For Dowry iam Mentaly tortured by my husband
Suganya
(Querist) 01 March 2011
This query is : Resolved
I got Married on Aug2008.as soon i completed my Degree my marriage was done bcoz they forced my Parents as their son is getting aged..Befor Marriage they said We all will take care of ur Girls like an Angel so my Father gave 60 Sovereign of Gold for me,7Sovereign for him,all essential item which is requried for house which abt 1.75 lakhs,He does not have driving licence so he brought a scooty streak so that we both can drive and my father did marriage which cost about 2.3 lakhs but everyone changed after marriagemy mother in-law strated say to all that even girls aready to give 100Sovereign my boy to do marriage but it is my boy bad luck he is married to thjis family.my Mother in-law use tosay alway that iam short,fat and iam not Suitable for her Soon.my husband use to say that he married me For my Salary and He will Beat me like an Animal.iam Working in top It company i use to do cooking i just hime we can keep as servent for other works but he refused and beated like anything at that lime i was 3 months Perganent only my ground floor anuty took me to her house and Next day i left to my house..after that he didnt come to take me or even he didnt care abt me or the abt my kid...i the mean while his mother said to all the relation that his is still eglible for second marriage..so with help of thambram AC uncle ,he just called him and advice to take care of me and my kid...after that for 3 months he was ok and again startrd talking very bad about me and my Family...i just left my kid to my mother and i was living with him bcoz iam working in Chennai...I was forced to leave my kid and work bcoz he wont even spend one rupee for me and my kid...three month before big fight btwn me and my husband he started talking very bad about with my Project mates....so in Angry after coming to Office i send a message that i want divorce by keep that message he keep on torturing like locking the house with different lock and making me to stand out for longer time ,Packed all the vessal and kept that uppershelf of the house which i cannt able to take .For past there months iam having bread in night and some in Office...even after all this iam leavin with him thinking abt the girl kid........but now a days condition become worst he want to send me out of the house and do want to do second Marriage...Her say that with thtat message he will apply divorce and will send me out of the house...actual i also Failed to change hin and fedup to like with him but now my salary not enough to see a seperate house and live in chennai.my Father has heart Problem so iam scared to say that he is going to divorce me....i dont know what to how to take care of my girl kid...i dont know any one in chennai to ask what i should do next........
Prashant Kumar Jha
(Expert) 01 March 2011
See life is struggle and we all in any sense must have to face it as far as legal cource is concerned if u are totally fedup or there is no chance to improve relationship with ur husband then only u go for legal remidies because when u will start legal action then ur relation with husband and inlaws will be more strained so before moving to legal remedies try tosave ur family and if that is impossible than u can move to nearby police station to lodge the FIR against the person who are hrassing u under domestic voilence act and under 498A along with dowry probhition act. Then concerned police officer will do the need ful but take the decision with cool mind bcoz decision taken in hurry can ruin ur marital life. feel free to call me for more legal advice my cell no is 9419797176
Uma parameswaran
(Expert) 01 March 2011
No need to worry about the email message.You can give acomplaint before Protection Officer under Domestic Violence Act. It shall be very helpful for you.If you need any further help you can call me -9940579469
M V Gupta
(Expert) 03 March 2011
From what u have narrated it appears that ur husband is incorrigible. Take the help of the above experts and move legally before ur husband goes to the court for divorce with all false allegations against u.
