Marki
05 April 2018 at 23:21
Hi
I am facing a problem and i humbly seek your preferred opinion.
I am married since 2000 Dec.Having a child of 13 years age.
I am currently living seprately with my child from the last 45 days.
My wife is at her dad place since August 2017/
I Have found out that she is having affir with two men(she has agreed it herself,while speaking to her friend,a recording which i have with me)
I want to legally seprate from her,i also want my child custody.
I was refered to a Advocate,who claims that,Audio recordings wont be accepted in court and i should rather opt for mutual divorce.
I dont want to part any allowance to such a nasty person.
I was also told,if we are first cousins,(which we are)As per the hundu marriage act,our marriage is invalid.
I am at a stage,where i am being harrased by her father,abused by my wife...and worried about the safety of my child.
It would be very kind of you,if you could spare a few minutes and guide me how to take further action.
Arjav Mehta
05 April 2018 at 14:29
i have a query for divorce, a lady who has married a man who is very dangerous he always fight with her wife and his father and mother in law all are beware from him, sometimes he goes to take wine, vicsky and kept at his home.. now if his wife want divorce from him but no one supported her , how she can takel this things is there any safe law or idea to kept away from his husband..
Ragunathan
05 April 2018 at 12:36
I along with my family members are acquitted in 498a case on 3rd Jan 2018. We thought that we got justice after under going the trauma for last 6 years. After 71 days, The complainant has filed an affidavit and requested the court to allow her to appeal giving the reason that she was sick. But we understand that she was working in a government school during that period. So the reason stated in the affidavit is wrong. Now court has sent the information to us that such a request has come to them. Now what shall be our action to protect us from further torture. In meantime, they have filed another case (Domestic violence) in the lower court. Please advise us.
Love
04 April 2018 at 22:25
What is new judgement of sc on stay of all cases.i had applied for stay in hc against dv case.
Shittu kumari
04 April 2018 at 12:28
1) Mr. Ashok, a Hindu by religion married Miss. Sanjana on 17th November, 2011 as per Hindu rituals. Thereafter they resided in the matrimonial home with the parents of Mr. Ashok. Mr. Ashok�s mother was an orthodox female and had high belief in mythology and in Hindu God. She had firm belief that to attain Moksha, a man needs a son, therefore she always insisted on Sanjana to conceive and give the privilege to them of being grandparents to a grandson. 2) Miss. Sanjana delivered a baby girl on 9th April, 2013 and thereafter differences arose between them. Ashok�s mother continuously passed insulting remarks upon Sanjana and her baby girl. She often remarked that if Sanjana does not give their family a boy, she will ask Ashok to marry another girl. Several times Ashok fought with his own mother, telling her that he is satisfied with his wife and has no complaints from her. Sanjana started persuading Ashok to leave the house of his parents and move to a new house to which Ashok never agreed. He was adamant that he wants to stay with his family. 3) Finally on 22ndDecember, 2013 Sanjana, frustrated with the constant bickering and inability of her husband to change residence, decided to leave the matrimonial house with her daughter and return to her parent�s house. 4) Ashok visited Sanjana�s house several times. However never found her at home. He could never even visit his daughter because Sanjana was never available. Finally, on 2nd January 2016, Ashok frustrated with Sanjana, filed for divorce u/s 13 of the Hindu Marriage Act alleging desertion by his wife. The summons was issued to Sanjana at the address shown but the same were returned by some Ms. Asha marked as �refused to accept�. The family court considering it as good service proceeded with the matter. 5) The petition was heard ex parte and on the basis of evidence adduced by Ashok, the family court granted divorce to the husband on 16thSeptember, 2016. The copy of the order was sent by Ashok to Sanjana on the address provided. 6) On 25th February, 2017, Ashok married Miss Pooja, a Hindu by religion. Pooja conceived Ashok�s child and was due for delivery on 13th April, 2018. Meanwhile, Mrs. Sanjana filed an application on 3rdOctober, 2017 before the High Court, for condonation of delay for filing appeal against the decree of Family Court granting ex parte decree to Ashok stating that she was unaware of the proceedings as the summons were served on the address on which she was not residing. She also stated that her parents moved to a new house and accordingly, she also went to the new house. Furthermore, she never had the intention to desert Ashok but only wanted to teach his mother a lesson. She argued that she was frustrated with the constant remarks by Ashok�s mother and hence decided to leave the matrimonial house but never desired to sever the matrimonial bond. Decide.
Bindu Kumar
02 April 2018 at 23:12
I don't whether I will called as a separated wife, because me and my minor child were dropped by my husband at my matrimonial house nearly 11 months back and never took us back. On some days he comes and meets baby or takes him out for 2-3 hours. He doesn't talk to me or my parents. He had threatened in between for divorce but not yet sent any notice. nor he pays any thing for mine or baby 's expenses. So 5 months back, I started working. Can I file RTI for his income. He has recently started his business 7 months back. Am I or minor baby are eligible for maintenance even if a divorce is not occurred.
Anonymous
02 April 2018 at 18:17
Hello sir, im dr but now not in service.my wife filed 498A. DVact i given 18000pm maintenance to my doctor wife.Now she file divorce case HMP under cruality and desertion.in this case she also demand 50 lack as a one time permanent alimony. My question is1)I also want divorce but not had 50 lack rs.wat I do now?2)in this hmp ,My wife able to demand again maintenance under SEC.24.?3)she r able to demand one time permanent alimony to court?
Anonymous
02 April 2018 at 17:04
can we see divorce petitions (drafts , reasons for divorce mentioned by petitioner ) online .
and fir sheets for any typical case
Rakshita Malur
02 April 2018 at 12:00
I am fighting my case without help of advocate. Initially I had hired services of 5 advocates. One by one I had to change because they only used to come and stand in court wearing coat and looking at my hand and body.
Fed up I started attending my own case. I asked them not to come and attend my case.
The cases which I have filed are section 9. Section 24 of Hindu Marriage Act. Also DV act case under section 19, 20, 21, 23, 31. I have also filed 125 crpc for permanent maintenance.
Though I got rid of my useless advocates. The OP lawyers are delaying all the cases. Sometimes the OP wont appear. Sometimes senior advocate wont appear. Some baccha advocate appears but he wont even know who sent him. The judge will be in spills when the advocate himself does not know who sent him.
Now my query is when there is no need of advocate in Family Court, why are advocates even allowed inside family court. They simply unnecessarily delay the verdict. Simply keep taking dates. When the dispute is just between husband and wife why cant the judge simply decide the case without involvement of advocates?
Can I file a case in High Court asking court to not let the advocates enter the family court. They simply misguide. They delay the case by years. When there is already a rule in the law books that parties can represent themselves why are family courts making the lives of petitioners more and more troublesome by involving the advocates?
Ultimately in the end each divorce case or any matrimony related case will end up in irrepairable damage to both parties. Why are we made to feed the advocates unnecessarily? Let them pest on politicians, industrialists and the likes who have amassed crores of rupees and let us common people live in peace?
Is there not a remedy for this in Law? I want to know how to file a case in court, local or high court regarding this.
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Efforts for reconciliation
Hello Professionals,
I am married for 4 years and having a 2 years old kid. I am working with Bank and my husband is having a small business in Pune. Since marriage we used to have arguments over small things like Household work and calling his relatives etc. but every time I tried to sort the issues. He even hit me 3-4 times but as I had a baby by that time I didn't take any step against him. Since last few months he started doubting me for having an affair outside just because I had to travel out of station for training or other official work and I talk to my male colleagues. 10 days back he checked my call log and called 2 of my contacts to enquire how do they know me and then we had a big argument over that. His mother was also at our place when this incident took place and as his family always has tried to break our marriage she asked him to leave the house. Since then my husband has left and has not returned home. Also we have a home loan on joint name for which my husband denied to pay EMI, so now i have to take care of all the expenses by myself. I tried to talk to him , even my parents tried but he refuses to talk. Please suggest what should I do if I don't want to file a divorce.