498a

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 10 March 2010 This query is : Resolved
DEAR SIR,

MY BROTHER-IN-LAW IS NEWLY MARRIED (AROUND SIX MONTH BEFORE). HIS WIFE IS SOME CHEAP MINDED. SHE ALWAYS ABUSES THE IN-LAW'S & HUSBAND. HER EYE IS ON IN-LAW'S PROPERTY. SHE BEHAVES VERY ROUGHLY WITH THE MOTHER-IN-LAW & FATHER-IN-LAW. SHE HARDLY PREPARE FOOD. PERHAPS SHE HAS SOME WRONG RELATIONSHIP AT HER NATIVE, SO ALWAYS WANNA GO TO NATIVE. BUT IN-LAW'S ARE NOT ALLOWING. NUMBER OF TIMES SHE GOT CAUGHT TALKING OVER PHONE IN MIDNIGHT. MY BROTHER-IN-LAW HAS JOINED HIS JOB RECENTLY. SO HE IS IN OTHER CITY FOR JOB. MY FATHER-IN-LAW & MOTHER-IN-LAW ARE VERY SOFT NATURED & INNOCENT. BUT SHE IS HARASSING THEM LIKE ANY THING. SHE ALWAYS THREATENS THAT SHE WILL COMMIT SUICIDE & FORCE THEM TO GO JAIL. ONCE SHE HAS COMMITTED ALSO, SHE HAS TAKEN 15 PILLS OF AVIL-50 AT A TIME TO DO SO. BUT SHE WAS SAVED. NUMBER OF TIMES SHE HAS GIVEN WRONG STATEMENT TO HER PARENTS THAT HER MOTHER-IN-LAW HAS BEATEN HER. WHEN HER PARENTS CAME TO INVESTIGATE THEN SHE TOLD THAT THIS WAS JUST A JOKE & SHE ACCEPTED IN-FRONT OF EVERYBODY THAT NO BODY HAS BEATEN HER. EVEN SHE HAS BROUGHT SOME KIND OF POWDER (FROM ANY SAINT) TO GIVE HER HUSBAND TO MAKE HIM UNDER HER CONTROL. HER PARENTS HAS THREATENED OVER PHONE THAT THEY ARE GOING TO KILL EVERY-BODY.

NOW HER PARENTS ARE TELLING THAT THEY ARE GOING TO CHARGE IPC 498A AGAINST IN-LAW'S. THEY ARE GOING TO PUT THE NAME OF ALL FAMILY MEMBER AGAINST DOWRY HARRASMENT. ALTHOUGH I HAVE NEVER GONE THERE AFTER MARRIAGE. THEY ARE GOING TO PUT MY NAME & MY WIFE'S NAME ALSO IN THE FIR.
CAN U PLEASE ADVICE ME WHAT SHOULD I DO IN SUCH SITUATION.

THANKS & REGARDS

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Raj Kumar Makkad (Expert) 10 March 2010
In such cases, it is wise on the part of husband to reconcile the matter amicably otherwise the results generally remain dangerous for both the families. You being nearest relative of your brother in law can play a good role in this matter.

Adv ramesh chheda (Expert) 10 March 2010
jst put a conduct of his wife on the record of the police dpt and also lodge a police complaint aga her for giving threats to u alll

Guest (Expert) 10 March 2010
I do agree with Mr Makkad, But so far as you and your wife are concerened, you both living separately.... its very difficult to provefor her the case of 498 A IPC against you n your wife.