Help Me, Widow of Advocate
Malabika Basu
(Querist) 09 November 2010
This query is : Resolved
I am 65 years old, my husband used to be an advocate. I am posting this message as I am in need of help from the lawyer fraternity. My only adughter who was married for 12 years with a 6 yr old child is undergoing tremendous torture at her in laws. She had entered into depression. I took her to doctor and kept her with me. Now she had recovered. I didnt complain as I am alone and do not want to disrupt her marriage. But now her in laws are using her depression as pretext that she was always mentaly ill and wants to send her back. Please please help me. What should I do. I am defenceless but still I want justice for my daughter and at the same time at least her ornaments etc should be returned and her husband needs to provide maintainance. Please Please help me. What should I do? where should I go?
Adv Archana Deshmukh
(Expert) 09 November 2010
File a application u/s.125 crpc for maintainance, she can also file an application for restitution of conjugal rights if she wants to go back.
Shashikant V. Patil
(Expert) 09 November 2010
Dear Madam,
If her health is sound, you may send your daughter and her child to her in-laws, if they insist to send back. It is good sign that they call back her. You may try this offer. And let her live their with new spirit alongwith her child too. They will have to show love and affection. See their reaction for few days then decide further course of action.
Malabika Basu
(Querist) 09 November 2010
Mr. Patil and Adv Archana, thank you for you post. But I had sent her back to in laws. They are calling me to send my daughter back sending false allegations that she was always mentaly ill. However it is 12 yrs of her marriage, how is it possible. The in laws have kept all her ornaments and other things. How will I maintain her? I wish I had died before seeing this, I can not even pray for death now as then who will look after my defenceless daughter who have been reduced to a wreck by her in laws and now they want to throw her out.
R.Ramachandran
(Expert) 09 November 2010
Dear Mam,
I fully understand your pangs. Sitting at Delhi I am not in a position to render any meaningful help. However, be sure, some good samaritan Advocate in your place will surely come forward sooner than later to render whatever assistance that is possible. May GOD help you.
Guest
(Expert) 09 November 2010
NANDKUMAR B.SAWANT.M.COM.LL.B.(MUMBAI),ADVOCATE
MOBILE.9960223100, 9271971251
e.mail.advocatesawant@yahoo.com
e.mail.nandkumarbs@sify.com
KINDLY NOTE THAT ALMOST ALL ACTS ARE IN FAVOUR OF MARRIED WOMEN.HENCE BE CONFIDENT AND FILE CRIMINAL CASE FOR MAINTAINENCE AND CIVIL SUIT FOR MAINTAINENCE AND CAN FILE AN APPLICATION UNDER PROTECTION OF WOMEN FROM DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACT.YOU MAY CLAIM MAINTAINENCE AND ALSO SHARE IN PROPERTY.
YOU MAY KINDLY SEND DETAILS FROM THE STAGE OF MARRIAGE TILL TODAY WILL HELP YOU DRAFTING AND TO FILE THE MATTERS IN APPROPRIATE COURT.
YOU ARE FROM THE FAMILY OF ADVOCATE AND IT IS DUTY TO HELP YOU GET THE LEGAL DUES.
GOOD LUCK .
REGARDS TO ALL.
Arvind Singh Chauhan
(Expert) 09 November 2010
Yes Don't get disappointed Follow NandKumar Sir's advice. If You are just, I don't think that any lawyer will let you helpless.
RAVI B SHAH
(Expert) 10 November 2010
PLS mention the name of your city so local advocate from our team can help you in fighting for trhtu.
Kumar Krishan Agarwal Advocate
(Expert) 10 November 2010
1. It is better to approach the Bar President where your Ld Advocate husband was practising. Tell all the same facts as you described here or more than that.
2. Then insist Bar President to call your daughter in laws and ask them truly what their intentions are?
3. If there intentions are honest then make a proper written agreement with you, your daugther and in laws that all may live peacefully and if any wrongful act be committed by the in laws parties for causing grievous hurt or deadly attack on your daughter then this Bar will file a criminal case against the offender.
4. Ask the Bar President to talk to your daughter in laws each month and to you daughter so that no wrongful act will be performed against your humble daughter. This will make your in laws in pressure and more cautious and they do a right behavior to your daughter forever and nor they do any harassment to your daughter any more.
Happy life to you and for your daughter.
Have a nice day.
From KK AGARWAL ADV.
[If the problem area is for Western Uttar Pardesh then I will stand on behalf of you freely without any charge.]
Arun Kumar Bhagat
(Expert) 17 November 2010
If you are from Kolkata, then I can render free service to you.
