Regarding Marriage: Procedure to rejoin

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Anonymous
(Querist) 27 September 2010
This query is : Resolved
I got married in the year 2005 to a doctor who was then studying MD General Medicine (final year). He took a dowry of Rs. 15 lakhs cash, 5 lakh worth Gold and a house site costing then Rs. 15 lakhs (site is in my name only). Immediately after marriage, he and his parents and brother started harassing me for extra dowry. My parents tried many times to convince him for not to demand for the extra dowry through mediations , but they were not leaving their demands. As I could not continue in that house within few months my parents brought me to their house. My parents continued their efforts to keep my family binded but subsequently failed. Meanwhile then in Nov 2006, he filed a divorce petition in the court. As there was no other option, we have then filed for dowry harassment case in Dec 2007 and case for maintenance in Jan 2008 which are still pending in the court. I am not for divorce from the beginning and even now I wish to rejoin.
I came to know that he married again and has one year girl baby. He is doing private practice at Hyderabad and earning few lakhs a month. But in the court during councelling by the judge he said that he did not marry and ready for rejoining but not earning much to pay the maintenance. The judge posted the case for further action after 25 days. But my husband did not turn up to the court. So far I have observed that he is not interested for early settlement and prolonging the case . If he goes back on his decision for rejoining, what legal measures I have to take to get justice in my case.
Kiran Kumar
(Expert) 28 September 2010
if the divorce was not granted then how he married again.
find out whether he got an exparte divorce decree against you....there must be something wrong in the proceedings.
if has married again without divorce then proceed against him under penal laws as well.
Kirti Kar Tripathi
(Expert) 28 September 2010
under the facts of your case, there is some thing fishy, try to collect correct facts regarding his second marriage, in case your version is true, you may file criminal case against him impleading his second wife as party.
G. ARAVINTHAN
(Expert) 28 September 2010
verify the court proceedings and post clear facts
Uma parameswaran
(Expert) 28 September 2010
You can file criminal case for bigamy against him.
sanjeev kumar goel
(Expert) 28 September 2010
first of all confirm the second marriage and child of your husband and then take legal action against him. if he has done so then there is no reason to rejoin him. fight for your rights and maintenance or try to get out of court settlement from your husband so that you ca also remarry and set in your life.

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Anonymous
(Querist) 15 October 2010
sry .............................................................................................................................................................