abusive father on girl child

Aishika (Querist) 24 May 2010 This query is : Resolved
i am a 17 year old girl...i will be turning 18 soon...my father is extremely abusive towards me and my mother...he mentally tortures us...we both are financially dependent on him and he takes full advantage of that...we dont have other relatives who can help us...recently he told me he wont provide for my studies anymore...i cn manage by college fees...bt i wont be able 2 provide for my other necessities lyk food...clothing...shelter etc...since i will be turning into an adult in 2 months will he be able to turn me out of his house? in that case can i take any legal action against him? please help as soon as possible

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Guest (Expert) 24 May 2010
NANDKUMAR B.SAWANT.M.COM.LL.B.(MUMBAI),ADVOCATE
MOBILE.9271971251, 9960223100

e.mail.adv.nbsawant@yahoo.co.in
e.mail.nandkumarbs@sify.com

REGARDING THE LEGAL REMEDY KINDLY NOTE THAT.

1.KINDLY NOTE THAT YOU ARE JUST 17 YEARS OF AGE AND YOU HAVE TO FACE THE REAL LIFE DIFFICULTIES TO SURVIVE.SO BE COOL AND CONFIDENT.AND YOU HAVE TO BE TOUGH TO DEFEND YOURSELF IN FUTURE.
2.YOU AND YOUR MOTHER STAYED WITH YOUR FATHER FOR MORE THAN SEVENTEEN YEARS.KINDLY NOTE THAT HE HAS TAKEN CARE OF YOU BOTH FOR FOOD FINANCE AND SHELTER AND SAFETY FOR SUCH A LONG PERIOD DUE TO LOVE AND AFFECTION.KINDLY NOTE THAT ANY PARENT WILL ALWAYS THINK SERIOUSLY ABOUT THE FUTURE OF THEIR CHILDREN.THOUGH DUE TO TENSION AT WORKPLACE YOUR FATHER MAY BE BEHAVING ROUGHLY WITH YOU AND YOUR MOTHER.BUT DO NOT TAKE HIS WORDS SERIOUSLY AS DUE TO FINANCIAL AND OTHER DIFFICULTIES HE MIGHT HAVE DEVELOPED SUCH ATTITUDE.
3.YOU WILL BE MAJOR PERSON IN NEXT YEAR SO BE COOL AND CONFIDENT AND TRY TO SUPPORT THE INCOME OF YOUR FAMILY BY JOINING SOME PART TIME JOB. LEARNING TO EARN IS NOT AN OFFENCE.BE SELF SUPPORTING AND JOIN SOME GOOD COMPANY .YOU WILL GET GOOD JOB AND YOUR FUTURE LIFE WILL BE MOST SUCCESSFUL.
4.KINDLY NOTE THAT PARENT WILL ALWAYS WISH FOR BEST THINGS FOR THEIR CHILDREN THEY ARE MOULDING THEIR CAREER BY POINTING OUT THEIR MISTAKES BECAUSE THEY LOVE THEM.
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THANKS.

Arvind Singh Chauhan (Expert) 24 May 2010
Follow the generous advice given by Nand Kumar Sir. Hope for the best in future. Law is fully in your favour.

Uma parameswaran (Expert) 24 May 2010
Try to avail bank loan and finish a professional course.In the mean while you can do any part time work also.Your father could not put you outside from the house.It is his duty to protect you.Try to study your father's problem deeply and make him to understand it.Definitely a family counselor can help you.So see a family counselor and protect the family relation ship.