Family issue - wife's arrogant/ violent
GopalKrishna
(Querist) 05 May 2014
This query is : Resolved
Hi,
It has been marriage of 6+ years and found no change in behavior, Her violent behavior had landed me many different issues to face. She physically thrashes me for every talk. She abuses and uses slang language and threaten of sec 498 . Very cheap talks and means she tangles the words. She regularly insult my parents. One day even she tried to stab me with scissor and after the marriage when the baby was inside womb she was giving bump to stomach. Extremely psycho symptoms are noted in piece of paper and I have taken his father sign on it when in family meeting. I have the govt.doctor copy of these where I was injured of human bites on many parts of my body. I believe it is maximum limit to bear these and suffering of marriage of low level. She doesn't posses any society etiquette for any simple talks she fragment and by shouting - showing women empowerment. And we had force to leave the rent house in flat/society. We have a kid of 6 years old.
And she is working lady and threaten me to bear all expenses and take away the child. I am bearing all expenses of school, tuition, coaching and insurance fees. I want to keep the child with me after Divorce/separation as Children education can't handle/responsibility by her. As She watches maximum time TV and shopping. It will impact children education. All monthly expenses are borne by me. Please help/suggest the steps to follow.
Thank you
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 05 May 2014
It is your personal dispute and both of you will have to sort this out.
Intervention of court is not required at this stage.
Divorce is an option but that would not be good for the future of your children.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 05 May 2014
file for divorce . your wife has very dominating nature . in your divorce petition mention incidents narrated above .
your wife needs psychiatrist treatment
Sankaranarayanan
(Expert) 05 May 2014
Better to go for counseling. And talk with her parents and find the solution amicably. As per view of your stamens she behaved extreme way.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 05 May 2014
You can try for counseling. If does not work try for mutual consent divorce. contested divorce would take years.
