Divorce and wait

Mandip Singh Bahra (Querist) 01 March 2013 This query is : Resolved
Dear
Can you please guide me for divorce process
I Married on Oct 2008. (Before marriage we offered for the free marriage and only reception ,but they denied it)Everything gone Okay up to the Feb 2009 ,she was with me at Jamshedpur for 4 months where i was working on a good job about 20000/Month salary,
Feb 2009 – She Got Pregnancy and Came back to see her Mother (affected by Breast Cancer earlier)
May 2009- Her Mother Passed away due to long ago breast cancer. (We asked her to stay there if she needed to support her family for a short time).
Aug 2009 – My Sisters went to see her where they were Humiliated and Insulted by Her Father.
Sept. 2008 – I went to see her but they humiliated and Insulted me also.
Oct 2009- My Mother went to take her back ,She also Insulted and Humiliated.
Oct 2009- I Got baby.
Nov 2009 – I came from Jamshedpur to see both of them. Where I was Humiliated (Father in law asked for 4 lacs and 40000 that has been spent on Marriage and delivery to bring my daughter back). Video enclosed.
Dec 2009 – I asked my wife to go with me for abroad education and life settlement if she is not fitted here. She denied.
Jan 2010 – I went to my In laws and told that I will go by 18 Jan 2010 to UK for study.
In UK I sent her money also ,Visa letter worth (70000 INR) ,asked to join me, she refused to come over there. Even she was not answering my phones. (Informed to NRI Police station HSP)
18 Aug 2011 – I came back from UK (as to save my family life) . Leaving Post study work and Permanent Residence Status offer .
Sept 2011 – After Coming I tried for job and got it so I booked tickets for Jamshedpur to leave Mukerian on 3 Sept. 2011 to stay away with my wife.
Spet 2012 – I carried her with me to celebrate (Raakhi ) I left her in the night and went to get my raakhi from my sister near to village. Suddenly when I came back I saw her with a person and opposed her . They threatened me to put false allegation of 498A. To see all of it I lost my brain consciousness and went to Himachal. After two days I came back to my MC where he told me to go directly at Police station dasuya and report for the same.
Sept -2011 – When she came to know about Jamshedpur migration She put false allegation of 498 A at Dasuya Police Station (In enquiry it was found false)
In Police station she asked me at that time to be separated from my Parents. (Although I was earlier agreed even). Panchayat made agreement that both will be freed and there will not be interference of families. At that time in front of SHO and other members her father asked “ If you want to go with Mandip , don’t come to me”.
Oct 2011 – We shifted to Mukerian to Ludhiana. She insisted me to go again back to her home. Being adjustment I brought her back four times to her parents. There she was meeting with her Cousin Sister also.
Dec 2011 – We spent 2 months at Ludhiana . I told about my new job at Delhi ,at that day she ran away from room and My Home owner settled the things two times. When I told her about relocation she came to her home at bodlan and asked that she will not move.
Jan 2012 – I tried go her home but she refused to meet me.
March 2012- I came back to see them in Holi Festival . as I was supposed to be there on Thursday apparently I reached there on next day and entered my in laws house suddenly observed that my Wife is with one person and my Father in Law is outside. When I saw them without clothes I could not stopped my self to ask for the same. In the meanwhile both my wife and that man attacked upon me and thrashed that I have come here to beat them . I can recognize that fellow by face. They beaten me and asked police to put heavy cases . Without knowing my confession Police Put me IPC sec 107 -151. In the police station she asked me to pay 10 Lacks for divorce.

I have claimed sec 9 of HMA RCR last 1.5 Years Old. I received two time ex par-tee decision ,but now she claimed directly 24 HMA ,although i am paying expenses for child without even court order .

Now am i eligible for Divorce on cruelty and serration basis. I am ready to keep my daughter with me...

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