Urgent advice on divorce.
dev060186
(Querist) 07 December 2014
This query is : Resolved
i/husband has an proof
1)giving monthly bank transfer statement to support her family even she is earning as my inlaw ar poor.
2) she rans three time in 2.5 year of marriage to fullfil her demand so io caw cell i wretten from her ,if she leave me next timd then it will be divorce.
3) while leaving me she useto mail hr resume to find job as she is single. i have her mails
4) while leaveing me this time i made video shoot that she leave me with her intentional.
5) impresion on caw cell is in my favous.
6) and after caw cell i live seprated with my parent as she wants and it is also mention in notery by her.
i m very harash from her. i m only son of my parents. my puestion is that
IS IT SUFFICIENT PROOF TO FILE FOR DIVORCE? NO CASE IS REGISTER TILL NOW.
I apply for divorce and i get date,30-12-2014. What will be next?
ROHIT SHARMA
(Expert) 08 December 2014
1. After all you have file a petition for divorce and the next date of hearing 3-12-'14.
2. All that i can say is that ultimately your petition will survive since you have so many valid grounds for to have the marriage dissolved.
3. To understand the procedure that would entail such divorce petition you can best be advised by your advocate.
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ajay sethi
(Expert) 08 December 2014
you have already filed for divorce . notice would be issued to your wife and she has to file her reply to divorce petition filed by you .both parties have to meet counsellor to explore possibilities of reconcilation .
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 09 December 2014
Have reconciliation. Her parents are poor. She needs to support them at least until you have your children. What is wrong in supporting her parents with her earnings? If you co-operate, she will not leave you. You are also only son. Divorce is not the solution. It is your duty to take care of your parents as also you should her to take of her parents at least for some time. Rope in the elders and well wishers, have thread bare discussions with her, find out her real problem and if you can help, do that.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 09 December 2014
SEEMS U R 28 YRS .
STILL TIME.
q:IS IT SUFFICIENT PROOF TO FILE FOR DIVORCE? NO CASE IS REGISTER TILL NOW.
ans: NO.
YOU WILL NOT GET DIVORCE ON THESE AFORESAID REASONS.
Try to understand her.
As u love ur parents and support them, She too love her parents and want to support her parents .
These cannot be ground for DIVORCE.
She has right & choice to reside wherever she want, the way you hv equal right to reside with ur parents!!!
Law : Equality!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
U R FOOLISH ENOUGH TO FILE DIVORCE PETITION.. UR MISTAKE IS FATAL...
& U WILL NOT GET DIVORCE ON THESE GRD.
P. Venu
(Expert) 10 December 2014
The real problem, it appears, is that you are the only son of your parents. Reconciliation is possible if if you are willing to be a responsible and loving husband. And that is the only way out as there are no grounds for divorce. Please note that in the relationship of marriage, divorce is not the rule, but it is the exception, that too, as a compulsion, not as a choice.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 11 December 2014
Frustrations, difference of opinions, ego clashes, selfishness, lack of understanding, impatience and prematureness are the reasons that constitute to such hasty decisions. A patient thought introspecting everything would have answers for plenty of such created crises. The experts have observed many things as your problems and have advised you some good measures to be adopted by you which can save your marriage as well as future well being, why don't you attempt to give a try on any one of such suggestions before you.
dev060186
(Querist) 20 December 2014
Resp Sir, But she dont want to give birth child. And dont want to do any thing for my parents as I m only son of my parents. And want money from them. As my father has operated by by pass surgery and my mother is also old. And she uses abuse word to me as bhikhari and all like this, then how i bear her as all her need get fullfilled by me?
