jaminder s bibra
18 September 2018 at 20:57
REPOSTED SINCE FIRST POST WAS AS ANONYMOUS AND DID NOT FIND FAVOR WITH CERTAIN EXPERTS
dear sir --i got married in 1995 under Sikh rites at chandigarh-- due to some problems now i have taken up a case for mutual divorce ---my inlaws have not replied but as a counter have sent a letter to GOC Southern Command Pune to deduct maintenance allowance and give it to there daughter since soninlaw is alcoholic; psychotic, diabetic, looks after only his elderly mother staying with him and does not have time for wife or child----
i have contacted a few lawyers for advise---- the maximum advice is that my marriage comes under prohibition since my mother and mother in law are real sisters -------the lawyer has advised to file a case for nullity of marriage--------------thus there is no question of divorce or of maintenance allce --please advise -----------
--i have selected to file case at chandigarh since the marriage was conducted in chandigarh and also since it is the permanent residence of my wife and her parents--so better to do everything in chandigarh--otherwise presently i am posted in chennai--could have started the case from here being the last station from where the husband and wife were cohabiting but i may get transferred tomorrow so problem may arise therefore chandigarh is a better choice--since chennai is under southern command hence GOC SC is applicable --but i feel there is a caveat that army offrs are under GOC SC only for discipline and not for family matters--this is because i am no longer in the army but in DGQA Dte Gen of Quality Assurance a civ org since last 16 years--that is i was permanently seconded or absorbed from Army into DGQA after 14 yrs of service as a Major--service offrs serving in DGQA are under the army authorities only for disciplinary action--administrative requirements like accomodation are met by the Ordnance Factories where we are posted at present in Chennai/Avadi it is met by Heavy Vehicles Factory where i am a Joint Controller--another caveat is that recently on 31 Jul 2018 AFT Chandigarh have passed judgment that army auth will not interfere or cut pay of service offrs unless ordered by a civil court since army does not have the resources to go into the details of such matters--Colonel Naresh Kohli Retd was the advocate from Chandigarh who was able to get this judgment--i am trying to get in touch with him but do not have his contact details--in case the contact details can be fwd i would be grateful since first priority is to close the case from army side then proceed for mutual settlement etc
please advise
regards
perumal
18 September 2018 at 15:29
Sir,
A property of two houses jointly constructed stands in my mother’s name. She died during the year 1996, well before the enactment of amendcd Act, 2005. The legal heirs are as follows.
1. My father – Widower - died during 2012, ie after the enactment of amendcd Act, 2005
2. Myself - only Son
3.Ist daughter – married before the death of my mother i.e., during the year 1979
4. IInd daughter – married before the death of my mother i.e., during the year 1983
My father while he was alive, released his 1/4th UDS share of one house (among two) by registerd deed to one of my sister and also made a open in the centre wall between two houses and kept open to the other house which is under my occupation and enjoyment. Through the new opening door, my sister who enjoyed the other house and IInd sister (she was allotted a house by my father in her name by regd.deed) blocked my kitchen, bath room, latrine and stair to upstair threatening that equal share should be abortioned and partitioned.
I have not yet approached any court to seek remedy.
Now, shall this issue will attract sec 23 of hindu succession Act 1956.
Please kindly inform the legality over this issue to proceed further.
Perumal.M
lucky12321
18 September 2018 at 13:00
Hello Experts,
I would like to know What is "Be-Peshi" complaint against wife?
Regards,
Lucky
Bhargav
18 September 2018 at 01:00
Hi,
Due to too much quarrel in our Merriage life we had decided to take divorce.
My details and queries are as below.
1. Merriage period time is 2.5 years with no children.
2. I am Earning 55000 per month and have assets of Rs. 5lack (shares & fd) in my name.
3. My wife was not earning anything.
4. She had parents and 2 sister (both married) in her family.
5. From my side have mother only and 1 brother (doctor by profession) who is unmarried and leaving with us only.
6. There is property of approx 25 laxks (shares and fd) in both of them name. No other property in Family.
7. We are leaving in Rented flat which cost 12000 per month.
8. My age is 35 and my wife age is 34.
My query is...
1. How much maximum rensome she can claim?
2. What can be the maximum amount Court will finalize (as per my income and property) for rensom that I have to pay to her?
3. Whether court will consider my brother or mother's property / income while calculating rensome amount?
4. Rensome amount will be in monthly basis or one time paymnet?
Pls suggest and help as I am in such a huge depression because of all this legal matter. Bcz this will be my first footstep towards police station or Court in my life.
Sk Rajjak Hossain
17 September 2018 at 23:25
Dear Sir, In 2016 Wife has filed 498, DV, 125, which is still pending. Before notice to us court has passed a interim order on DV case for interim mentainance on 2016 but the same copy has not been supplied to us, also comfirmed infront of Magistrate that i dont have any order copy. Now She is not attending any court for her evidence as well as further proceding. This March she has also filed Divorce case and within 1month gap the sme has been withdrawn by him. Now she offering for MCD and all the cases will be withdrawn by him.
I have filed RCR, which is in expart stage. Also filed ACT VIII for my baby girl.
Kindly suggest me the below points.
1) What is next option as she has not coutinue attending in court.
2)What is the next steps for expart order of RCR infavour of mine.
3) If the MCD not procced then what is the senarion will happend.
Anonymous
17 September 2018 at 21:44
My husband doesn�t want to take care of my child can I have the clause in mutual consent divorce that husband is not willing to take responsibility of child and child�s entire responsibility lies with me and I can remove his name at my will from birth certificate
Anonymous
17 September 2018 at 15:46
In Hindu family, is son in law considered as a member of family of his father in law for property matter ?
Tabitha Dara
17 September 2018 at 12:20
In February this year, I eloped and got married. My husband's family arranged the ceremony and brought me to their house to guarantee my safety.. My mother is a single parent and there was friction between us because of which I decided to elope despite knowing that my husband was not working. The very second month, my mother in law said I had to contribute to the monthly expenses and forced me to go to work, which I did. It went okay since then and u began giving 10000 rupees towards monthly expenses. But my expenses were never included in this and I had to bear that separately. Approximately 3-4 months later, my in-laws asked us move out and take a rented apartment. My husband opposed at first staying that we could not afford it, but upon their insistence we agreed. It took us three months post that to gather necessary things like fridge, washing machine household items. We started living separately, but used to have common household fights which I dismissed. I noticed a female classmate messaging my husband late night post 11:30 on three different occasions so I questioned him about the same. He got irritatedand this ensued into a full fledged major fight with me asking him to leave the house and go back to his parents.. Following that I went back to apologize and get him back but now he adamant that he wants a divorce and now my in-laws are stating that I forced them to get us married. They have asked me to sell off whatever I bought and give the money to them and I husband belittles me everyday stating that he will hit me in front of my family if I involve them. This has taken a serious toll on my health and has caused severe mental stress. It's almost 2 weeks now that I am going through this differential treatment. Kindly advise what can I do.
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