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Kumarsirik
(Querist) 10 August 2013
This query is : Resolved
Wife torments husband, makes him leave parents, threatens suicide, owns a mobile phone without husband's knowledge, speaks ill about husband and in-laws with relatives, harasses servants, stage-manages conflicts between husband and his relatives in addition to manipulative behaviour and lies. My friend whos is victim of her nasty behaviour has no evidence. He seeks help of wife's family and they refuse to help him.
He hack's in to her mail account desperately in search of evidence and finds evidence. He does not save these chats but confronts wife. She deletes them promptly. He records arguments and she steals the device from him. He is left with no evidence. There were quarrels between them on many ocassions. On few she creates nuisance in public and also disrupts a family holiday.
Now the dejected husband has no way to go without evidence. His wife now on for filing DV for
1. unauthorised mail access
2. recording her conversations
This guy has no defense on his side. Is this going to put an end to any happiness he can salvage in life. Now he is jobless and depressed. He tried taking her to family therapy where they told she suffers from Narcistic Personality Disorder and needs treatment. She refuses.
He is in constant threat of his career and welfare being spoilt.
Does he stand any chance of defending himself?
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 10 August 2013
We all know law demands proof which your friend does not have as you state.
But a silverling i find between the lines that those servants(" harasses servants"you have stated)can be best independent evidence to prove much of her cruel behavior not only with them but also with husband they must have witnessed time to time.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 10 August 2013
Kumar,
your 5 years old marriage is not a happy one.
You were advised to file Divorce in your last last Queries.
You do not act on our advise, and go on raising new incident of unhappy quarells.
Now y stated "Is this going to put an end to any happiness he can salvage in life. Now he is jobless and depressed."
So better sever relationship before it is too late.
Go from sad / unhappy company to a new happy married life/ u need to change your Wife. File Divorce.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 12 August 2013
If you have sufficient grounds then file for divorce.
