Fir- inlaws, husband

Guest
(Querist) 03 February 2012
This query is : Resolved
I have made a complaint against dowry on my in-laws and husband long nack around 3 months back. But they closed the CSR. Now through DIG office, they told they will put FIR on him and in-laws. In-laws and husbadn tortured me like anything and finally i got the FIR
He didnt return back my dowry money, jewels etc.
I need to get back all. Also right to stay in shard household
(Note: I am working women).
1.My father-in-law is govt employee. Can I use use the FIR copy to suspend his job? How to process?
2. My husband is Chartered Accountant student (CA_Inter) in TamilNadu. Can I use this FIR to cease his job/education? If so how?
3. He is planning to go to foreign. (London). I need to stop. How this FIR will help it?
4. My mother-in-law is getting pension from bank. VRS lady. Can the FIR help me to affect the pension of hers? If so how to proceed?
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 03 February 2012
Getting justice or giving punishment for fault is one thing and making vengeance is nother.
1. Whatr you have asked for is sheer vengenace. If he is at fault then let him be punished but why are you after his job? FIR can not suspend a person unless he is put behind the bar for than 48 hours.
2.Again same query and same reply.
3. It is already advised.
4. No
Do not forget that if you cause of loos of job your husband it will harm your prospect of good amount of maintenance.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 03 February 2012
It is not good to have personal vendetta against any member of your in-laws. It is very much clear that instead of asking solution to your own problem, you are interested to ruin the life of your husband and his father and for this purpose, you want the free services of experts available here. Sorry madam! We are here to advice only to sufferers and not for those who misuse a social legislation.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 04 February 2012
Dear Rani Amuthan!
My answer to all your 04 questions is in negative.
However you can get back your "stridhan-jewels etc."and can also utilize shard household rights but you are a working women
and your husband is Chartered Accountant student (CA_Inter) then you are liable to maintain him and not he to you.
Thinking to ruin some one is not positive esteem of any personality,the negative energy in any human often ruins oneself and not the opponent.This is law of nature which is supreme legislature.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 22 February 2012
Rani,
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What a negative mind of thinking??
Your DIL will jail you to throw you out of your job:: Think, will you appreciate??
Think Positive.
You promised something before FIRE during wedding:
To keep all family members to live happily or BURN BY THAT FIRE??
ONLY BECAUSE LAWS ARE FAVOURING lLADIES:
TOMORROW LAWS WILL CHANGE AND PUNISH WIFE'S RELATIVE: DAYS ARE NOT FAR OFF:
PEOPLE WILL DEMAND EQUALITY.
HOW LONG HUSBANDS WILL SUFFER??
What problem you have at present?? You are here in Chennai, he is there in London,
you have Liberty, you have Job, Nobody troubling you.
Who harassed who in past is a matter of fact. ant clap with one hand. Both are liable for bad relationship: Who knows the fact better that you two??
YOU MUST MAINTAIN YOUR HUSBAND IN YOUR CASE. think positive, try to make someone happy. it always rebounnce.