Dv & maintainence

stani (Querist) 07 October 2013 This query is : Resolved
married for 5yrs with 4year old daughter. housewife not working since marriage. facing physical,verbal,mental,phychological,financial abuse since time of marriage. various threats of life.no any kind of support or shelter from relatives.not loved accepted by husband inlaws and their relatives forced out of marital home.have applied to district court for dv & maintainence. court insisted on mediation. In mediation mediator asks me to give husband a last change as he halfly admitted to abuse. should i give him a last chance its a risk to stay with him mainly as i have already attempted to suicide because of all the torture that happened over 5years time especially its affected me psychologically my husband always keeps himself away from us and i am left to live alone without any kind of help from him or anyone else without any support of any kind. have lost my career as was not allowed to work for so long(B.COM graduate). how much maintainence can i ask if he earns 12,00,000 per annum salary without any tax deductions+multiple online business for which i have no document proof or money proof. what terms do i keep before my husband and court if i am reconsiled back into his life?

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ajay sethi (Expert) 07 October 2013
you can get maintenance of Rs 25,000 to Rs 30,000 a month if your husband is earning Rs 1 lakh a month . for sake of your young daughter try to reconcile

R.K Nanda (Expert) 07 October 2013
give ur husband a last chance.

Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 07 October 2013
You can get maintenance, in such circumstances we find no ground to give further chance in the name of last chance.

R.K Nanda (Expert) 07 October 2013
settle matter amicably.

stani (Querist) 21 January 2014
sir,
the mediation has failed and matter has reached court for argument of maintainence.. which is being postponded by my husband and inlaws.
how can i put across to the court that i am in need of financial help as i am not able to work to attend to my young childs needs as we do not have any other support for help.
and the maintainence be started as soon as possible. my husband has stopped paying me saying he has no money and now i am in a big trouble.
also i wish to know how can i proove the domestic violence that has happened to me inside the house. there were multiple times i have gone to the police for help they have written the complaint in their own words and have goofed it up also they have been very lenient towards my husband. how can i proove myself? is there any way?