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Anonymous   13 August 2018 at 06:47

Plan to cancel marriage after engagement

Hello Sir, I'm the groom.
Few months back my parents found a bride in Matrimony portal on January 2018 [resident of Bangalore, & origin is Tamil].
Our engagement happened on April 2018. [We wanted a family girl who doesn't work. Luckily she was 1 year free after completing her graduation and was jobless.]


Some background History :
From the beginning [till engagement] the father of the bride was not actively speaking with my parents or me.
Only her mother used to interact. She speaks to me over the phone often [Takes more time than Bride over phone].
I respect my elders, so I can't cut the call abruptly, so , I kept listening to all her conversations.
But, She always speaks bad about her Husband's family. How they tortured her. How they tried to stop her marriage.
She always praises about erself on how as a single woman she brought up her daughter.

One fine day before engagement the below conversation happened :
Bride's Mom : I want my daughter to work. She doesn't have value for work & money.
Me : We wanted a girl who doesn't work and take care of family very well.
Bride's Mom : Yes. I know. But, she should understand the importance of money and how difficult it is outside.
Also, she wants to clear her education loan by herself.
Me : She graduated a year back. Why she hasn't found a job all these time.
Bride's Mom : According to her horoscope her time is not good. Now she has good time to get even a stable Govt. Jobs as well.
Me : But Aunty, I don't want my wife to work. Are you asking her to work for educational loan alone ? If so i can take care of the loan.
Bride's Mom : No no. It will be very bad for me to put the loan on groom, I will never do that. I asked you only for her to realize the importance of money.
And the hardships we face to earn it. If you are not happy let's leave this topic.

After Engagement [Father started to get along well after engagement] :
My Fiance suddenly calls me and say's, I need to work. I got a notice. To pay educational loan.
I asked, we agreed that you won't work right ? Why suddenly you are changing the plan ?
She said, even you agreed to pay the educational loan.
I was confused. I'm in middle of office work and she was very nervous.
I don't remember signing a stamp paper to anyone that I'll bear it.
Still, I'm kind hearted. I asked her to calm down and said, "Please ask you parents to pay minimum emi at least. After marriage I'll pay the balance.
I never refused. I just told, I can't give you any money before marriage. My parents won't be happy. After , marriage I'll pay it.
She was blackmailing, If you trust me then pay now. Else police will catch me. I need to goto work.
I directly told, Inform my parents about this.

After a while, her father called me. Asking that i only agreed to pay the loan. And conversation went on This way.

From this day my life is messed up. I was called as cheater and faker for not paying the loan. They have our gold ornaments worth 1.5 Lakhs [that we gave for engagement] and still call me as cheater.
From that date till now lot's of cheap things they started to do. Lot's of meaningless arguments. I can't resist. They try to pull my mount. They Irritate me during sleep.

I NEED AN EXPERT ADVISE HERE.
I HAVE MANY MORE DATA TO ADD BUT THE DATA IS SOO HUGE THAT ILL END UP WRITTING A LITTLE BOOK IN THIS PORTAL

Please help me in correct direction. What they can do next. How I can protect myself from these kind of scams.

Anonymous   12 August 2018 at 00:57

to whom go all this property

all property are owned by grand mother & grand father and if they died then it goes to my fathers name if father also died before grand father & grand mother & my grand father brothers are there then the all property goes to whom grand father brothers or grand son

Anonymous   10 August 2018 at 17:15

Divorce

Hi . I and my husband live in Dubai separatly for 6 months . Wife has filed for divorce but my husband does not come for hearings. Should I apply a divorce case in India as husband is not willing to give divorce as we have 3 yr old son. Husband abuses verbally and physically. We are married for 10 years. Husband does not support financially aswell.

Arjav Mehta   10 August 2018 at 16:37

Divorce part

Dear Expert,
My friend married before 15 years and she had two kid ,due to quarrel with husband since so many times, she left her house and stay with her mother and father, she had appointed a lawyer and submitted case under sec 13 (HMP), now husband's lawyer told that we have to go to reconciliation and we dont want divorce.
My friend' s lawyer denied to seat under mediation and Judge told that have to follow the rules.
My friend dont want to go back with her husband .

Dear Expert, let me know the pros and cons in this situation.




Ajay   09 August 2018 at 17:12

Marriage

SUPPOSE IF HUSBAND OBTAINED EXPARTE DIVORCE BY PLAYING FRAUD UPON THE COURT AND AS WELL AS OPPSITE PARTY AND DONE SECOND MARRAIGE.

came across one of the situation where husbad has send notices to first wifes vaccant house by misleading his wife and court and in lieu of his cheif evidence he created his presence in family court while he was judicial custody for offence 498a and obtained exparte divorce by palying fraud upon the court.

this was came to know by first wife after 1 year while set aside on the above grouds court has taken sumoto and cacelled the divorce and declerared he palyed fraud upon the court.

now recently first wife came to know during this one year of gap already the husband married another lady and she got all valid proofs of second marraige. But husband never said about his second maraige any where.

My questions for above are..

1) Is he guilty for the offence of bigamy?

2)is second marraige is valid?
Any leading judgments relating to these issues?

Anonymous   09 August 2018 at 15:53

Divorce reasons

Hello, I am working in PVT company, recently in last week I wrongly pinged on WhatsApp to a married lady, after that we got friends n we started chatting, day before yesterday I got call from her husband, he scold me very badly n he was calling me again n again n now he told me that he was suppose to give her divorce but now he find a reason for giving her divorce. He also said that he will write my name & number in that divorce case which he was going to file.
Please suggest me what to do if he will really do this.

Anonymous   08 August 2018 at 19:32

Divorce

I got married 3 month back after one and half month my husband saying he want divorce because he is not able to falling in love with me so he need divorce and now I got pregnant so now he is saying abort our baby n we will file divorce he don't wAnt to stay with me so what should I do please help me because I don't want abort my baby n I don't want divorce please help me

PANKAJ H MEHTA   08 August 2018 at 13:36

To live in relationship with married man

my Daughter is in Love with a man who is married and having children too.

Now Both of them and his family member has decided to accept my Daughter. What should I do to ?

Please guide and for safer side I do not want any liability in future if they stay together.

Anonymous   08 August 2018 at 10:46

125 crpc

My father has obtained an interim maintenance order of Rs 8000/- per month from the local court where he resides at Agra. That court started putting pressure on me to pay the accumulated amount. I stay in the city of Lucknow, so could not attend the proceedings. I made part payment from the money I had. In next few months I got the case transferred to Lucknow from Agra as per the location restrictions under 125 crpc for parents. Can I (my lawyer) request the family court in Lucknow to reject the interim order issued by Agra court as it has no jurisdiction as I stay in Lucknow so that case can start from the beginning at Lucknow court. Kindly guide.

Ankur..