sir,
i am married to a person who does not want a family. we are married from 4 yrs. he is a drunkard and friendoholic. my parents are from middle class family they sold our house for the sake of my marriage. at the time of marriage my in laws said my husband was earning 15 thousand rupees. But after marriage i came to know that he has no earning and has extra qualifications like friends and alcohol etc. during marriage my parents gave 150 grams of gold a new tvs star city bike suit rs 50000 in cash and grand marriage. from the beggining he was torturing me mentally. he used to drink come late in the night and hold my feet and ask for sorry. next day do the same thing i was fed up and started shouting on him to change himself but in vain his mother and sister always support him. meanwhile we had a kid now she is 1 and half yr old girl. all these days i suffered the pain alone and torture meted out to me. Evan after the child is born he has not changed. when i ask his so called relatives every body says he was brought up very childishly he will change or u just adjust. Sir my mother in law is working and
she is only taking care of us that is the problem she wants all of us in her grip. she wont allow her children to earn or develop. recently i came to know of an issue. my husband used to speak to a girl who was his class mate long back, they speak to each other send messages and then delete them so i wont come to know. sir my husband wont sit and talk to me as wife even for 5 minutes how can he do this to me. he has sent i love u message to her recently. when i told my parents they came to solve it mutually, but he denies doing any thing and my in laws also support him. i have asked all his relatives about this but in vain they say again adjust come back and stay together. even if he wont talk just adjust. sir i am fed up because i am staying in my parents house. my brother be graduate has been selected for job in a company and will join from april 1 2010. i do not want to make him also tense while entering into the new world of career. also i cannot adjust with him like that only. either he has to change or make a separate house so that he gets a responsible sense. i am con fused sir. I want to know whether what kind of help will i get from my husband in case i divorce him or is there any other way i can deal with it. like domestic violence act etc. what is the procedure and what possibility of together ness sir because even if he does not like to live with me i am an indian girl who can love a person only once in alifetime and that too only her husband. what is ur good advice sir i am too stressed out with this problem and feel very tired because i still feed my daughter. please give me a correct direction sir.and also one important thing is all the property is in my mother in laws name only a shopping complex with 8 shops is in my father in laws name. my mother in law is the sole head of the family and my husband has a sister and one brother. kindly advice
Anonymous
25 March 2010 at 16:13
Hello,
In the same forum I read that court can not bind husband and wife together if one of them does not wish to live together. My question is then what is the use of available grounds for divorce and why one has to prove the mentioned ground to obtain the divorce if it was so simple ??
What if the trial court gives the judgement of divorce to husband though he has not proved the mentioned ground successfully but only shown his strong wish for divorce, can one go to upper court? What type of application is required ? Appeal or revision? Is the appeal in high court possible if the trial court gives such a judgement ?
Anonymous
25 March 2010 at 16:05
Case Details:I had Filed a Divorce Suit after 6.5Years of Desertion and as reply Respondent (Lady) Filed Affidavit for Maintenance u/s 24 HMA, I also have two Children who are 8yrs (Son) and 6yrs (Daughter) Respectively.
My Quest:If I want to file for a Permanent Custody of my Children u/s 6 of Hindu minority and Guardianship act ,can it be done by filing an affidavit to Main the Divorce suit or a separate Suit needs to be instituted ,I am not interested in Interim Custody u/s Section 26 of HMA?
I am representing my own case no Lawyer?
Harijot
25 March 2010 at 12:08
Following r the facts of the cases. plz give me decided cases in regard of this
kiran arora has passed her MBBS from medical college on feb 20,2001. a proposal for her marriage was made through their neighbour sh Jai. he told them that the boy has passed his mba from commerce dept GNDU amritsar & is employed as executive in a big concern at chandigarh. the same was affirmed by the brother in law of the boy. the girl gave her consent in the representation & they got married on March,01.
AFTER TWO MONTHS of their marriage the wife came to know that her husband had passed BA with diploma in business mgt & was undergoing trainig in factory.
So she field the petition for nullity of marriage u/s 12(1) of hindu marriage act ..
me is on the boy side
plz help me ,with cited judgements... its urgent..
Anonymous
24 March 2010 at 21:35
any expert,can u please give citations to amend the 125 cr.pc petition under order6 rule 17 of c.p.c. please.
Anonymous
24 March 2010 at 19:43
what is the consequncy if on of witness has signed without knowing anything during registration of marrg.
Anonymous
24 March 2010 at 19:35
how to get registered marrige cancelled on realisation of mistake of giving consent to it.
Sir my client was odered to pay Rs 300/- pm to wife, at the time when the maximum maintenance amount was up to Rs 500/-(before the new amendment in Cr.P.C.). Now the new amendment has come in to effect, having maintenance limit up to Rs 5000/- In Uttarakhand. My client's wife has applied to court for enhancement for Rs 2000/-.
Sir I am of the opinion that, because maintenance awarded earlier was according to old provision which may be maximum Rs 500/-. New amendment should not be applied here, having no specific clause in amendment Act.
Am I wrong or right ? please suggest. Sir if I am right please suggest the law or citation if any, that I may satisfy to court.
Hasina
24 March 2010 at 17:05
I m muslim. My grandfathether has transferrd anchestral agricultural proprty by way of gift (HIBA) to child of his choice & not to all his children.
My query is can he do that & if yes what remdey is available to me to claim share frm that proprty.
According to my interpretation of muslim law, Muslim personal law is not applicable to agriculture land (Since in law it is writen that "Notwithstanding any customs or usage to the contrary, in all questions (save questions relating to agricultural land) regarding intestate succession, special property of females, including personal property inherited or obtained under contract or gift or any other provision of Personal law, marriage, dissolution of marriage, including talaq, ila, zihar, lian, khula and mubaraat, maintenance, dower, guardianship, gifts, trusts and trust properties, and wakfs (other than charities and charitable institutions and charitable and religious endowments) the rule of decision in case where the parties are Muslims shall be the Muslim Personal Law (Shariat)".
Please advice sutably
I will be very thankful.
Polyandary
Dear Experts,
Now a days people at large feeling difficulty to have single wife. In such circumstances polyandary be legalise?