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Difficult in adjusting with husband

Hi , I got married 3 years ago. We were living with in laws for more than an year and later we started lving alone.
I have been given several advises from my husband on my behaviour irrespective of what is right and wrong and he wants me to obey it. I am not liking it. I am a working professional and i take care of my paretns. I give money to them and he doesn like me giving money to him which i came to know very recently. Also , he acts as if he is very gud in front of everyone. Which is not true. unable to read his mind. Every day we quarrel some times he will also abuse my physically.I want to get seperated. Please advice.