Member (Account Deleted)
11 November 2017 at 00:29
M e and my wife are living separately. i stay in chennai and she with my family in madhya pradesh. This marriage was a result of pressure and threat. Its almost 2 years now marriage in not consumated , She is M tech my parents funded her education. we didn't took any dowry.
here is the whole story:
Was not ready for marriage but due to family defamation and pressure i was forced. i am from OBC in our community panchayats are held first and then court or other thing.my family is well off and girl family is lower class. both brothers unemployed. one sister ran away with muslim hence they dont want to dissolve this marrigae becuase they think it will defame them more.
Since i live in other state that girl lives with my family my parents provide him all facility. In the name of coaching she keeps on roaming in town she says she is not interested in job.
Our marriage is not consumated its almost 2 years now.
Her parents came to our home any time ny any time i mean even at 11 mid night shout defame and threat that if your son will not take there daughter to chennai girls mother will burn the girl and will burn her self inside our home and his brothers will kill us all.
They are even putting false allegation on my brother that he spoke to that girl about S*x. Those assholes are threatening either take there girl or theywill file cases in court they havent name cases but as far as i understand it will be 498 and dv and sec 9. I got these knowledge of section by reading online as one of my friend is also fighting false case against him
I want to know how to counter these case 498, DV sec 9.
i have decided that no matter what i have to dissolve this marriage because a lady like this cannot be a good wife.
WE have a panchayat meeting after 2 days for which i will be travelling to my home town.This girl is a psycho when i went for my holidays i went to his parents place with her told them in front of girl i need divorce. as there daughter argues fights and this marriage is result of pressure, i left the girl at there home.
NEXT DAY EARLy morning that girl wa sat our door step @ 7 morning she said her parents have thrown her out and she is ready for divorce all she need is JOB.to which everybody agreed at our home and let her in. next day we want to court and there she was she started crying makinga scene and started shouting that i am pressurising her for divorce in front of all.
We came back i was so angry i gave her a slap. and i left for chennai next day. Once i reach chennai this girl started messaging me that once she get a job she will leave. AND SAME DAY AT NIGHT HER PARENTS WITH 3 OR MORE PPL CAME TO MY HOUSE AND THREATEN my family OF CASES AND death.
this girl gives mental torcher calls and says that no matter what happens she will not divorce and will go to any extent to live with me.and in message she says she will go once she gets the job.
i want to save my family and myself before they file any charges and sec 9 pls help me on what ground i can file for divorce
Omprakash
11 November 2017 at 00:06
A husband purchased a house on loan and has paid it's instalments from his salary, The wife a working women, now in case of divorce can she claim her stake or share in this property. the house is in the name of husband
Anonymous
10 November 2017 at 17:23
Hello,
I am from Madhya Pradesh . I am marrying a girl belong to OBC and myself belong to General category .
Am i eligible for inter-caste benefit ?
if yes what is the process?
vanessa Anthony john
09 November 2017 at 22:01
is is Vanessa A John. Hi just wanted to know how is the verification done for court marriage in catholic also wanna know if a married person having an affair and wanna get married can it be done in Mantralaya how do you people come to know if he is married earlier need help immediately plz As this incident has happened with me and the register person said they do not verify the parties. I am married to my husband for the past eight years n there was a lady Clara Dsouza who took my husband to dubai later divorced her first husband n then got married to my husband in mumbai mantralaya court on 13-1-15 .I want to know what can be done as me having two children n my husband always visited us every year n he got married to this lady in 2015 n last year got twins from this lady n this lady knew he was married but now when I caught them red. Handed she is lying as she always blocked me when I told her he is my husband what can be done now as whenever I try contacting her she blocks me n tell I have left ur husband This lady said if I text her will file complaint on me after I caught them as said she has left my husband but not in writing its so many years I tried contacting her dubai number but she always blocked me when I told her he is my husband she said as she was madly in love with my husband married him n now as she is caught said take ur husband n dont text her but how to get a proof stating she left him as she blocked my last number too which I am using .plz need help what can be done now As this incident has happened with me and the register person said they do not verify the parties. I am married to my husband for the past eight years n there was a lady who took my husband to dubai later divorced her first husband n then got married to my husband in mumbai mantralaya court I want to know what can be done as me having two children n my husband always visited us every year n he got married to this lady in 2015 n lastyear got twins from this lady n this lady knew he was married but now when I caught them red. Handed she is lying as she always blocked me when I told her he is my husband what can be done now as whenever I try contacting her she blocks me n tell I have left ur husband but there is nothing in written stating she left my husband and now as she is caught red handed states was not aware that my husband was already married but I always when found something wrong tried contacting her but she n her fly always blocked me
vanessa Anthony john
09 November 2017 at 17:14
Vanessa A John. Hi just wanted to know how is the verification done for court marriage in catholic also wanna know if a married person having an affair and wanna get married can it be done in Mantralaya how do you people come to know if he is married earlier need help immediately plz As this incident has happened with me and the register person said they do not verify the parties. I am married to my husband for the past eight years n there was a lady Clara Dsouza who took my husband to dubai later divorced her first husband n then got married to my husband in mumbai mantralaya court on 13-1-15 .I want to know what can be done as me having two children n my husband always visited us every year n he got married to this lady in 2015 n last year got twins from this lady n this lady knew he was married but now when I caught them red. Handed she is lying as she always blocked me when I told her he is my husband what can be done now as whenever I try contacting her she blocks me n tell I have left ur husband This lady said if I text her will file complaint on me after I caught them as said she has left my husband but not in writing its so many years I tried contacting her dubai number but she always blocked me when I told her he is my husband she said as she was madly in love with my husband married him n now as she is caught said take ur husband n dont text her but how to get a proof stating she left him as she blocked my last number too which I am using .plz need help what can be done now As this incident has happened with me and the register person said they do not verify the parties. I am married to my husband for the past eight years n there was a lady who took my husband to dubai later divorced her first husband n then got married to my husband in mumbai mantralaya court I want to know what can be done as me having two children n my husband always visited us every year n he got married to this lady in 2015 n lastyear got twins from this lady n this lady knew he was married but now when I caught them red. Handed she is lying as she always blocked me when I told her he is my husband what can be done now as whenever I try contacting her she blocks me n tell I have left ur husband but there is nothing in written stating she left my husband and now as she is caught red handed states was not aware that my husband was already married but I always when found something wrong tried contacting her but she n her fly always blocked me
Member (Account Deleted)
09 November 2017 at 16:38
Dear Experts
Need your valuable advise on following.
Tomorrow is date of 2nd motion for mutual divorce. I have already paid 5 lacs in advance by RTGS transfer in my wife's account in 1st motion and balance to be pay tomorrow. I have made Demand Draft for Rs. 10 Lacs, but she is not agreeing for DD payment, asking RTGS otherwise I will not appear in the court. She is very cleaver and not trust able. I am afraid if she refused to appear or for divorce after transfer the money then would i do. I have to take divorce and do not want to loose the opportunity. I there any legal remedy if she take U turn, refuse to divorce. Can I get divorce or money back? Otherwise she will not give me divorce easily and you well know that contested divorce takes long time full of hassles.
Kindly advise how can I proceed. I am in very confusion.
Regards
Anonymous
09 November 2017 at 14:01
This is Vanessa A John. Hi just wanted to know how is the verification done for court marriage in catholic also wanna know if a married person having an affair and wanna get married can it be done in Mantralaya how do you people come to know if he is married earlier need help immediately plz
As this incident has happened with me and the register person said they do not verify the parties. I am married to my husband for the past eight years n there was a lady Clara Dsouza who took my husband to dubai later divorced her first husband n then got married to my husband in mumbai mantralaya court on 13-1-15 .I want to know what can be done as me having two children n my husband always visited us every year n he got married to this lady in 2015 n last year got twins from this lady n this lady knew he was married but now when I caught them red. Handed she is lying as she always blocked me when I told her he is my husband what can be done now as whenever I try contacting her she blocks me n tell I have left ur husband
This lady said if I text her will file complaint on me after I caught them as said she has left my husband but not in writing its so many years I tried contacting her dubai number but she always blocked me when I told her he is my husband she said as she was madly in love with my husband married him n now as she is caught said take ur husband n dont text her but how to get a proof stating she left him as she blocked my last number too which I am using .plz need help what can be done now
As this incident has happened with me and the register person said they do not verify the parties. I am married to my husband for the past eight years n there was a lady who took my husband to dubai later divorced her first husband n then got married to my husband in mumbai mantralaya court I want to know what can be done as me having two children n my husband always visited us every year n he got married to this lady in 2015 n lastyear got twins from this lady n this lady knew he was married but now when I caught them red. Handed she is lying as she always blocked me when I told her he is my husband what can be done now as whenever I try contacting her she blocks me n tell I have left ur husband but there is nothing in written stating she left my husband and now as she is caught red handed states was not aware that my husband was already married but I always when found something wrong tried contacting her but she n her fly always blocked me
Anonymous
09 November 2017 at 13:56
[11/9, 13:47] cyril fernz: Hi just wanted to know how is the verification done for court marriage in catholic also wanna know if a married person having an affair and wanna get married can it be done in Mantralaya how do you people come to know if he is married earlier need help immediately plz
[11/9, 13:47] cyril fernz: As this incident has happened with me and the register person said they do not verify the parties. I am married to my husband for the past eight years n there was a lady who took my husband to dubai later divorced her first husband n then got married to my husband in mumbai mantralaya court I want to know what can be done as me having two children n my husband always visited us every year n he got married to this lady in 2015 n lastyear got twins from this lady n this lady knew he was married but now when I caught them red. Handed she is lying as she always blocked me when I told her he is my husband what can be done now as whenever I try contacting her she blocks me n tell I have left ur husband
[11/9, 13:47] cyril fernz: This lady said if I text her will file complaint on me after I caught them as said she has left my husband but not in writing its so many years I tried contacting her dubai number but she always blocked me when I told her he is my husband she said as she was madly in love with my husband married him n now as she is caught said take ur husband n dont text her but how to get a proof stating she left him as she blocked my last number too which I am using .plz need help what can be done now
[11/9, 13:48] cyril fernz: As this incident has happened with me and the register person said they do not verify the parties. I am married to my husband for the past eight years n there was a lady who took my husband to dubai later divorced her first husband n then got married to my husband in mumbai mantralaya court I want to know what can be done as me having two children n my husband always visited us every year n he got married to this lady in 2015 n lastyear got twins from this lady n this lady knew he was married but now when I caught them red. Handed she is lying as she always blocked me when I told her he is my husband what can be done now as whenever I try contacting her she blocks me n tell I have left ur husband
manabh
08 November 2017 at 19:09
I am married to Gangu Todalbagi she had a girl with other person without marriage now she is living with us. And on the date of birth certificate the other person name is there. so in school they are entering the name of father as The fathers name.
we want that the name of fathers should be mine.
Is there a process Legal to do so.
So that we don't have problems in future
@P.Venu U HAVEN,T READ IT PROPERLY WE MARRIED LATER.
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