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Anonymous   09 November 2011 at 22:02

Help needed against domestic violence law

Hi, i am delhi resident and i need help against my brothers false allegation and mental torture done by his wife.

My brother, who is eldest of us all and a very simple human being believes in god and do not have any habit like drinking smoking or gutkha chewing non of them all...married to a woman in yr 2001, they started leaving seperately within the marriage life of few months due to the reason she used to fight for every little thing with my parents(please DO NOT consider that we did violence or something not at all)
Now since last 10 yr they are leaving seperately in delhi only. During this time my brother calls up sometimes in a year or just visit us sometimes(which was very often) which she did not like, also sometimes she forces him not to meet us.
My father is a mental and heart patient and already has one attack, my brother is not very much educated and earns for his living by working in a private company in gurgaon.
One day my brothers wife came along with a woman at our house when we were not at home only my mother and my second brother were there, the women who was with her started shouting at the door and abused my mother badly and saying i will ruin your son's life and yours too and we were talking to them in normal manner but they keep abusing us. Few weeks past and one day in last month he(my brother) came to our house and stated that his wife has fired his clothes, his atm card and abusing him badly.
We were shocked that how could she do this to his husband, as he has no other place to stay, he stayed with us that day....
Few days later when me and father were at home, she came along with police and alleged my brother that he took along her child which he never because last night he was with us only.
Police said that this is local police matter hence forwarded the same to local police, they asked us to come along and we did, i also called my brother to come from office because we were frightened.
When police inquired to my brother and he said i reached at home and i didnt bring my child, police after few hours of interrogation asked us to go to your place as this matter is of their location so they will forward the case to that area location.
Now as we were frightened too we asked brother to give some application to the police station with complete info, and he did. When he inquired recently he found that his application has been forwarded to women cell.
We recieved letter from the women cell and my brother went there too this week only, there also she was abusing and stating that me abused her, my father went to her village and talked about her badly, my Brother Beat her etc....and the IO says what you both are willing to do, she said i want to live with him but my dont want to so he said he cant live and wants seperation.
Also during these few weeks we came to know that she was "Frightening" my brother since long time that if you do not do things as i said or you try to meet your parents or dont give me money whenever i request i will allegate "You and Your Family in wrong cases" this does not finish here, we came to know that she was having extra marrital relationship too with a man knowing her since her childhoot, and my brother said to my father that a child that she is carrying right now of 4 months is not of his for sure and ready to do a dna test too.

Now my father who has few years to retire is in tension that what would happen to us, as we dont have any support neither monetary nor any other thing, my brother still want to fight as he says this is trauma living with her and dont want a compromise.
Me i am working in a IT company and trying make my future but i fear if everyone listen to her only then me and my family is in danger because laws are there to protect women but not men
I am writing to you in this hope that we will get some help. Please help us else one more case, one more man and one more family will be devasted due to so called women help but originaly "biased " laws.
Waiting for response with lots of hope in eyes. Thanks in advance.

Anonymous   09 November 2011 at 21:03

Dispute

My father purchase shop no.(1) since 1981 his self earn & his own name registered & start business his on name . We are only 3 son my father. We 3 help father business after 1990.my father business balance sheet we show as pvt. Party (as loan) & salary employees. Since 1993 my mother died. My father re-marriage in 1994.After year step mother born 1 sister. In jan. 1998 my father purchase another shop no. (2) his self earn this shop my father was registered ( my name & elder brother name registered). Myself & my elder brother start business as partner in shop no.(2) . Capitals come over 1st shop we as pvt. Party.my father transfer our fund to our business. Our balances sheet also my father firm pvt.party (as loan). This loan after 4&5 year we paid. I go abroad since nov. 2002 to 26 oct. 2004. My salary transfer by cheques my father business accounts. my father died 25 oct. 2004.My step mother & step sister may 2005 she gives no objection certificate regard shop no.(1) is my father name. This certificate notary is done by lawyer on her side. After few months she says under pressure give you this certificate. She suit case for property. No will made. Now my Question
1. She get any share of shop no.(1) is in my father name & business.
2. She get any share of shop no.(2) (second shop is my name & my elder brother name) & business.

Anonymous   09 November 2011 at 19:37

To obtain custody of my late brother's daughter

Dear Sir / Madam,

A very good evening to you.

Kindly be informed that my younger brother passed away in a road accident on July 12, 2010 at around 16:10 PM, leaving behind his wife & his daughter, who's now 4 years & 3 month old. The vehicle that hit my brother's motorcycle is untracable till now as there are no witnesses to this accident and Delhi Police, Vasant Kunj have declared that he was hit by unidentified "army" vehicle and they must have also closed the file by now.

Thereafter, his widow wife stayed with us till Oct./Nov. 2010 till she got the claims of all his insurance policies and then moved to her parents home with my brother's daughter. She came to us after that 3 - 4 times and took all her belongings in bits & pieces, which we don't know what all and the keys to her almirahs are still with her. We are sure that she have also taken their original Marriage Certificate issued by Arya Samaj Mandir, Mandir Marg, New Delhi.

Even all pending dues of monthly Kitties & pending EMIs of my late brother's motorcycle were paid by my father as she simply refused to accept the responsibility of same stating that she wasn't aware about the same. It was me who fought hard with my brother's employers to get the cheque made of his full & final pending dues in favor of her.

She didn't even attended my brother's death anniversary prayers/rituals, but, her father did came for 15 mins for the same with my late brother's daughter as we wanted the "money" to be distributed to "sadhus" by brother's daughter's hand.

Now we have come to know that she have got married again on October 2, 2011 without she or her parents bringing the same to our knowledge and is living with her husband at Allahabad and my bother's daughter is living with her maternal uncle (Mama) at Allahabad itself.

Even we would't have objected her to get married again, had she or her parents taken our advise or should have informed us before this 2nd marriage as we have a heart and know that it's very tough & is almost a sacrifice to live such a long life without a companion.

We justifiably feel that in such a situation my bother's daughter's future is more secured with us and hence, we request your good self to kindly suggest us as to how we can obtain custody of my brother's daughter legally. We understand that now legally it's grand parents (my late brother's parent's) right first to obtain custody of my late brother's daughter. We were not like them, but, now we also want to know if my parents have any right on the money that she have obtained from my brother's insurance policies, for which kindly advise.

Also like to inform you that my late brother & this lady got married without my & her parent's permission in May 2006 at Arya Samaj Mandir, Mandir Marg, New Delhi. My parents accepted their marriage after two weeks of their marriage and both of them started living with us as husband & wife thereafter, but, her parents accepted their marriage only after my brother's daughter's birth in August 2007.

Taking all facts mentioned above into consideration kindly help, assist & guide.

Many thanks & earnest regards


Anonymous   09 November 2011 at 19:25

Marriage related question

I am a 30yr old man and love a girl who is 27 yrs old. We love each other and would like to marry. What is the procedure for registering our marriage? Can you pls give me the details? Would you recommend any suitable lawyer in Mumbai to help us out regarding this?

Anonymous   09 November 2011 at 17:43

Maintenance

I have got the Divorce summon. i have applied for RCR. They are sevaral months for reunion.

Can i ask for maintenance? (Note - I am working women) .if yes, what are all the list to get the maintenence?

Anonymous   09 November 2011 at 17:33

Forced engagement?

Dear Experts,

Need help on the following matter.



Can you please guide us on the above questions.

Many thanks in advance

Anonymous   09 November 2011 at 17:33

Address proof for girl petitioner for rcr

Whether the Company provided address proof (digitally signed. So no signature will be there) will be taken as Address proof for applying RCR?

Anonymous   09 November 2011 at 16:05

Declaration 7(1)b suit

Please advice what is difference between Declaration suit 7(1)b for divorce and Petition u/s 10 of Divorce act 1869. I am a gujarati christian had customary divorce on stamp paper with consent now xwife not ready to co operate in the court. My petition u/s 10 of Divorce act 1869 is rejected. Will declaration suit helps me is it internationally valid ?? bcuz its prevailing in my community that many ppl go for stamp paper divorce.
Please reply..thanks

mittumit   09 November 2011 at 14:42

Divorce case

we have six years relationship.. but due to some pandit girl side got totally against our relation..our communication was stopped..but we contacted each other throgh emails..in 1month we exchanged 1600 mails..nd finally we ran away..nd did registry under special marriage..but to b honest my family supported..they did lawyer nd all..nd also in witness all three signatures r of my family members..after that also with lot of difficulty hindu marriage took place after 2 month..recently we had some issues..c went to her mom place for some pooja...there c cried infront of her mom dad...her mom said c wont go..i went to take her..there her father is telling me that mr. now ball is in my court, ladki mer side hai..again both of our communication is broke...now its situation of divorce..they want divorce..1stly girl said me to manage her father...but now as time past...c is also misguided..they threated me nd my family ..498 domestic violence nd so so..nd so at last vt no option left they made me sign in mutual agreement for divorce nd is about to file that petition in court..i want to know in court..during 1st motion vl court give importance to our 6 years relationship before marriage..nd secondly can court ask me about that 1600 mails...3rdly in second motion if i go in court nd say that i dont want divorce.. than what vl happen...

Anonymous   09 November 2011 at 00:02

Divorce

sir my marriage has happen on june 2005 but our relation has ended on after 8 month because of her nature she is doing very cruel behviour with my family.do to this i break all my relationship with her.now last 6 years we have no any relationship.now i want divorce with her.but she didnt want to divorce me she always threten me i will complain police i dont no what complain she will going to lodge.we have no children.