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Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 30 December 2010 This query is : Resolved
sir i m nautical officer in m. navy.i got married on july2010.it was a arranged marriage.but things got drastically wrong after the marriage.my wife is doctor by profession.she started misbehaving with my parents in all ways possible-whenever resented threatning to commit suicide.my father filed an fir in the local police station in august-10.after that misbehaviour got to its height(example:calling them names,abusing them,treating them as slaves).my repeated confrontation doesnot end this.so i shifted out of house to a rented house in the same city.now misbehaviour started towards me-ill-treating me,damaging my laptop,causing all shorts of hindrance to my preparation for exams.vitually she moved out to her father house in oct-10.now i decided to return to my parents.after about 20 days her father came along with her to my house to accomodate for a mutual understanding.ultimately an understanding was reached verbally.everything was ok for about a week.after that again tantrums started.one day on 24th dec tantrums were so loud that my neighbours intervened.she then called the police accusing us of harassing her by calling the neighbours.police came to our house and me and my father were summoned to the police station.my mother in law is politically affluent and she was waiting with oc in police station.we were verbally threatened by police-and was told to bring my wife home and we should oblige to all her demands.if she complains again we will be put under bars.NO COMPLAINTS WERE REGISTERED AGAINST US.i brought her home and she now lives as a queen ordering everyone to her knees.now i decided to leave the house again to somewhere rented,but she refused to go and will stay in my house even in my absence.sirs,i am a mariner and i have to go for sailing in every few months for 4-5 months.my parents are old and ailing.my wife is notorious and can frame them with rape and murder or may poison them also.PLZ ADVISE WHAT LEGAL COURSE I SHOULD TAKE TO PROTECT MY PARENTS IMMEDIATLY AND EVENTUALLY DIVORCE THIS WOMAN.

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adv. rajeev ( rajoo ) (Expert) 30 December 2010
Some times it becomes very difficult to advise in the family matters. There is something wrong with your wife. What she want you only know that, so it is better to solve the problems between your selves by discussing. Definitely your problem will be solved

G. ARAVINTHAN (Expert) 30 December 2010
it is not possible to prove her act of cruelty before Court of Law. So try to move amicably with her.

Some time separate living will give better results

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 30 December 2010
but she doesnot want to live separate.she will continue same backed by my inlaws political influence.arent there any laws that help me file divorce against her.even if all evidence goes against me can i not get a divorce on grounds of marital disharmony.plz suggest me the consequences-i just want to go all out for the divorce.plz note i am a hindu.

yogesh (Expert) 30 December 2010
Divorce in such circumstances is very difficult to get unless mutually agreed If it possible try to sort the matter amicably either to continue with marriage or quit the marriage by mutual consent

SAANJAAY GUPTAA (Expert) 30 December 2010
consult your father in law and state all the matters again to him as he come to you once for negotiations, as you stated she is doctor engaged her in some clinic or open a new doctor's chamber for her to get engaged there hope it will solve your some of problem by engaging her in some of her choice of work.

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 31 December 2010
sirs, plz suggest me any legal method not to allow her in my house-if she stays here i will virtually lose one of my parents due to her torment-filing injunction by my father will help?

Arun Kumar Bhagat (Expert) 08 January 2011
File divorce on the grounds stated and on the ground that marriage has irretrievably broken (a new ground included by amendment).

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