Help me please
Sumit Kumar
(Querist) 15 April 2012
This query is : Resolved
Respected Law Officer,
Can we (My Brother and I) bring our mother home back even she is divorced and we are living at our father's house?
Because Our mother has No House to Live because her Parents have died and she has been suffering and still living on rent basis by working people's houses, Sir, Please Guide us, she is been harassed by the circumstances, earlier she had taken divorce because father and Grandmother and aunts used to treat her bad, Now as we are grown up and want our mother to stay with us.
Our father was Psychiatric Patient and he is still Psychiatric Patient, But we are confident that we can control the situations now, if our mother lives with us in same home. PLEASE SIR HELP US BY YOUR VALUABLE SUGGESTIONS.
And, Problems are being Created by Grandmother's Daughters They are opposing our decisions and talk bad about our mother and so Grandmother does the same, we are living in our father's house with the Police Help, Grandmother's Daughters and their sons threat us on daily basis to death and all situation is messed up.
Please Help me and My family with your valuable Suggestion.
Regards,
Sumit Dabgotra
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 15 April 2012
An unheard situation. I feeel her relations with you are not cancelled. She has a right to live anywhere that you have right to live. But hse cannot live where your father is living. Children of divorced couples generally have to decide where to live. Though looking funny but nothing stops them from getting re-married.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 15 April 2012
Repeated query, please retain only one thread.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
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Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 15 April 2012
Dear Querist
I agree with Mr. Sudhir
Arun Kumar Bhagat
(Expert) 15 April 2012
There is no harm in bringing her back and living with her sons provided hostile environment at home is well tackled off.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 15 April 2012
your father wont accept her . it is your father house . since he is a psychiatrist patient it will only make thing worse . since you and your brother are working why dont you stay happily in a rented place .
save money and buy separate flat .
your mother could have made application for maintenace form her ex husband . it could help you in paying off rental bills
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 15 April 2012
कृपाकर प्रश्न दोहराने की प्रवृति का परित्याग करें
धन्यवाद् ,
भवदीय
प्रभाकर सिंह
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 15 April 2012
I have not read or answered your earlier query so this is not repeated for me and I shall share my views as desired.
I am of the considered view that the reasons due to which your mother had to get divorce from your father are still existing and the situation has become more grim. The attitude of your ground-mother, your aunts, your uncles, the health of your father etc. has not changed so why to bring your mother in the premises which purely belongs to your father and you are not in a position to rebut the situation.
If you both brothers are capable enough, do help your mother economically, mentally, morally and support her in all ways possible so that she may also live in a proper life and may prove herself as innocent towards her liabilities as a mother and wife.
