Need help
Victim of 498a
(Querist) 04 November 2014
This query is : Resolved
Hi Experts,
We got married on May 2011
She went her parents’ house on Feb-2012 because she got conceived
After we blessed with baby boy on July- 2012
She joined matrimonial house 1 year later on December 2012 (pregnancy reason)
After one week she went her parents’ house to attend NET exam on December 2012
And she came again on Feb 2013, she stayed with me for a week then she left home with her parents due to some quarrel between us on Feb 2013 and still she not yet joined me it almost 18 months over.
Myself and our parents tried to convinced to her and their parents but they didn't listen
After 6 months finally I send 2 notices with the help of lawyer, they replied for 2nd notice but they didn’t come.
so I filled divorce on June 2013 in Bangalore i appeared first hearing she not came her representative attend the hearing and he went so we took date and came back, on second hearing i met with an accident an took almost 6 months bed rest in this period even i also couldn't attend the hearings almost 6 months passed without appearing the hearings due to accident
She filled CRPc 125 for maintenance on august 2013 in her jurisdiction , so me and parents went to their home to get back her matrimonial house there lawyer and my FIL said to us if you withdraw the divorce file then will send our daughter, so I thought its good sign, so I believed them and went to Bangalore to withdraw the divorce file, on Jan-2014 I took back the divorce case and gave copy to his lawyer but they played game with us he didn’t send her daughter finally I thought to fight and took divorce from her so attended all hearings on their jurisdiction, so filled RCR on May 2014 to avoid maintenance.
After I filled RCR 2 weeks later she filed false 498a, 323,324 on me and my parents.
After one week we got AB and attended 1st and 15th date to give attendance in police station now that process also completed.
charge sheet filled on me only..... I had attended 2 hearings in criminal court and the parallel y in family court 125crpc and RCR is running, 1 and half month back magistrate pass the order to us to stay both in a separate home on 1 month trail base after that she again refused to stay in with me her lawyer said that will give for objection for this but still they not submitted objection ...without submitting her objection her cross is going on ..............?
And one more fact that is,
In the same roof my wife and my wife sisters got married, so in the invitation card two daughters name was printed after one month’s her second daughter had quarrel with husband mother and got separated and finally she took divorce and now she got married again.
While her crossing in front of judge my wife accepted that my sister got divorce and she got married again, now they are playing with us.........
What will be my strategy how to get rid of from this mess?
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 04 November 2014
Consult with your lawyer. Without seeing the respective case papers the course of action can not be advised.
