Anand
13 December 2016 at 23:05
Hi ,
I'm here to know whether Can I file divorce case against my spouse due to mental illness or not?
I'm working in some software company and I married on June 2016. Before marriage I'm not sure whether I'll get Onshore project or not. So, I didn't inform to my spouse family about the foriegn opportunity because of the uncertainity about this onsite project.
After 1 week of my marriage luckily I've got Onsite opportunity to work in UK. I've informed to my spouse family about this Opportunity and they told me I've cheated them like that. Because, my spouse family wants me to stay in India. I was ready to take my spouse with me in UK. But, unfortunately she doesn't have passport at that time. Even I've tried to get passport in Tatkal scheme and its get rejected due to birth certificate issue. So, I've flown alone to UK on July 2016.
After 2 months she came to UK on 1st October 2016 and we spent good time together in first 15 days. One weekend we went to one of my friend home and there we had nice time with their family. After that day, she said, my friend is handicapp and his wife is not happy to live with him like that. so, she said, I want to help his friend wife to get divorce from him. My wife keep on saying this. But, my friend is not handicapp and he's living with his wife happily. I told my wife don't say like this otherwise you will get divorce from me in frusturation and went to office. My wife called my friend and said like " If you want your wife to live happily better give divorce to her". My friend asked me what's happening and asked me to go home and take care of her. Then I went to home and she said , she doesn't like my friend . I said okay no problem. Then she said, you will say like this and finally you will take me to him. I've tried to keep her calm. Then, Suddenly she tried to committ suicide in different ways and fortunately I've stopped on this. My wife family hearing all these things in Phone. To make her calm I promised to my wife " I'll inform to my friend to get divorce". Night, she often woke up from her sleep and I also woked up if she tried again to committ suicide it will be big problem that's why and its happened for 1 week.
After 2 days, she asked details about the divorce. I said , "If couples doesn't like each other they will get divorce" to keep her calm. On that night, she said "she married me because her brother will marry only after her marriage like that. Since, childhood onwards she saw some face in her dream and she thought to marry that dream face. But, She didn't find that guy before her marriage. So, finally she married me. But, During her visa process, she saw that dream face in that office 2-3 minutes only and from that day onwards she felt that she wants to be live with him. so, she said I want divorce from you like that". Then I understood she had some mental issues/ depression.I also said that "Okay, I'll give divorce to you" to make her calm. Then, I've informed this matter to her family , they said My wife had some mental issues before marriage and they had treatment. But, before completion of the treatment they done marriage for her. They thought it will be cured once marriage has done. But, it doesn't happened. Her family hide this problem to me and my family before marriage. Now, I'm so worried about this issue. She tried to committ suicide again because she wants to be with her dream face boy.
To avoid anymore serious issues we went back to India. Once, We reached her home , my parents and sisters also came to her home to know the issues what has happened. My wife shouted to everybody in the home like "I want's divorce from me and I won't live with me even If I live with me I will die" like that. Also, Her mother said, my wife had some mental issues before marriage , we hide this problem to avoid marriage to be cancelled like that to all the people in my family. We trust her family but they cheated us.
Now, My wife is in her parents home and they taking care of her and they are consulting with doctors as well. But, still she's saying samething about the dream face. Sometimes, she called me to take her again to UK then again she was asking "have you filed a divorce case or not". I'm so confused on this. I thought to live with her if she's cured. But, I'm not sure after treatment also if she will be behave like this it will be big problem for me as well as her. Also, my family won't support her due to this type of issue.
Hence, I'm planning to get divorce from her. Here comes my question, Due to this reason can I divorce her? If so, do I need to give alimony for life long? Her family only cheated us. In that case still do we need to give alimony? Please help me on this.
Looking for your reply please.
Thanks & Regards,
Anand
Ritu
13 December 2016 at 22:46
Dear all i want to know where i can filed the divorce where i got married ya other place where i reside ?
my sis her marrage case was going on since 3 year but in mediation her husband decide toh take her home back . but we had dout on him so we keep our case pending for 1 year if relation is ok then case will automatically will discharge but last night he again started her tourcher and beating her.. As we will reopen the case again but any more suggest what should i doo more ...... case before was for dowry case.
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11 December 2016 at 18:07
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Saloni
11 December 2016 at 10:02
Dear sir, I am 23 yrs girl from Ujjain, I do Arya samaj marrige with my boyfriend who is 28 years old. Now I am married. But my parents till do my marriage with another boy. They know that I am married with him. Still they force me to do marrige with another boy. They do emotionlyblackmail. Can you just guide me how to come out this situation. I dont give divorce to my boyfriend even he also dont want to give divorce.jaha tak mujhe pta h ki ek marrige k bad aap dusri marrige nhi Kar sakte. What I do now. Can you give me some legal suggestions.
Anonymous
10 December 2016 at 23:28
My wife filed a case against me under section 125. The case is still subjugated. I'm serving in the army and she filed an application in the army for the same. The army law has a provision that army can give a wife maintenance Allowance even when no judgment from civil court has been delivered. In this case she submitted an affidavit stating that she is not working anywhere and is unemployed since the time of the filing of the application. I have complete knowledge of the company she is working and her designation as well but it being a private company I can't do much about it. More so the onus of proving her statement in the affidavit is wrong is with me. I need some advice as to how I can go about it.
Ajit
10 December 2016 at 07:33
My wife has filed an FIR under sec 498A, 323, 506 against me and she in FIR, lodged in Jun 16 mentioned that I sold her car. I have obtained a copy of challan through RTI, done in Aug 2016 mentioning that she was driving the same car and her signature is there on the challan. Would this evidence is sufficient to get divorce.
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09 December 2016 at 20:37
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Dhruv
08 December 2016 at 17:48
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Divorce
My married held on 2010 after marriage noticed that wife mentally problem always fight with me and my parents for little little thing and go to her parents home in 2013 she field 498,125,107, against me 125 going against me I paid some payment and field divorce petition but in session court maintenance increase 2500 to 4000 I decide that do not pay single rupee and I did it . divorce petition is dismissed and 125a ordered against me I faced one day jail for misbehave in court and now 3 month is gone we sit in our ,our home
I want to know that what i do for divorce without money because second party now ready for divorce and if I field divorce petition in high court second party again go for 125 case
Any way for divorce