Divorce case
mittumit
(Querist) 09 November 2011
This query is : Resolved
we have six years relationship.. but due to some pandit girl side got totally against our relation..our communication was stopped..but we contacted each other throgh emails..in 1month we exchanged 1600 mails..nd finally we ran away..nd did registry under special marriage..but to b honest my family supported..they did lawyer nd all..nd also in witness all three signatures r of my family members..after that also with lot of difficulty hindu marriage took place after 2 month..recently we had some issues..c went to her mom place for some pooja...there c cried infront of her mom dad...her mom said c wont go..i went to take her..there her father is telling me that mr. now ball is in my court, ladki mer side hai..again both of our communication is broke...now its situation of divorce..they want divorce..1stly girl said me to manage her father...but now as time past...c is also misguided..they threated me nd my family ..498 domestic violence nd so so..nd so at last vt no option left they made me sign in mutual agreement for divorce nd is about to file that petition in court..i want to know in court..during 1st motion vl court give importance to our 6 years relationship before marriage..nd secondly can court ask me about that 1600 mails...3rdly in second motion if i go in court nd say that i dont want divorce.. than what vl happen...
Sankaranarayanan
(Expert) 09 November 2011
Mr mitumit , why you running behind her again, she also accepted to mutual, if she really love you then sure her activities are against her parents. but as per your words she too not willing to come back .
Without willing to live with you , then how the life going smoothly. so get the dv order and lead the new happy life.
If she is willing to re patch your relation then you get the advise of your local lawyer and go according his/her advise.
best of luck
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 09 November 2011
What do you want?
If you love her, why are you afraid of cases? Put the facts before the court and deny divorce.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 09 November 2011
yes,the court may try for reconciliation; 2 ndly depends court may ask about emails if any reference arise.3rdly even if you do not go ,no consent divorce shall be passed,then
when you shall expressly deny the court shall not pass a consented divorce decree.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 09 November 2011
if your wife dosent want to stay with you better divorce her by mutual consent . you may still lover but if even after 6 years of relation ship your wife wants to break up with you agree . if you contest it will be a messy diovr fight
Ravikant Soni
(Expert) 09 November 2011
.i want to know in court..during 1st motion vl court give importance to our 6 years relationship before marriage..nd secondly can court ask me about that 1600 mails...3rdly in second motion if i go in court nd say that i dont want divorce.. than what vl happen...
The gist of answer is, you can withdraw you consent and say in court that you dont want divorce. nothing vl happen.
But you might have to face the revenge of frustrating girl in form of DV and 498A.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 11 November 2011
Fear my friend is your biggest enemy.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
