Anonymous
26 May 2011 at 22:59
[a] I reside in Mumbai and wife in Pune due to employment of each of us.
[b] We married in 2001 in Mumbai, marriage certificate issued under the Special Marriage Act. We resided together in Mumbai till June 2006. Then I was transferred to Southern State, she continued in Mumabi till May 2008 and then shifted to Pune and now is in Pune.
[c] Occasionally we stayed together -like leave and vacation.
[d] Both of us are independent and there is no question or need of paying anything to each other, ready to waive right.
[f] No other issue exists that will create difficulty or complication. My questions are :-
[g] (i) Where to file a mutual consent petition is a question before me. Whether in Mumbai or Pune? (ii) Whether the petition will be in Family Court or regular civil court? (iii) Which place will give us a faster relief.
syed
26 May 2011 at 21:28
Respected,
I have a serious doubt,
wife claim maintanance court granted in husbands salary but how its calculated
1/3 or 1/2 of full salary ( CTC of the month)
1/3 or 1/2 of full salary ( after any deduction like HRA, specisl allowance, variable allowance etc)
1/3 or 1/2 of Basic salary what husbands get
Anonymous
26 May 2011 at 14:47
My father owned a Pagdi system shop in Mumbai and my father had nominated me and my brother & the landlord was issuing Rent Receipt on three names 1) My Father 2) Myself 3) My Brother.
My question is, my brother has transferred the said shop on his name without my signature. Can he do this without my signature, as I am one of the owners of the shop?
Vikrant Goel
26 May 2011 at 14:19
I have enough evidence against Judiciary and my in-laws to prove myself innocent. But i cant take risk of my children future as i am the only care taker. Unless i get rid of the case & get divorce i can not even expedite as i m much sensible towards my children future. I am from a reputed family and it is not possible for anyone to get illiciate relation evidence so easily as she and her family are very carefull about the things as they know all law. i have agreed to their demand of money and a affidavit stating that i will not take any action against them after divorce. Can i expidite my case after giving affidavit for a social cause to let people know how judges & its staff missuses law and judiciary.
syed
26 May 2011 at 13:26
Respected,
Married on 2005 in chennai, she left home after 5 months citing reasons ( harrasment/ torture etc which is not true), 2007 march she left bangalore with her family, all these 02 years i was in gulf but visit india in small vacations several times. jan 2008 i settled in hyderabad to continue relationship by leaving gulf & other abroad oppertunities. Went sevral times to call her in bangalore but she didnt, In 2008 last quarter she started caling me to send separation papers, but i moved to court for RCR in febraury 2009 despite of knowing & reciving notice she didnt attend haring, I got exparte, after then also i waited for some time then we met her uncles few times in bangalore finally they brought her chennai on july 2010, infront of both the family members she agreed to stay with me in hyderabad as house wife. she stayed only for 4 months, in december 2010 once again she stayed in her mother home in bangalore after bakrid festival vacation and still continued. We went to call her on march 2011 but she & mother send us empty handed. Now am moving to chennai, once i reach chennai i decided to call her once again if she joins alhamdullilah - if she didnt join me then decided to divorce her, now i need your guidience on what to do if she didnt join
1) whether i have to apply RCR again or i can send talaq notice directly to her with IDDAT period ( as providing IDDAT period time itself is a kind of reconcialtion effor which give time to wife to think and join husband)
2) already am having Exparte, again i have to apply for RCR or in previous RCR itself i can continue the case
3) I can apply RCR and send the first talaq notice at the same time
4) by keeping 2009 exparte notice i can send the talaq notice without applying for RCR now
Any other issues or guidiance which arises need you to please bring to notice to follow
Anonymous
26 May 2011 at 11:31
Hi,
I got married 2 years back and things were fine for 1 year. After 1 year she got pregnant and after that her parents took her to their home without informing you. i went to my inlaws house and tried to talk to her but she did not talk but her parents talkes abusivly.
then she field a 498a case against me n my family to which we took some middle person and held a meeting and they agreed to cancel the case and she will come with me.
By that time i got a job in bangalore and she came to bangalore. She stayed for few days and when asked for the case closure she did not give any satisfactory response and flew back to her parents home again without informing.
Now she has delived the kid and staying with her parents. I have tried to talk to her , her parents but she is not giving a clear response.
Sometime she says she wanted to come and sometimes not.
I am not able to understand what she is upto and this thing is going on for 1 year nw.
I am not able to focus on work or stay calm on things.
Please suggest what i shd do in this case.
fahim
25 May 2011 at 19:49
My question is: if a sikh girl married according to sikh marriage ceremony to a sikh guy. If she converts herself to another religion say Islam, then in that case will her current marriage be still considered or become void and null?
I mean to say, will she still be considered as married to that sikh guy, as according to sikh religion only sikhs should be married according to Anand Karaj (The sikh marriage ceremony).
Anonymous
25 May 2011 at 18:13
sir/madam
my father had 2 wives i am from 2 wife. my father died in 1982.till now my step brother have not given us our share in my fathers property.can i file a legal suit in court now.pls advice
thank u
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Help to save marriage
Hi, I am writing this on behalf of my close friend who needs advise.
Her story goes as under.
Married in March 2009. Matrimonial issues with inlaws. Husband used to take side of in laws. She used to talk extensively to her family. Husband came to know this and also she used to share minute details of her family life with her family. Relations were strained between families. She wanted her husband to look after her family also. Husband denied. She had quarrels wth in laws and husband used to support them. In November 2010 she left for her paternal home by calling her parents and packing her bags.Husband took a stand that she has left home, if she wants let her come. Husband filed for divorce in Jan 2011. It was a shocker to her and her family. Being felt devasted she filed a RCR, police complain and also a DV.
Looking back at past she still wants her husband back. Her husband is a very intellectual man with social status. I told her that she was lucky to be his wife when they got married. Her in laws are also rich.
Wrong things done by her were she filed police complain and DV but this she says was for her protection and was advised by her lawyer and others in family. Also shes done things to hamper husbands career. She stupidly went on trips in india after divorce with her family to divert her mind and feel better.
Looking at future it looks dark coz if this divorce goes through then she will be losing on a well settled independend husband having high social status and intellect. Also she is good looking now but what after 3-4 yrs...it will all be lost. Now shes even thinking that the second person will also be a divorcee and how will the second marriage sustain.
I have following questions,
1. Can this marriage be saved ?
2. how to save this marriage ?
3. Both have not spoken for months now. What can be done to get husband back ??
4. There is Divorce and RCR case. Which will take precedence ? Can court ask husband for RCR and stay together and divorce would be consideration after that ?
5. Wifes demanded maintenance. She was a house wife. Its too much coz her husband is earning more than affording luxurious life style.
My personal general question is ?
To be fair to husband his hard earned money will be spent by wife even though shes not staying with him. How fair is this ? Coz a girl can go in for live-in and enjoy at hard earned money with some other guy ? Is there any way court can monitor this by way of law ?
6. My friend thinks that husband shud come and take her back. What steps should she take if this has to be materialized ?
7. Now does RCR takes precedence over Divorce case ? If yes then can the court ask husband to co habitat with wife ? If husband doesnt follow court order then what will happen ? Will the husband be ounished ? Is divorce eminent.
8. How does Indian society look at divorcee women ??
9. Mens in this forum who are seeking 2nd marriage may throw some light as to what would they do when approaching a divorcee for second marriage ?? Am sure men will think 100 times after bitter experience in 1st marriage.
10. Kindly suggest me as to how should I make them unite together so that divorce can be avoided. Wife still thinks that her husband will come back. However to be honest shes not done enuf which can bring him back. Instead shes done detrimental things may be coz of ego/revenge/family pressure etc.
11. How is life after divorce ? Only divorced females in the forum can throw some light. I can help her know that thisis what will happen in future.....
12. In todays society his there any possibility of second marriages to sustain ???
Your help in this regard will certainly help me in a way to unite them together......
Thanks