What precautionary needed......
Banshilal Das
(Querist) 01 April 2013
This query is : Resolved
Dear Experts,
I have a son of 5 yrs out of 6 yrs marriage life.I live in kolkata for employment in a reputed concern. My parents live in my native place in a semi town area in W.B. Being only one son I always insisted on my wife's living in my native place with my parents and I visit them at every weekend. But my wife was against my will from the very begging and always created artificial problem.So, there was a tension in the relationship.In 2009 I took her kolkata again.Here in kolkata when I discovered an extramarital affairs and insisted on her going back to my native place. But She went to her parents house and remained there upto Dec'12.She convinced her parents that I tortured her mentally.They also kept my Son and 1 year of schooling .I send Rs.2000/- P.M. as per my lawyer's advice.In Jan'13 she again requested me that at least one chance she should be allowed to rectify herself.I agreed and rented a flat in anew area.My son is also admitted in one of the best school of kolkata. But That was my blunder after two months we went to our native place and stayed one night and collect the remaining 3 sets of her jwellery and went to her parents. and informed that she did not want to continue the conjugal life anymore.Againn another one year spoiled .
My questions are:
(1)If I should start sending money again to show that I did not want to neglect her.
(2)They are using my soft corner to my little angel.How this dirty tricks to ex tore money be stopped? If there is any way to continue my son's education immediately with legal help.
(3) How many days I should wait to rouse their 'Soobooddhi"?.Now school is asking the students status.
I want to do everything for my beloved son.Is there any way to get back the child custody.he is just 5 yrs and 5 months.
Thanks in advance for your kind advice.
ramesh
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 01 April 2013
contact local lawyer.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 01 April 2013
1. Yes you should send at least for the sake of your son.
2. No need. Keep track of his education.
3.File custody suit. You may not get his immediately bit you would get visitation rights soon.
