Want to marry again
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Anonymous
(Querist) 26 December 2011
This query is : Resolved
nothing to say thank u to all
Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 26 December 2011
Dear Alok
Your first marriage as a muslim is void ab-initio.
secondly you can not deny marriage if she has any proof.
yes thye court may passed a divorce decree in your favour in this ground.
4. if the court agree then she has right to maintinance too.
5. yes you can file a divorce petition in delhi court. if she does not appear before the court then you may get ex-party divorce decree
feel free to call
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Anonymous
(Querist) 26 December 2011
thank you for the advice will contact you soon
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Anonymous
(Querist) 26 December 2011
pls close this query as advised by Mr sudhir kumar and Mr Kumar thank u that atlast you read and understood how depressed I am presently its not abt second marriage its abt getting a job abroad so i need passport and not marriage sorry it was wrongly submitted thank u
Deepak Nair
(Expert) 26 December 2011
First of all, I would like to ask you that, why did you refused the summons from the court when she filed a divorce petition, eveh though you wanted divorce?
You could have accepted the summouns and given your consent for divorce 20 years back itself and you would have been free to remarry without any hurdles 20 years back itself.
with reference to your questions, Mr. Nadeem has rightly advised you.
Regarding the second marriage, it will be better to marry after you obtain divorce, because, if your exosting wife comes to know this during the divorce proceedings, it may create hurdles in the divorce proceedings.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 26 December 2011
It is not advisable to deny the marriage wholesale as the re may be plenty of proof of marriage if not that of certificate.
You better file suit for divorce under Indian Divorce Act.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 26 December 2011
Agreed with experts.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 26 December 2011
Nothing cogent can be understood from you story. All I can understand is that (i) you are Christian (ii) girl is Muslim (iii) you married as per Muslim customs. (iv) You did not change religion. It is understood that either you lied before the Mulla or the Mulla connived in illegal marriage (v) Your mother was her official superior and did not allow her to submit Nikahnama to the Deptt (vi) In order to please you mother she had to agree for a Christian marriage (vii) Your mother was happy with the christina marriage (viii) You mother her official superior allowed recording of marriage only when the girl was driven to Christian marriage (ix) She did not change religions (x) While Christian priests were not agreeing to the marriage you found a professionally fallen priest who had you married secretary (xi) You did not follow the procedure of Spl Marriage Act which allows marriages of different faith without change of religion. (xii) The girl has moved a divorce case (xiii) You are evading summons (xiv) You want to avoid divorce though believing yourself to be twice married and yet have a secret marriage (xv) You want legal experts on this forum to advise you the ways of committing crime. (xvi) You are a lowly paid employee and have induced her to marry you. (xvii) This lady instead of fixing you and your mother in series of non-bailable cases is filing a divorce case and simply wants to get rid of you (xviii) You will evade the divorce case filed in Agra (you think you can) and then you will file another case in Delhi and will ensure that summons do not go to her. I do not know whether you are a mafia lord or a committed cheat who can take legal process for granted to dance as per your tunes. (xix) You are probably not aware of your liability to maintain three children, even if your wife is earning or you want to avoid this. (xx) You say that probably she does not have the marriage certificate but forget that the certificate is recorded in her service record (xxi) You are giving a reasonable suspicion that you are sure that the marriage intimation is removed from her records. (xxii) You forget that even if you deny marriage though Mr Devajyoti Burman Advised against it, yet you cannot deny the parentage of children (xxiii) You seem to be unaware that if the parentage of children is proved by DNA test and you insist that you were never married to their mother then you can even land in rape charges and ruin the life of three daughters who belong to you.
As advised by Mr Nadeem Qureshi the marriage is void. Both the marriages are void. You had two illegal marriages. If you have entered in void marriage and made the girls to have been married to you and had sex then be ready to be in Jail for rape charge. Now you are seeking advise that while believing yourself to be married and want to remarry secretly. Any one in this thread would not like to give his mind for planning a crime. It appears from your conduct that you want to retain this double illegal marriage and have another marriage with another girl so that you can have two wives in disguise. If you are married as per Christian rights (though out of church secretly) where from did Nikahnama came. You said that your mother was official superior of the girl and forced her to accept Christianity (probably stopped the girl from submitting Nikahnama) Don’t you think you mother a Govt servant holding supervisory post misused official position and can lose her job. No Govt servant can be permitted to force his/her religion on subordinates even if the subordinate wants to marry her son.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 27 December 2011
THANKS FOR THE ADVICE
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Anonymous
(Querist) 27 December 2011
THANX FOR THE ADVICE
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Anonymous
(Querist) 27 December 2011
I would once again ask an advice from all my respected lawyers what should i do after you read my whole story?
on wht grounds i hv to file divorce as being christian or as being married thru muslim laws? i am confused on it I am out of maritial relationship with her for more than 20 yrs now. and can i file divorce from delhi as some lawyers told me u cant as u hv to file divorce at the place u got married? plss advice.
Is there any ruling that if the couple is seperated for 20 yrs i could get some immediate relief if i file a case against her advice accordingly..thank u
DEFENSE ADVOCATE.-firmaction@g
(Expert) 27 December 2011
Well you like it or not Sudhir kumar has bluntly told you your current legal position.And instead being thanful to him you are preaching decency no good.
Now I agree and this type of comments are increasing on this site, yours is welcome change.
DEFENSE ADVOCATE.-firmaction@g
(Expert) 27 December 2011
And Mr Nadeem how you expect any court to give a divorce degree to a person who is having two children from the relations.
He does not have proof for muslim marriage nor chritian marriage but so long relations and two children is enough.
Ex party divorce is hanging sword and can be set aside at any time.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 27 December 2011
THANK U FOR THE ADVICE
DEFENSE ADVOCATE.-firmaction@g
(Expert) 27 December 2011
Whether you like it or not it is not insult but the opinion is given clearly and forthrightly by Mr Sudhir , well you do not like it and feel afended it is your pleasure.
This is a free sight and people put time to give advice which you will not get even after payment of money.
Deepak Nair
(Expert) 04 January 2012
Agree with Mr.JSDN.
The advise from Mr.Kumar was an open hearted comment which was right from the heart. You shall learn to take such comments in its spirit.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 04 January 2012
As only few lawyers hv really understood the way i hv put my issue...neither Mr sudhir kumar neither JSDN OR MR DEEPAK NAIR Has really read wht i hv written but instead of giving me proper advices like other did has frantically abused me and they have all a threatening tone it seems they are all God angels and they never sinned in their life waaaahhhh what a statement ...useless website to come and ask for advice ...Only very few i find that are really decent and to the point talks
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 15 January 2012
I do not need any explantion. It is your life you have full right to spoil it. I have studied law like other experts on this forum. You came to this forum for a chartitable advise. This has been given to you by all experts as per best of their wisdom (off course free of cost) spending time from their busy personal and professional life. You go to the chamber of any practicing lawyer of this forum and learn as to how much he/she will charge. The experts here are not soothsayers who hide the real law and say only those words which you may like to hear. It is fact that you have done series of blunder.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 15 January 2012
You have very well been advised by various experts
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 16 January 2012
I will further free advise you in your own interest. Please do not share so many facts against you or your late mother's behavior to the lady. The advocate of the lady if member of this forum will be getting free advise on the darker side of your version. eg. You have declared on net that you will file a case and ensure she does not get summon.
