Anonymous
21 January 2012 at 22:53
Dear All,
(I had posted my story & query about custody and seeing rights for my Grandson and got advices ,but now an addition and a new query )
Thanks for you paitence in reading my query and your valuable advice....
I am 69 years old senior citizen , Cancer surviver , heart patient and a diabetic. I had three chidren. My elder son is 45 years old ,(lives separately from his wife ), my daughter is 40 years old (has no kids) and had a youngest son 38 years old.
I am very unfortunate mother .I had lost my youngest son recently 10 months back. He was married and has a son who is 2 years old now. Immediately after my son's untimely demise his widow and his in laws created a night mare for me as they grabbed my property for want of it and even tried to take advantage of section 498 (dowry & domestic voilence). They went to women cell against me and my family that we used to ask her dowry & beat her up. Good thing that they could not succeed in their dirty mission . They harassed us 3 months day & nite .Initially local police helped them only but finally after involvement of higher authorities of police they patched up and left my property .
Her parents within 20 days of my son’s demise had declared that they will re marry her .Sooner or later they will .
Even after all these false allegations /cruel fights /property grabbing / I had patched up just for the sake of my only grandson .It was decided that my daughter in law would be living both with me and with her parents .But all these were words only .She lives with her parents .Initially after this patch up ,with lots of Nakhras ,in 15 – 20 days she used to come only for 1-2 day that too when we used to call that we are missing the kid .Gradullay she made it a single day that too after 20 -25 days .Now when she refused to come I sent my daughter to bring the kid to saty with us for a day .He stayed happily but this girl came the next very day and took her back.Since then she had stopped coming . I miss my grandson a lot. I live alone in the house and cries 24*7 for my son and grandson. I am under severe depression and have no hope and nothing to look at .
One hand she is doing this to me on the other ,she wants "no objection certificate" from me for susccession of my deceased son's business . She and her father has already grabbed my son's computer buisness on the 2nd day of demise of my son and now they are running it . She has sent the format via mail and phoned me that she want it.I simply said that this cannot be discussed over the phone and it need discussions .That day onwards I called her up 2-3 times but she did not talk properly and did not let me talk to my Grandson. She has stopped coming to my house at all.I have heard that she and her parents are spreading the rumors that we do not allow her to enter/live in my house.
I am so horrifed with this girl .For want of money/property/no objection certificate she can go to any extent .She had gone in fact in the past.Emotionally she is shreading me by not allowing me to meet /call my gradson .I am worried ,again she can go to women cell/ploice and can file false reports that we have thrown her out of house .I do not know how to prevent this.Can I give an intimation in the police in this regard. Will that help me . Can she make this false case ?
Pls help me with your advice.
Regards & Thanks
Anonymous
21 January 2012 at 21:43
sir,
my friend got married in the year 2001. at the time of marriage my friend's uncle was alive. on uncle's name some property was there but after some year brother in law transferred all uncle's property in the name aunt. meanwhile uncle dead. now that brother in laws don't want to give any share from property to daughters. now that daughters are eligible for share in that property or not
KUMAR.S
21 January 2012 at 19:52
DEAR SIRS,
IN 1999,while my father has stopped working 3 years before, we purchased a individual house and it was registered in both my father and my mothers name, since then iam the only earning person, in 2007 i again at my own cost constructed the second and third floor,two years ago my father passed away and the house came to my mothers name, now my mother demands a lumpsum to my only sister who got married in 1991,but she insists not to transfer the property to me, even after paying her the amount she demanded,my mother wants it to be in her name till her final period,she insists if possible i will give you in a form of writing ,this property solely belongs only to you after my period.Now i want to know
wheteher such a thing is possible, is it safe for me, and even if she gives me such a declaration, has she has the right to change the declaration once again without my consent, or else what should i demand to be safer on my part .And iam also married and i have two kids at the age of 8 and 2.Does she has the right to take a sole decision on whether disposing or mortgaging the property without my consent,
Anonymous
21 January 2012 at 19:38
City X:-
Wife is staying at her parents’ home in city X from 30 months.
A criminal case (498 –A) is under investigation which is lodged in the city X.
A maintenance case is in progress in the city X.
City Y:-
Husband resides in the city Y in Govt. accommodation.
A criminal proceeding is in progress 12 months against wife in the city Y where husband resides.
1. Can the wife attempt to enter into the house of husband in the city Y?
2. Is it necessary to go for the injunction order as per Jurisdiction of family court in the city Y –“a suit or proceeding for an order or injunction in circumstances arising out of a marital relationship” in order to prevent wife to enter into husbands home in city Y?
Anonymous
21 January 2012 at 18:26
hi
i wanted to know...how a wife can proceed where his husband has filed divorce case and wife doesnot want.
and
what is difference between
a) putting maintenance case in domestic violence in criminal court in thane
b) putting maintenance case in domestic violence in family court in thane.
i mean which is better among a and b.
and how much time it takes for approving maintenance case ??
plz advice
Anonymous
21 January 2012 at 16:05
Dear Sir/ My Wife had expired during pregnancy and left a baby. My Family pressurize me for second marriage due to baby caring. so after 8 mth i had done second marriage. my second wife take a divorce from her first husband and left there 10 year baby. now after 7 mth my second wife wants to live separate from my parents. due to small quarrel with my mom which is every body done in home and i don`t want to left my parent so every day in my house quarrel between mom n wife I want to divorce so please suggest to me what i do ? perhaps my wife not to give me divorce
Self service
21 January 2012 at 15:28
Hello Experts,
Husband filed evidence statement as part of divorce 13 (a) i. Wife filed counter claim. Husband filing response along with he also wants to submit few extra document as evidence. No cross examination happend till now. It is possible for husband to file extra document as evidence or at any later stage he can file?
Please advice.
Tushar Kochale
21 January 2012 at 14:30
Do the Hindu married daughters of a deceased person (father) are entitled to his property. No daughter is widowed.
The person has died in 2001 and the names of all his sons and married daughters have been recorded in the government records after his death. Now daughters want equal share in the deceased's agricultural land. And if daughters are entitled to the property what will be the proportion of there share.
Which laws are applicable to this case.
State : Maharashtra
4 Brothers and 3 Sistes
Hindu Law is Applicable
Property is Ancestral
The deacesed got property from his father on father's death.
Will is made by the deacesed stating equal distribution among all sons and sisters.
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Safety for my family from suicide attempt
hello Sir, i am hitesh, there are few serious issues.
how to protect my family from abuse and arrest warrants.
how to be safe if she attempt suicide.
how to take child custody if she reapets the same as before.
i want a agreement for clean chit for my family and me.
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i want agreement to be made.
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