Husband divorce
logeshwari
(Querist) 14 September 2015
This query is : Resolved
I got married last year 2014Jul. Its an arrange marriage. I married him by sayin my past life tat I have love failure. For tat he asked whtr u have sex contact I said no. He promised me and married tat he Wil not questions my past life. Due to fight with his mom since she scolded me in vulgar words I came out from my husband home on April 2015. Til now am in my parents home. Only my husband know bat my past life. Since mother in law fighting with me I called my husband to go separately but he didn't come. So from April 2015 to till sep 2015 am with my parents. In tis day my husband call back me to his home but an scared of his mom an his brother who scolds in vulgar words. So am not going back instead of tat calling my husband for going separate family.
Once I committed suicide due to fight with my husband but he saved me. Aft tat he asked Mr me to write in paper tat Wat Al fault I made and for tat am only reason and his family members and he is not responsible.
Since I didn't go back whenever he calling me. He had doubt on my char. Sterday he came to my home an showed d proof of my past life chatting with my frdz. I agreed tat I had chat with my boy frdz. But he is saying tat I had sex contact with them all. He knows my email password and without my knowledge he took d chat list from my mail which I had. Now he is saying tat u made mistake in past life. So Stil u have tat contact so only u left me so am having doubt tat Stil u have contact with them aft marriage also. He told me tat he had spend 70thousands money once I came out from his home to track me an my char thru detective agency. He is saying I Wil forgive u but accept tat u had sex affairs with them and ask sorry I Wil take u back aft tat I Wil never question u. I asked sorry he said he Wil take back me home. Since my father didn't ask sorry from my husband he felt me and went to his home. Now he is threatening me and scolding me to come back and join with me. He was ex rowdy bfr marriage. He is very aggressive man. Am afraid to go back. Wat shld I do now plz plz help me....
logeshwari
(Querist) 14 September 2015
Can I apply for divorce
logeshwari
(Querist) 14 September 2015
Can I get replies in private inbox
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 15 September 2015
If your story is true then yore no less to blame.
You are abused by vulgar language. Forced to attempt suicide, forced to leave matrimonial home. Your father is made to apologise. Forced to write confessions. Total condition of matrimonial home is so that you are scared of going home and yet husband not providing alternative accommodations. You are false accused of adultery (pre-marriage love relation sis irrelevant) and forced to admit the same. All the conditions are being created so that you do not get any maintainance after divorce.
By the way can you tell what for the Govt has opened THANA in every locality. Why Govt spends extra money to CAW Cells in each area.
These agencies are to help persons like you.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 15 September 2015
I am not sure what do you want. Since your husband in spite of knowing your past is ready to accept you and even ready to stay separate I find no reason why you should disagree.
Otherwise get divorce from him by mutual consent.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 15 September 2015
If you do not want to remain with your husband, try for mutual consent divorce.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 15 September 2015
Initially his behaviour is congenial. When you could not adjust with his family members he showed concern about your past life. If you wish to continue the marriage bond, have a talk and know from him what exactly he wants from you and whether he can bring some change in the attitude of family members. If you have come to conclusion to break the bond, better go for MCD.
SAINATH DEVALLA
(Expert) 16 September 2015
The proverb "STICH IN TIME SAVES NINE"
Hardly one year of marriage and on the rocks.
UR husband fully knowing UR past love affair has married U,without intimating his household.Once UR matrimonial home comming to know such things later on,there will be some sort of ill feeling,which could have been curtailed by UR husband,instead of aggravating it.
Even now U can take the assistance of women's orgns to come out of this whirlpool.
Biswanath Roy
(Expert) 16 September 2015
From the given facts what I understood that even if you go to your husband's place your marital life will not be peaceful. So my advice is better go for Mutual Consent Divorce.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 21 September 2015
Experts have advised differently and reasonably, it is your choice or option now to proceed in a right direction as per your conscious.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 22 September 2015
I will agree with Mr Roy. But I will add that such like husbands never (never) agree for peaceful divorce or reconciliation unless facing rude behaviour at CAW.
