Hi
Kalpana
(Querist) 26 November 2018
This query is : Resolved
My husband has filled rcr three counselling has been over where he never spoke soft to take me back.the mediator said to proceed in the court.if the rcr decree is not given in his favour what will happen.can i join him after he loses his rcr..please help me
KISHAN DUTT KALASKAR
(Expert) 26 November 2018
Dear Madam,
Whether RCR is decreed or not you can join his house at any time and close all the issues.
Please mark “LIKE” if satisfied by my answer.
Kalpana
(Querist) 26 November 2018
Sir,
my mother in law is the one who is runing my life with my husband.can i ask for seprate house
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 26 November 2018
RCR allowed or not, he'll not keep you, rather he'll wait for 1 year to seek divorce on the ground of non consummation of conjugal relationship with him. RCR was filled for preventing criminal proceeding against him if filled by you and to go in for divorce ultimately.
Seek permanent alimony and maintenance from him that's the best way to get maximum relief against him otherwise filling criminal proceedings etc will not be of much help to you.
Asking separate place to live away from his mother, is good option but he'll not agree for it. No court can force him to do it just on your demand rather if you want to live with him go and enter his house now itself why wait for final order of court, no one can stop you for that.
Kalpana
(Querist) 27 November 2018
Sir.
can i file maintenance case if rcr and divorce petition is pending
Guest
(Expert) 27 November 2018
Certainly Please ................................................
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 28 November 2018
Request your lawyer to move an application u/s 24 HMA for interim maintenance during pendency of case.
When your husband has moved RCR and you are willing to join his society, what is the need for proceeding further.
Just reconcile, adjust, accommodate, respect each other and talk with your husband and enjoy your married life adopting the policy of "forgive and forget".
Best wishes
Kalpana
(Querist) 28 November 2018
Sir
when it comes to arguments in rcr if i say my allegations of both physical and mental torture by him.and wants to join him for the sake of my daughter giving a last chance what will be the advantage for me and my daughter.what happens for my mother inlaw and husband who tortured me will the get any written statement from them and send me for my safety or just like that