 September 2019
Yes, take help from elders; also, try to undergo some counselling. In order that the relationship is not further rocked, emphasis should be in finding and rectifying own lapses and shortcomings than blaming the other. Remember, it is human to err and humane, if not divine, to forgive.