Mother in law
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Anonymous
(Querist) 29 December 2011
This query is : Resolved
hi experts,
since past 1 yr i have been staying with my parents however inspite of telling my husband that to come n take me home he is not ready to come. all my day to day needs & expenses currently are being provided by my parents.my husband has completely washed off his hands from my responsibilty,he is completely under his mother's control under her thumb whatever she says he does accordingly , she is not fit to be called as a women coz she never wanted marriage limitations n husband in her life so at the age of 60 she has thrown her husband out of her home, now she is after my marriage from the day when i got married since day 1 she has problems with me she bad mouths me,abuses me,humiliates me every time n my husband never ever supports me on the contrary he listens to his mother & torchures me more n says whatever his mother says i vil have to listen now also only coz of his mother he is not taking me back home.my mother in law does not want that i shud come back home she is the sole creator of all the problems in my marriage,i have even said my husband that if she dont want me at my matrimonial home v can rent a home where v can live happily bt he is nt ready for that even.plz suggest me what can i do especially my mother in law she has destroyed my life n still she is not satisfied my life is spoilt due to her what can i do to teach her a lesson of lifetime she thinks that marriages are just for fun n timepass n people like her can make or break it whenever they want,so that next time before destroying some innocent girls life she thinks 1000 times n wont treat relations n marriages as her authority.
plz suggest asap.
thanks
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 29 December 2011
Your problem is more a personal one than the legal one.
You have no option but to make your husband see the reasons. A private talk or advices by your parents or some elderly relatives from his side may yield positive results.
Since you are willing a reunion I would not suggest you to go for legal proceedings just now. Give him a time frame to take you back. If he defaults repeatedly then filing cases for maintenance and for tortures are open to you which would be advised you once the time comes.
Rajeev Kumar
(Expert) 29 December 2011
You should file RCR for reunion and also maintainence case.But it is highly suggested to settle the matter amicably
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 29 December 2011
That is all about your mother in law.
But what about you??
You want to act against your mother in law and husband legally or there is scope of some compromise on either part.Remedies in law are many!!!!!!!
Deepak Nair
(Expert) 29 December 2011
You have mentioned your problem, but there is no query.
Please specify what you want to know?
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 29 December 2011
First have a heart to heart talk with your spouse.
If you start moving somewhere involve your parents/ his parents/ other family members.
There is no point running to courts for any relief, which would be too less than you think and too far away in future.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 29 December 2011
Probably your husband does not know legal implications. He just has to be told of the same and he will see the reason. If you approach CAW they do not arrest the husband and family at once and give time for conciliation.
